Missed connection?

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    Jul 08, 2008 4:14 PM GMT
    Hey guys, this is probably a lame question but i'm going to ask anyway.

    How do you rekindle missed connections with a guy? The reason I ask is because over the weekend I met this guy at my friends birthday party who was really cool. We were talking the whole night, and then after a while he would start looking at me and wink, raising his eyebrows, a couple times he started rubbing my back while we were in the pool....but stupid, oblivious me didn't have the balls to do anything. At the end of the night he asked to drive me to my car which was parked basically right next to his....he kept asking me where I was headed, what I was doing the rest of the night, but I didn't make anything of it at the time. Now, I only know his name, and thats it!

    Is this lame or what

    So, question being, is it possible to rekindle things like that? Am I reading way to much into it?
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    Jul 08, 2008 4:17 PM GMT
    Ugh this all sounds familiar, haha - it's happened to me before. And hell yea it's possible to rekindle that, it sounds like he really liked you! Call your friends, see if you can find out more about him - his email or phone number, and ask him out. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 08, 2008 4:19 PM GMT
    You think?? I wish I was ballsier - I wouldn't even have to do this! I can ask my friend for his number and see if she has it
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    Jul 08, 2008 4:20 PM GMT
    Yes it is, but rekindle fast otherwise he meant get the impression you did not find him attractive. If he is around your age then that is even more likely (horny teens and all that).
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    Jul 08, 2008 4:23 PM GMT
    Yeah hes 22...
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    Jul 08, 2008 4:32 PM GMT
    What do I say when/if I get his number and call him?? Clearly Im awful with these things
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    Jul 08, 2008 9:04 PM GMT
    Who gave the party? Whoever that is probably knows this guy. This has happened to me too, and I found him!
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    Jul 08, 2008 9:21 PM GMT
    call the party's host - find out his contact info - and call the hottie! tell him flat out, "i missed the signals until later. can i make it up to you over dinner?" boom. done. go have fun!
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    Jul 08, 2008 9:23 PM GMT
    Craigslist and post under "Missed Connections"
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    Jul 08, 2008 9:30 PM GMT
    a1972guy saidCraigslist and post under "Missed Connections"


    NO! icon_lol.gif

    Call your friend, get his number. Start off by reminding him who you are haha. If it was this past weekend, and he was as enamored with you as you say - he'll remember.

    I'd just say that you had a great time at the party, and enjoyed his company - and would like to enjoy more of it. Then ask him out from there. I'd suggest a dinner of some sort so you can get to know him better. A setting that will allow for conversation. I assume you want to get to know him?

    If not, and you're just looking for fun then invite him over to watch a movie. Yes, we all know what that's really code for. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 08, 2008 9:35 PM GMT
    BostonVball said[quote]

    NO! icon_lol.gif

    Call your friend, get his number. Start off by reminding him who you are haha. If it was this past weekend, and he was as enamored with you as you say - he'll remember.

    I'd just say that you had a great time at the party, and enjoyed his company - and would like to enjoy more of it. Then ask him out from there. I'd suggest a dinner of some sort so you can get to know him better. A setting that will allow for conversation. I assume you want to get to know him?

    If not, and you're just looking for fun then invite him over to watch a movie. Yes, we all know what that's really code for. icon_twisted.gif


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    HAHAHAHAHA!!! Ok, so maybe you're a LITTLE right! But what if he doesn't want his friends involved?!?!?
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    Jul 08, 2008 9:42 PM GMT
    hahaha thanks guys im going to call him tomorrow, I got his number from my friend who had the party!
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    Jul 08, 2008 9:47 PM GMT
    gymrat389 saidHey guys, this is probably a lame question but i'm going to ask anyway.

    How do you rekindle missed connections with a guy? The reason I ask is because over the weekend I met this guy at my friends birthday party who was really cool. We were talking the whole night, and then after a while he would start looking at me and wink, raising his eyebrows, a couple times he started rubbing my back while we were in the pool....but stupid, oblivious me didn't have the balls to do anything. At the end of the night he asked to drive me to my car which was parked basically right next to his....he kept asking me where I was headed, what I was doing the rest of the night, but I didn't make anything of it at the time. Now, I only know his name, and thats it!

    Is this lame or what

    So, question being, is it possible to rekindle things like that? Am I reading way to much into it?


    Hang on, people still wink without any sense of irony!?!
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    Jul 08, 2008 9:50 PM GMT
    Ghen said[quote][cite]gymrat389 said[/cite]Hey guys, this is probably a lame question but i'm going to ask anyway.

    How do you rekindle missed connections with a guy? The reason I ask is because over the weekend I met this guy at my friends birthday party who was really cool. We were talking the whole night, and then after a while he would start looking at me and wink, raising his eyebrows, a couple times he started rubbing my back while we were in the pool....but stupid, oblivious me didn't have the balls to do anything. At the end of the night he asked to drive me to my car which was parked basically right next to his....he kept asking me where I was headed, what I was doing the rest of the night, but I didn't make anything of it at the time. Now, I only know his name, and thats it!

    Is this lame or what

    So, question being, is it possible to rekindle things like that? Am I reading way to much into it?


    Hang on, people still wink without any sense of irony!?![/quote]

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    Jul 08, 2008 10:09 PM GMT
    a1972guy said[quote][cite]BostonVball said[/cite][quote]

    NO! icon_lol.gif

    Call your friend, get his number. Start off by reminding him who you are haha. If it was this past weekend, and he was as enamored with you as you say - he'll remember.

    I'd just say that you had a great time at the party, and enjoyed his company - and would like to enjoy more of it. Then ask him out from there. I'd suggest a dinner of some sort so you can get to know him better. A setting that will allow for conversation. I assume you want to get to know him?

    If not, and you're just looking for fun then invite him over to watch a movie. Yes, we all know what that's really code for. icon_twisted.gif


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    HAHAHAHAHA!!! Ok, so maybe you're a LITTLE right! But what if he doesn't want his friends involved?!?!?
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    Haha.. kinda looks like me icon_razz.gif I'm not a LITTLE right, I'm very right... Craigslist isn't what he's looking for lol. If he just wanted to shag, then yes. Craigslist and Mancunt would be the places I would suggest.

    But this was a friends party (a female friend... no competition there icon_wink.gif ) There's not harm in getting a little info.

    You can see Maya Angelou talk about Craigslist here:

    http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/big_gay_sketch_show_2/opinion_poll.jhtml

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    Jul 08, 2008 10:15 PM GMT
    BostonVball said


    Haha.. kinda looks like me icon_razz.gif I'm not a LITTLE right, I'm very right... Craigslist isn't what he's looking for lol. If he just wanted to shag, then yes. Craigslist and Mancunt would be the places I would suggest.

    But this was a friends party (a female friend... no competition there icon_wink.gif ) There's not harm in getting a little info.

    You can see Maya Angelou talk about Craigslist here:

    http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/big_gay_sketch_show_2/opinion_poll.jhtml

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