I unknowingly dated a guy that was a sex offender and married???!!!!

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    Mar 17, 2012 1:41 AM GMT
    I posted on here earlier about my bf, that suddenly disappeared on me. Well I found out the truth today by having my friend call him. He misdialed the number by digit and got his wife icon_eek.gif She told him the right number and he dialed it but got the voicemail and didnt leave a message

    My supposed bf called him back and asked did he call that number. My friend then said " i'm calling on behalf of *********** because he has been worried about your health and if you were ok". This dick says he doesnt know who I am at allicon_rolleyes.gif

    After their whole conversation, my friend calls me right afterwards and tells me all this. He said when I told him the whole situation this past weekend he thought something was fishy. I told him "thanks for being such a great friend and calling on my behalf."

    Once I got off the phone I decided to google his name. I know weird right. I look on some of the sites and then i go to images. His face pic is the first one to come up on the results. I click it and find out he has been arrested for having driven from ohio to Indiana to meet a 14 year old girl for sex

    WTF????!!!!!!!!!icon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gif

    Turns out he is a registered sex offender.

    My "bf" also had told me he moved here from the UK, to take care of his sick mother. And that he had battled cancer 3 times. He told the 14 year old girl, he had brain tumor or brain cancer and a 50% survival rate. And that he suspected his wife of having an affair.

    I was suprised to find out all of this within a span of one to two hours

    Has this ever happened to someone else on here?


    -I'm posting the link of the article that was on the indiana website

    http://www.wthitv.com/dpp/news/news_wthi_sullivanco_man_travels_to_ind_for_sex_with_teen_200907241652

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    Mar 17, 2012 2:04 AM GMT
    Note to self: Don't date closeted guys.

    Problem solved. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 17, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    I never knowingly dated a married pedophile but I inadvertently hired one to work alongside neighborhood kids!

    Years ago, I hired a personable neighbor from my old, nearby neighborhood to work on my new house and, to save money, posted a flyer in my new gated community advertising for yard work. A father answered the ad and dropped off his fifteen year old daughter and her friend; I let them work in the yard picking up rocks while the handyman did some sprinkler work while I stayed inside most of the day. When the father picked the girls up I told them what a great job they did. Only later did I find the handyman registered as a sex offender for sleeping with underage teenage girls. Can you imagine if word got out about the crew I assembled? I hired him for subsequent work but only with other adult male contractors around.
  • ineedausernam...

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    Mar 18, 2012 8:26 AM GMT
    Maybe I'm just a creepy stalker, but I almost always google people I'm anticipating meeting (for an interview, blind date, etc.). It's usually out of boredom and curiosity, but apparently it's a necessary preventative measure icon_eek.gif.
  • cookingitswee...

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    Mar 18, 2012 8:43 AM GMT
    god, get the fuck out of there!
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    Mar 18, 2012 8:56 AM GMT
    They really need to bring back To Catch a Predator. Chris Hansen is a legend.
  • DesireIron

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    Mar 18, 2012 9:24 AM GMT
    Dude, that fat thing was your bf??? He's hideous! I'm not surprised that he's a sex offender. It's the only way he could get any.
  • jackthejock

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    Mar 18, 2012 10:05 PM GMT
    Are you closeted yourself? Because when personally, I only date people who will go out with me in public on dates. If you're with somebody who only wants to stay in the house, or won't let you over to theirs that's a huge red flag
  • HPgeek934

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    Mar 18, 2012 10:21 PM GMT
    I'm gonna kinda go off topic, but you had your friend call him? dude, what this guy did is fucked up with being married and such, but really? you had your friend call him? If I were talking to you on here and I read this, I'd stop talking to you. Thats just creepy man.
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    Mar 18, 2012 10:29 PM GMT
    I have a sneaking suspicion that the OP is closeted.
  • HPgeek934

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    Mar 18, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    I have a sneaking suspicion that the OP has never dated someone before
  • nv7_

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    Mar 18, 2012 10:40 PM GMT
    Finally a thread topic I've never seen before. I didn't think it was possible. icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 18, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    Come on guys! The pictures dont match..

    smallTOP1953?

    If this pedo the "op" was talking about was looking for sex, he wasnt the BOTTOM! He likes sticking his dick into holes preferably vaginal ones! And 1953? You do the math!icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
  • austex85

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    Mar 18, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    lmao this story is ridic
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    Mar 19, 2012 3:01 AM GMT
    TropicalMark saidCome on guys! The pictures dont match..

    smallTOP1953?

    If this pedo the "op" was talking about was looking for sex, he wasnt the BOTTOM! He likes sticking his dick into holes preferably vaginal ones! And 1953? You do the math!icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    Thank god others hear arent so gulible, honestly sometimesicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 19, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    nv7_ saidFinally a thread topic I've never seen before. I didn't think it was possible. icon_cool.gif


    This. I mean, even if the story is totally fake - I didn't follow the link because I don't really care - I have to give it points for originality!
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    Mar 20, 2012 12:50 PM GMT
    jackthejock saidAre you closeted yourself? Because when personally, I only date people who will go out with me in public on dates. If you're with somebody who only wants to stay in the house, or won't let you over to theirs that's a huge red flag


    No Im not closeted myself out to my family and friends. We actually went on two dates. Met at the coffee shop the first time and second time we went to a japanese restaurant for dinner.
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    Mar 20, 2012 12:52 PM GMT
    TropicalMark saidCome on guys! The pictures dont match..

    smallTOP1953?

    If this pedo the "op" was talking about was looking for sex, he wasnt the BOTTOM! He likes sticking his dick into holes preferably vaginal ones! And 1953? You do the math!icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    Not quite sure what you mean by that TropicalMark. The guy I was dating identified as Bisexual.
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    Mar 20, 2012 12:53 PM GMT
    AlphaTrigger saidI have a sneaking suspicion that the OP is closeted.


    Nope sorry to burst your bubble AlphaTrigger, Not closeted. My family and friends know I like other guys and are cool with it
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    Mar 20, 2012 12:55 PM GMT
    HPgeek934 saidI'm gonna kinda go off topic, but you had your friend call him? dude, what this guy did is fucked up with being married and such, but really? you had your friend call him? If I were talking to you on here and I read this, I'd stop talking to you. Thats just creepy man.



    The only reason I had my friend call him, was because he cut off all contact with me very suddenly. He didnt give me any reason, and I thought he might be hurt etc. Remember HPgeek934, he told me he had just moved here from the UK and didnt know many people in the area. Besides his parents, and a few other family members that were here

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    Mar 20, 2012 12:57 PM GMT
    jackthejock saidAre you closeted yourself? Because when personally, I only date people who will go out with me in public on dates. If you're with somebody who only wants to stay in the house, or won't let you over to theirs that's a huge red flag


    No like I replied to the other guy, Im not closeted. We went out on two dates in public and I did go over to his house. He had no pics in his house, and there was no evidence at all that anyone else lived there besides him.

  • Celticmusl

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    Mar 20, 2012 1:07 PM GMT
    TropicalMark saidCome on guys! The pictures dont match..

    smallTOP1953?

    If this pedo the "op" was talking about was looking for sex, he wasnt the BOTTOM! He likes sticking his dick into holes preferably vaginal ones! And 1953? You do the math!icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    Lol......well.....I know a guy that was married to a woman for 15 yrs....he finally figured out late in life he was gay.....now he is a total bottom. Actually, most guys I know that have been in relationships with women at one time or another are inclined to be bottoms.....but I would never "assume" that just because they've been with a woman.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 20, 2012 1:13 PM GMT
    I do find this whole conversation a little odd. I would expect somebody born in 1953 who have the maturity to have done a little homework.. I don't see him having a friend call "a number" to get information.. all sounds a little
    contrived.

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    Mar 20, 2012 1:31 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    TropicalMark saidCome on guys! The pictures dont match..

    smallTOP1953?

    If this pedo the "op" was talking about was looking for sex, he wasnt the BOTTOM! He likes sticking his dick into holes preferably vaginal ones! And 1953? You do the math!icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    Lol......well.....I know a guy that was married to a woman for 15 yrs....he finally figured out late in life he was gay.....now he is a total bottom. Actually, most guys I know that have been in relationships with women at one time or another are inclined to be bottoms.....but I would never "assume" that just because they've been with a woman.


    good point! Thanks for your great input. Hope your enjoying the nice weather today
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    Mar 20, 2012 1:33 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI do find this whole conversation a little odd. I would expect somebody born in 1953 who have the maturity to have done a little homework.. I don't see him having a friend call "a number" to get information.. all sounds a little
    contrived.

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    okay man obviously you know I wasn't born in 1953. It's just a year that I picked. You might want to check out all of my replies and you will see why I had my friend call him.

    Make sure you read the whole discussion before you post dumb comments and show that your an ass