The Perfect 10!?!?

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    Feb 26, 2007 2:45 AM GMT
    If there has to be one thing I learned in life about men-- it would be that a perfect 10 does not exists. I have found through lots and lots and lots of dating that men are always fucked up in one or two areas..... These 4 areas I found to be were: 1.) FACE 2.) BODY 3.) PERSONALITY 4.) DICK SIZE. All are important to the average vain gay male, but one is always more important than the other and the importance of the area can vary on the guys. We all mainly look on outwardly appearances such as the face and body; personality is learning and ever changing process and penis size can be checked determining the circumstances. So, What do you guys think?

  • Mar 09, 2007 11:33 AM GMT
    I think the 'perfect 10' could theoretically exist, we all have different 'types' that we find attractive. If someone's 'perfect 10' is 6'0 tall blonde hair, blue yes, exceptionally intelligent, with a 10" cock and the personality of Prince Charming....that sounds ideal for some people, but, it is the polar opposite of what I want in a man. I've been with someone close to that and it does wear off very quickly, but, at the time..he was the perfect 10 for me. I think as we change, our ideals change and perhaps even our standards, so for someone to be our perfect 10 eventually becomes much more attainable. I think every man's 'perfect 10' is definitely out there.
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    Mar 17, 2007 6:08 PM GMT
    The Perfect 10 is an idea created and perpetuated by individuals who have self-loathing issues. Self-loathing runs rampant across the globe. Hot people are deified, and fat people are demonized over and over and over again, even though we all know better.

    The only thing that really matters is what's inside. We have known this for centuries, but if it isn't on a teabag or bumper sticker or a reality show, people forget quickly. And when you're gay and hot, what's inside is not important until your exteriors begin to show signs of aging.
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    Mar 17, 2007 9:38 PM GMT
    Integrity!
  • GQjock

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    Apr 13, 2007 3:43 AM GMT
    Ahh..but as a great gay philosopher once said..."but is your Perfect 10 the same as mine?"
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    May 22, 2007 8:38 PM GMT
    The issue with the world is that everyone always looks at the pros. Whats good about this person, what good things can I get from this person and how can I benefit by knowing this person.

    And for me there's no such thing as a perfect 10 to people who look at other people in this way.

    I laugh at people who say that they are in love but complain and extremely hate the things that their spouse does. Or how they argument and find themselves just 3 words away from a break up.

    For me, its not just about the pros. A person is a fully 3 dimensional thing, with various different aspects that make them who they are.

    I love people for their flaws as much as I do their strengths and thats what creates a successful relationship I feel. Don't date people who's flaws you can't appreciate and you'll be happy and truly content with people who you surround yourself with.

    I know I sound crazy, but words cannot explain how powerful a bond is and how emotional and attached you can be to others when you truly love them as a whole. The good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly.

    When you find someone like that, then its very easy to speculate that there is a perfect 10
  • NicoTheGreat

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    Jun 18, 2007 6:47 PM GMT
    I think there's many more aspects to a guy in judging his "perfect 10 factor" than just those four you mentioned. I know a guy that has a great personality, a wonderful dick, is gorgeous beyond words, and has a killer body. But he's in a funky relationship, so I am only his friend with benefit (no worries, his boyfriend knows about me). I think in judging to see if someone is a perfect ten or not depends on if you're judging for a one night stand or someone more long term.

    And I would definitely have to agree with the many postings that everyone is different in their tastes on their "perfect 10." I could list a few guys who replied to this post that are possible perfect 10's for me, and you might completely disagree.

    Beauty is all in the eye of the beholder, perfect 10 or otherwise.
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    Feb 17, 2016 7:38 PM GMT
    im am not perfect, neither is my husband.
    Through the course of the six years living together (death of pets, parents and loved ones, lost jobs...) there is a good chance for any new bad we will work it out.
  • BloodFlame

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    Feb 17, 2016 9:07 PM GMT
    GQjock saidAhh..but as a great gay philosopher once said..."but is your Perfect 10 the same as mine?"


    This comment here. I honestly feel that there is no such thing as a "perfect 10" for every single guy because many people have different tastes in men (speaking for gay men here, I know it's the same for straight).

    I mean, using myself as an example. You always hear how the gay media says that the "perfect man" is the white, blonde, American jock and while I can say that yeah, those types are attractive from an objective standpoint, that isn't my perfect 10. My perfect 10 can vary because I don't prefer one race over the other. Okay, other than finding muscular builds incredibly appealing *the bigger the better in my eyes*, other than that, I find myself liking guys with dark hair and dark eyes over blonde/blue like the media portrays I should like. And again, I love men of all races so even then, I can find Black, white, Asian, middle eastern, etc men in that regard as well.

    But honestly, like Justme99 said, I don't even rank guys in number. IF I find a guy cute, attractive, etc, then that's all there is to it. I don't assign numbers to people because things can diminish a person you find appealing like a nasty behavior or rudeness.
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    Feb 19, 2016 12:03 AM GMT
    Justme99 said
    Even Cindy Crawford, a straight man's dream, is NOT a perfect 10.

    Honestly, she's really not that pretty.


    Now maybe, but back in the day she was just wow. Gorgeous.

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    Feb 19, 2016 12:15 AM GMT
    Justme99 said
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    Justme99 said
    Even Cindy Crawford, a straight man's dream, is NOT a perfect 10.

    Honestly, she's really not that pretty.


    Now maybe, but back in the day she was just wow. Gorgeous.

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    So, are you straight?

    It's okay that you like her. She should lose that mole, though.


    No, gay, but I can still appreciate a beautiful woman.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Feb 19, 2016 6:40 AM GMT
    IMHE, the perfect 10 is a bit less about the guys themselves and it is really more about how they mesh.

    Like it or not, almost every dude has his ideal type in mind. Life rarely provides for such ideal situations, and we all start negotiating our way into what is our own practical idea of the best we can do for ourselves.

    A dude who is totally focused on his looks alone usually looks like a perfect 10 to many or even most people. Once you start interacting with him, the chances are that he is and has to be totally self-centered, focused on maintaining what sells him best on the daily fresh meat market - his looks.

    So, there is hardly any time and energy left for him to interact in a meaningful manner with anyone else.

    I figured out soon enough that a VGL next door dude who ain't all into admiring his looks has a greater chance to turn out to be a perfect 10 for me over the time than a ready-made model dude who is totally stuck in his maintenance rut.

    Just my 2 cents...

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