ANIMALISTIC DESIRE

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    Mar 12, 2012 2:29 PM GMT
    Not sure if i'm explaining this correctly, but for me the desire to be with guys is less about being gay and more about fullfilling my animalistic desires to get as down and dirty as possible with what Society tells me Is wrong. Does this make sense or am I just nuts or in denial.....
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    Mar 12, 2012 2:32 PM GMT
    richie66 saidNot sure if i'm explaining this correctly, but for me the desire to be with guys is less about being gay and more about fullfilling my animalistic desires to get as down and dirty as possible with what Society tells me Is wrong. Does this make sense or am I just nuts or in denial.....


    I think that's what's called Ah-N-I-M-A-L, or just plain horny. Grrrrrrr !
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    Mar 12, 2012 3:24 PM GMT
    In denial.....
  • Generaleclect...

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    Mar 12, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    So basically... you're gay?
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    Mar 12, 2012 7:53 PM GMT
    Fuck The Man- fuck a man.
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    Mar 12, 2012 8:38 PM GMT
    Generaleclectic saidSo basically... you're gay?



    yup
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    Mar 12, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIn denial.....


    +1
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    Mar 12, 2012 9:02 PM GMT
    Are you a product of a long life lived in the closet? Are you involved in any conservative christian groups? Would your friends ever enable you to make bad choices by saying you don't know any better? If so, whatever is in your head is a result of not knowing how to connect with other men in more than a sexual way. If this is the case, the there is a cure. Get with other gay men in the gay community that you fuck, and learn what gay means to them. You may not like everything you hear, but it'll up front honest and will help you deal with whatever demons you've got internalized into you mind.

    For me, I'm able to connect with men emotionally, sexual and mentally. I have had short lived relationships with men like you. They identify as gay, but are unable to get passed the sexual aspect of connecting with guys. May have less to do with the nature of homosexuality as a whole, than it does with your own persona.

    Nothing of this was meant to be an insult.
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    Mar 12, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidIt really all sort of depends. If really can't see yourself in any sort of relationship with anyone, male or female, and are not attracted at all to female, but are to males, you are a homosexual. Or if you feel you would like to be in a relationship with a man, then the same. You are homosexual.

    If the above is true but you are only recently become attracted you younger males, but have never been attracted to males either your age or older, when you were younger, then you are going through psychological issues facing the loss of your youth and are seeking to recapture it through sex with young men.

    If you feel you like sex with men but you could never live with one and would prefer to live with a woman ... then you are a homosexual with mommy issues.

    If you feel you like sex with men that are dominant but would not want to live with one and would prefer the to live with a woman ... you have daddy issues.

    If all you want to do is have sex with any man and you don't care what he looks like, smells like, his age, size or shape, then ya, you are nuts.



    thanks for your insights
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    Mar 12, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    Captain_Awesome saidAre you a product of a long life lived in the closet? Are you involved in any conservative christian groups? Would your friends ever enable you to make bad choices by saying you don't know any better? If so, whatever is in your head is a result of not knowing how to connect with other men in more than a sexual way. If this is the case, the there is a cure. Get with other gay men in the gay community that you fuck, and learn what gay means to them. You may not like everything you hear, but it'll up front honest and will help you deal with whatever demons you've got internalized into you mind.

    For me, I'm able to connect with men emotionally, sexual and mentally. I have had short lived relationships with men like you. They identify as gay, but are unable to get passed the sexual aspect of connecting with guys. May have less to do with the nature of homosexuality as a whole, than it does with your own persona.

    Nothing of this was meant to be an insult.


    didn't see this as an insult at all, it seemed like you being kind and trying to help...thanks
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    Mar 12, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    paulflexes saidIn denial.....


    +1


    you're probably correct
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    Mar 13, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    BuddyinNYC said
    richie66 saidNot sure if i'm explaining this correctly, but for me the desire to be with guys is less about being gay and more about fullfilling my animalistic desires to get as down and dirty as possible with what Society tells me Is wrong. Does this make sense or am I just nuts or in denial.....


    I think that's what's called Ah-N-I-M-A-L, or just plain horny. Grrrrrrr !


    Reading the posts after mine (the second) and before this, all I see is that the OP is a horny man, and, self proclaimed self-centered/selfish in that he cares more about his own satisfaction than his partner's. I admire that he himself can see himself like that, and actually see this as a rather common trait among gay men (though I assume common also with straight men). The OP makes it clear that he sees something wrong with it. IMO the best times are always based on reciprocity for mutual enjoyment to the fullest extent of the encounter. As for what "Society" or I think, he should do what makes him feel best and make changes if and when they are best for him.
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    Mar 13, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    richie66 saidNot sure if i'm explaining this correctly, but for me the desire to be with guys is less about being gay and more about fullfilling my animalistic desires to get as down and dirty as possible with what Society tells me Is wrong. Does this make sense or am I just nuts or in denial.....


    Sure what you are saying makes sense, but it sounds like you are attempting to some how rationalize your gayness because you don't really like the fact that you are gay and on some level you think it's not right--just sex. But I could be wrong, I don't know you. We all have our own different struggles with this thing we are.
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    Mar 13, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
    RRAAAAAWWWWRRRR! icon_twisted.gif!