wanna see my privates?

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    Jul 09, 2008 5:12 PM GMT
    private pictures..... im getting really tired of almost ALL my messages consisting of 'hey, nice pix, can i see your privates?' is that what this site's becoming? most of these emails come from people who don't even have pix themselves!

    it was flattering at first but now its just anoying (im getting literally tens of these junk messages a day) and im considering doing away with having private pix entirely, to eliminate the temptation to ask to see them. there isn't even anything particularly exciting in among them.

    as it stands, i unlock for a few, and if i do its usually after a bit of conversation. what makes these guys think they're entitled to seeing my priate pix- without even having spoken with me first!?

    talk amongst yourselves...
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    Jul 09, 2008 5:16 PM GMT
    It is what it is. Guys are attracted to you and they see you have some pictures in your private selection. They want to look. It is annoying when you have guys with no pictures or profiles asking you to unlock but again that is expected. You can either say NO or just ignore them.
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    Jul 09, 2008 5:18 PM GMT
    Ahh this is going to happen a lot man. A lot of gay men like to think with dicks, which is completely understandable, as I'm fucking horny all the time too!icon_biggrin.gif

    The problem is that a few ruin it for everyone by not actually caring for the website or the people on it, and instead just use it as a way to get off.

    That being said, your a really good looking guy, and people are going to want to see more=)

    haha your call on the privates though man, i'd say dont let a few spoil it for everyone
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    Jul 09, 2008 5:20 PM GMT
    Probably because they think you're going to have nude shots there. Which is not always the case. Not everyone uses them for that purpose, but it's what's implied.

    I personally never ask people to unlock their private pictures. If they've talked with me and are comfortable they do it on their own, or ask me if I want them to. I usually just say it's up to them.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 09, 2008 5:23 PM GMT
    It happens frequently.... or I get notice that a member has unlocked theirs (that happens more).. and its usually from a member I've never talked to before and they don't say anything. I just get the computer generated message that the member has unlocked their private pictures for me. What do you say? I try and be polite, but I didn't ask for it.

    I'm not sure I've ever unlocked my private pic unless I'm asked to do so and hopefully by those who know me.
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    Jul 09, 2008 5:43 PM GMT
    Site members can and do have innumerate intentions for this site and others. That is each member's right of use. Simply naming it RealJock isn't going to stop some from using it at RealCock.

    For those whose intentions conflicts with your own, you can but icon_rolleyes.gif and go about your day. It's not bad of or for them. No doubt they encounter plenty of receptive persons and thus rarely venture so far as to investigate who's like-minded and who's not.

    I wouldn't begrudge someone their use until they slight mine. Then it's icon_mad.gif instead of icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 09, 2008 5:48 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI get notice that a member has unlocked theirs (that happens more).. and its usually from a member I've never talked to before and they don't say anything. I just get the computer generated message that the member has unlocked their private pictures for me. What do you say? I try and be polite, but I didn't ask for it.

    I didn't realize some people would take such offense to that. I typically unlock my private pics for just about everyone I have a conversation with, just so they know who they're talking to.

    And I also agree with Vball, most people probably assume private pics = nude pics. Otherwise, they wouldn't ask a guy who's already posted 30 pics of himself to unlock private pics.

    For the record, none of my private pics are graphic. That's an assumption people shouldn't make.
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    Jul 09, 2008 7:09 PM GMT
    I think HndsmKansan is talking about the randoms with private pics only that are salacious who just randomly unlock their pics without some much as a hello. It's a sort of twisted exhibitionism, although their endgame is to get you to unlock in return so they can jack off to your presumed naked photos.

    Again, icon_rolleyes.gif and move on.
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    Jul 09, 2008 7:58 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidSite members can and do have innumerate intentions for this site and others. That is each member's right of use. Simply naming it RealJock isn't going to stop some from using it at RealCock.


    well put... but this site is way better at being more about the "jock" and less about the "cock" than other websites. I've subscribed to 3 other websites, and most people are there to just hook up and get off to each others pics. RealJock by far is my favorite site for just meeting people who want to do things other than get their rocks off
  • treader

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    Jul 09, 2008 9:21 PM GMT

    Yeah, I had some pretty tame private pictures (shirtless / swimsuit pics) and I had the same problem. It is ironic that most of these requests came from profiles with no pictures at all. I just made some of private pics normal public images and the rest I took down. Afterward, this type of email pretty much stopped...
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    Jul 09, 2008 9:22 PM GMT
    gettoknowit saidWhat about if I ask to see where the sun doesn't shine?


    Sure thing, buddy. icon_biggrin.gif

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    Jul 09, 2008 9:26 PM GMT
    I think too most people want to see more of HndsmKansan ripped jeans. Maybe? No? LOL!
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    Jul 09, 2008 9:29 PM GMT
    they probaby think you have some nude pics from looking at your profile. seeing you take care of yourself , thats what they assume.some don't care what you have to say, they are trying to get a hook-up of sorts.
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    Jul 09, 2008 9:29 PM GMT
    If you're going to have private pictures, you're going to need to accept the fact that people are going to ask to see them. If you're annoyed at people asking to see them, take them down and just email them to people if you want to show them.

    I find it a bit humorous that you have to ask what makes people "entitled" to see your pictures though.
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    Jul 09, 2008 11:00 PM GMT
    You are good looking, young and available, so guys will want to take a peak. I know it can be frustrating at times, but if it really bothers you then take them down. If I was single and your age, I wouldn't have any private pics. I like to keep a sense of mystery going until I get to know the guy a lot better.
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    Jul 10, 2008 12:28 AM GMT
    Hi, I will admit, I have asked a couple people if I could see their private photos. I am not asking so I can see guys with hard ones or weird pictures. I like looking at a man's body when he is in great shape. It inspires me to work harder. When I have days that I don't feel like working out, I can pull up the pictures of the guys that I look up to and it gives me the push I need. When I think about how hard the guys have worked to get where they are it makes me want to work harder. I have no excuse. I thank the guys that have aloud me to view there private photos and for their inspiring words of advice. The weird thing is I am getting a lot of nasty pictures that I haven't asked for.

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    Jul 10, 2008 12:32 AM GMT
    well, czaro...if u weren't so freaking hot...no one would care about your privates. so there you have it...stop being hot.

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    Jul 10, 2008 5:59 AM GMT
    hey.

    now we've gotten the pesky convo out of the way...

    can i see your privates? (how provocative! i just love it! please open your privates for me)

    lol lol lol

    oo baby... do it again. sorry. i need to go to bed.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Jul 10, 2008 6:07 AM GMT
    Well, truth be told, czarodziej, I'd like to see your privates too!! Now, unlock those damn thing!!!
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    Jul 10, 2008 6:14 AM GMT
    perhaps you should go first, sexy... he'll be less shy then... go ahead, i'll stand off to the side and coach you
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    Jul 10, 2008 6:29 AM GMT
    Well, yes! Of course...I'm a gay guy...why wouldn't I want to see your privates! LOL! I bet your parents had to rub you down with raw meat to get the dog and cat to play with you too! Oh honey! You are just too adorable! You need to share the wealth with someone......sorry, my "smartass" comments are done now.....
    The private pics are yours to control and share at your leisure. Some guys are just alot more direct and rude than others, and don't think there is a real, live person behind the virtual profile you have and think it is ok to be any kind of stupid rude pig they want to be....just say no and laugh all the way to the next post... they will have to get their rocks off over some other guys pics....
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    Jul 10, 2008 6:34 AM GMT
    BearCub17 saidAhh this is going to happen a lot man. A lot of gay men like to think with dicks, which is completely understandable, as I'm fucking horny all the time too!icon_biggrin.gif

    The problem is that a few ruin it for everyone by not actually caring for the website or the people on it, and instead just use it as a way to get off.

    That being said, your a really good looking guy, and people are going to want to see more=)

    haha your call on the privates though man, i'd say dont let a few spoil it for everyone


    I have to agree here...

    You're a great looking guy and I can see guys that are just on here to see a hot man with a hot body would hit you up.

    I actually feel a little flattered when someone asks to see my private pics, as long as they unlock first.
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    Jul 10, 2008 6:36 AM GMT
    And I guess in all fairness... it is kind of wierd sometimes if you've talked to someone for a couple months and they've never unlocked, to just out of the blue say... btw, you've never unlocked your pics for me, will you?

    It's all strange I guess. I've never really had a problem showing off my body so it's not a big deal for me.

    But then again, I do expect a little back-lash considering my main pic.
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    Jul 10, 2008 6:42 AM GMT
    That's exactly why I removed mine.

    It's just another excuse for horny men to contact you in the hopes of getting off.

    I don't really see the point of using the private pics section unless you are in the closet and you have pics of your face in there to show people you trust..

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    Jul 10, 2008 7:00 AM GMT
    I really don't see what the big deal is here: if you have private pics, people will inevitably ask to see them;if that bothers you, remove your private pics.