You want him but you don't

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    Mar 15, 2012 2:16 AM GMT
    Has anyone been in a relationship that it hurts just as much being in it, than when your not in it anymore? I have been out of it for past 6 months, few attempts on his part to get back together, but I have ignored him.

    Still at times I miss him, at the same time I know going back will also bring me more pain. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 15, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    Relationships aren't really all good or all bad. You're missing the parts that were good, but hopefully you are wise enough to know that it wasn't worth putting up with the parts that were bad. You may also just be missing the feeling of being in a relationship. Sometimes being in a relationship, even a not-so-great one, seems more appealing than being single. You'll forget all about it once you find your next relationship. Hang in there. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 15, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
    you make so much sense, It is true what you said. Thank you so much for your input.
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    Mar 15, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    Happy to help icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 15, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    I have to agree.

    It is hard to walk away, especially if he was someone really special to you and you have known each other for a long time. It can feel like you lost your best friend.

    That's why I love the phrase "Let's just be friends". I know people say it is cliche but it is a way of having someone you care for in your life excluding all the hard factors.

    If he is not "the one" for you then you guys can be friends and stay in each others life. If he is then you being friends can eventually show you that he is the one for you.