Love...for the win.
I posted it , but let me go into detail
Family is what you have, not what you chose. They are connected to you for life, but they dont always love you unconditionaly and sometimes if you are like me, they are the sole cause of your pain and misery.
I dont speak to my family, especially my sisters, and my mom is dead...all I care about is my dad.
So if i found pure love with someone where, I can be unguarded and uncensored and let him in. I would do it, because he would love me for me and would not disrespect me for my differences...he would love me for them.
So yes LOVE LOVE LOVE.