Caius saidNo clubs here lol. And I came to so close to asking my car hop to be my friend. This whole situation just freaks me out cause it's so weird. Like even if I talk to someone and connect it's not like they're gonna say hey lets hangout! It's just gonna be a good conversation with a stranger. Happens all the time.
But that is how it starts...
Look I use to feel the same way, but when I started working for Verizon. I decided to let my personality show.
I would have good convos with people, and ask them for their number and gave them mine. Bring up interest you like. Hell ill give you an example.
ill be James..since my name is James.
"Hi James wassup"
me-"Nothing Much Jake just thinking about what movie im gonna see this weekend"
Jake-" Oh, I wanna see that new scary movie"
me-"I love scary movies, there is one coming out called Kill that bitch 3, you wanna go"
Jake-SUre man...why not.
me- ok give me yo number and ill call you...
See and thats how it goes. You share interest if you have any and go from there and you find out interest by making a conversation, and u make conversation by going up and speaking.
I kept doing it, and before I knew it I had a few friends who took me places I never been before and even though i quit working for Verizon i have good friends.
There is something out there...but if you keep making excuses on why u cant make friends...then you wont. Stop saying, I cant, or i wont, and just try.
Everyone could use new friends.
Hell i even asked a few people upfront.
You wanna be my friend...and they said
You have to make the effort.