What Personality Turns You On

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    Mar 11, 2012 9:45 PM GMT
    Looks may get you through the door, but personality keeps you in the house.

    I always wonder what do men look for in other men, in a deeper aspect.
    SO I thought I would ask.

    DO you want brainy, strong, laid back, upfront, quiet, sensitive or a mix of all?

    Are some more important than others?

    I know for me I like guys who are A type I personally named

    "Rock Candy" haha

    Hard and rough but sweet.

    Nothing hotter to me than a Rough guy who loves bunnies.

    how bout you?

    If I could find a Wrestler, MMA Fighter, or Construction Worker who likes Care Bears and flowers I would be his for life and make all his dirty perverted fantasies come to life.
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    Mar 12, 2012 2:35 AM GMT
    warriors. someone with a true fighting spirit. someone who doesn't give up even if they're losing, and even when they lose, they still don't let the other person enjoy it.

    only someone like that can truly understand and satiate my needs. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 12, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    someone whos funny and cares about others. I am so turned off by narcissism and self centered ppl who have stiff sense of humors.

    I like laid back guys who can take a joke and enjoy bein goofy icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 12, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    Brooding, dark, enigmatic...
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    Mar 12, 2012 2:40 AM GMT
    ChilaxinJOCK09 saidsomeone whos funny and cares about others. I am so turned off by narcissism and self centered ppl who have stiff sense of humors.

    I like laid back guys who can take a joke and enjoy bein goofy icon_smile.gif


    I'll second that and add that "protector" quality that some people have. Not that I need protecting icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 12, 2012 2:42 AM GMT
    Shrill, erratic, taciturn, volatile, inconsistent, untraceable, combustible. Fuuuck yeaaaah icon_redface.gif
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    Mar 12, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    Preferably a recovering serial killer, because they're so sweet and cuddly. icon_biggrin.gif
  • tautomer

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    Mar 12, 2012 3:30 AM GMT
    Someone who is a laid back, care free, a planner, communicative, intelligent, friendly, not shy at all, and physically animated.
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    Mar 12, 2012 4:04 AM GMT
    Somebody dorky with a great sense of humor. They also have to have high intellect as well as a bit of quirkiness about them. I like a guy who isn't a social butterfly but is more about having deep personal connections with those he cares about.
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    Mar 12, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    ChilaxinJOCK09 saidsomeone whos funny and cares about others. I am so turned off by narcissism and self centered ppl who have stiff sense of humors.

    I like laid back guys who can take a joke and enjoy bein goofy icon_smile.gif


    I know right, sense of humor is so hott.
    Goofy makes me smile
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    Mar 12, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
    Someone who is intelligent. Not book-smart, or arrogant but someone who loves learning/trying new things all the time.

    Someone who is driven but humble.
    Caring but not cheesy
    Strong but not cold-hearted

    And laughter... Sense of the humor is #1 for me.
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    Mar 12, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
    witty/confident
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    Mar 12, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    hitler
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    Mar 12, 2012 5:25 AM GMT
    I am pretty tough I think, but I tend to like guys that are tougher than me. icon_redface.gif
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    Mar 12, 2012 5:41 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidShrill, erratic, taciturn, volatile, inconsistent, untraceable, combustible. Fuuuck yeaaaah icon_redface.gif


    STOP FLIRTING WITH ME!!!!!!!

    and you left out melancholy, cruel and whiney.
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    Mar 12, 2012 5:43 AM GMT
    Cornfedbronco saidI am pretty tough I think, but I tend to like guys that are tougher than me. icon_redface.gif


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    Mar 12, 2012 5:44 AM GMT
    A sense of humor that fits mine is probably the most important. I find the absurdest things funny..think family guy. Today, a tiny girl ran to the elevator I was in and the guy standing closest to the door just stood and stared at her while it closed. Didn't even flinch to keep it open. I need a guy who'll laugh at her with me.

    Probably a sense of adventure is next. I CAN'T stay put. I need someone who'll travel with me and do stuff with. I don't think I could end up with someone who can't ride rollercoasters either.

    And I guess last one is a go with the flow attitude. no need for drama.
  • aj101

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    Mar 12, 2012 5:57 AM GMT
    I like people who are considerate and compassionate towards others. Modesty and humilty get me. I hate people who self centered.
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    Mar 12, 2012 6:10 AM GMT
    the geeky gentleman type w/ a good body.
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    Mar 12, 2012 6:12 AM GMT
    if you want to know what personality type you are, take the test. it's creepy accurate. http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2208757
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    Mar 12, 2012 6:14 AM GMT
    JPtheBITCH saidI like people with a sincere appreciation of Alfred E. Neuman.

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    The Bush Presidency forever ruined that iconic image for me. All I can see now is Dubya.
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    Mar 12, 2012 6:34 AM GMT
    A confident, outgoing guy who has a good sense of humour (sardonic wit and goofiness makes me melt) - can laugh at himself... hmmm and someone who is nice/friendly and also has a sensitive side icon_smile.gif
  • araphael

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    Mar 12, 2012 8:34 AM GMT
    I simply like a couple of things in guys: but i'm descendant from a family of men who are mechnics. Be honest, be sexy when you make love, and don't pretend to be something that you aren't. I don't pretend and so I guess I expect the same from others. But I'm probablly a fool when it comes to other other people. I tell you my weaknesses up front so you don't have to guess about that. If you're honest too, you will do the same, and so we can actually deal with each other honestly and build a relationship of some kind. The liars, they deceive and then bring the relationship to an end abruptly because they lied and said that they were something they are not. I like to figure out what's wrong with the machine and then fix it. I can't do that if no one tells me the truth about why the machine doesn't work. But I'm the strange one in our world actually and I know this, ha ha.
  • Makferson

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    Mar 12, 2012 9:06 AM GMT
    caring, strong and smart, smarter than me preferablyicon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 12, 2012 9:15 AM GMT
    I like someone who can be really cocky/confident in the bedroom that can take charge BUT who is also really sweet/sensitive outside of any bedroom antics.

    Basically a man who has a lot of male but also some female in them.

    So my spin on the OP's awesome term is 'Cocky Candy'. Did contemplate using 'Hard Candy' icon_biggrin.gif