Do You Believe In Soulmates?

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    Mar 16, 2012 6:02 AM GMT
    Do you believe in soulmates. Or do you believe it takes people making an effort to make it work.

    DO you believe the person you end up with is the person you were meant to have, or that the relationship works because you both put alot of work into it.

    Do you believe there is one perfect person out there for you and only you, and that you have to find him?
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    Mar 16, 2012 10:48 AM GMT
    I may well be with the man I'll spend the rest of my life with, and yes you could say he is my soul mate; the one. But life long relationships don't just happen they all take work, everyday moment/day is not a beautiful vista. We communicate thus do not always agree, but we also allow each other to behold diffrent opinions too. I've been so blessed when it comes to being loved and loving.
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    Mar 16, 2012 11:01 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI believe there are people out there that we connect with on a deeper level more than others. But I don't believe there is only one person out there for you.

    I'll go with this. When I met my partner I was actually seeing someone else, but I knew I was meeting someone who was going to be different that that person, all in better ways.
    Four years later the defective person has been swept into the relationship trash heap and my partner and I have a much deeper and honest relationship. Doubtful there is this soulmate thing, but there is a depth of connection if you have a depth of character that you are willing to share. Former partner was too shallow to allow for such a connection.
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    Mar 16, 2012 11:02 AM GMT
    It's a nice idea but it doesn't make very much sense lol.

    I suppose the thing that always got me about it was how do you really know the one you are with is "the one" and if they were not... would you leave someone you were deeply in love with just because you found someone who might be a better "one"?

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    Mar 16, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI believe there are people out there that we connect with on a deeper level more than others. But I don't believe there is only one person out there for you.


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    Mar 16, 2012 9:48 PM GMT
    Yes. Is it easy to find, hell no!! And do you know immediately? Yes and No! That first moment you meet, the connection, the communication everything just falling into place - what a feeling! Careful though most people pretend and only time tells the truth - I learnt that the hard way! But hey I still belief it exists, this time round I will wait out the timeicon_biggrin.gif Would I leave the person I love for some maybe better? Just the thought makes me frown! For someone better? If you truly love the person and he loves you back and you have a good relationship I doubt you would think you now met your soul mate! He will right past you and you would not notice!
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    Mar 16, 2012 9:54 PM GMT
    Not in a star-crossed, meant-to-be way, but I do believe in friends for life, to always be connected even if you go years without speaking.
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    Mar 16, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    I believe in soul mates but I still think you need to both work on the relationship for it to last.
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    Mar 16, 2012 10:37 PM GMT
    Not really. I believe that people who are very compatible can form a very deep connection that we can't really explain or put into words. I don't think it has anything to do with fate. I just think that human emotions are too complicated for us to understand right now.

    I think that the work that goes into relationships is a big factor in whether or not they will succeed, but that doesn't make it a certainty either. All the work in the world isn't going to keep two people who aren't compatible together.

    I guess you could say that soulmates are people who fit each other very well and who put in the work to keep the relationship thriving. It may seem magical and mysterious, but it's not.
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    Mar 16, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    nah no soul mates but I do believe in compatibility like the rest of the guys who posted before me... but I also believe it's difficult to find someone who you find that compatibility with - and once you do you should f*kin fight to hold onto it - so ya relationships do take work. I'm a hopeless romantic that way.
  • Ro1105

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    Mar 16, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    To connect with someone is like a lotery, not everyone can or will win.
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    Mar 16, 2012 10:55 PM GMT
    let me first start by finding my best friend icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 16, 2012 11:01 PM GMT
    I believe most of my family and friends are my soul mates
  • A_1991

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    Mar 16, 2012 11:23 PM GMT
    no, there is no such thing as a soul mate or one person for you. that is just some made up bullshit lol from disney movies. there are many different people out in the world for you, even though you might believe you found the "one." That one is probably the only person close to your proximity or around your area to be classified as the one since there are many people in this dam world that could be your soul mate outside your area!
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    Mar 17, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    Hmm...so looks like more people believe in logic rather than fantasy. Good but kinda heartbreaking aswell.
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    Mar 17, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    I do, I believe in soulmates and I believe in The One. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 17, 2012 9:53 PM GMT
    No. lol, I don't. The concept is a ridiculous idea brought forth by a few people who have been lucky to find a match that they are incredibly compatible and happy with.... the concept is a bit dangerous, if you ask me, as it sets up an unrealistic precedent for a lot of people.
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    Mar 17, 2012 9:55 PM GMT
    Yes. I do. I don't believe that soul mate = lover.

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    Mar 17, 2012 10:00 PM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidDo you believe in soulmates. Or do you believe it takes people making an effort to make it work.

    DO you believe the person you end up with is the person you were meant to have, or that the relationship works because you both put alot of work into it.

    Do you believe there is one perfect person out there for you and only you, and that you have to find him?


    I think 'soulmates' is just a term people use to identify with someone they click with...

    There are however, 'kindred souls' that can be considered someone very important in our lives as in a boyfriend or a husband...

    Just my two cents....