Ever wonder if you may go bi?

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    Mar 17, 2012 5:14 AM GMT
    I personally believe most people are bi(but I say I am gay to myself and anyone else who ask me what I am) and I do believe in the Kinsey scale but I do also feel some people are all gay or all straight, just not as many as they make you think there is.

    Anyway, before alot of gay guys realize they are gay, including myself we were with girls and were intimate and even could have fell in love and I was deeply in love with a girl...more than one actually. We realized we liked men more or felt stronger about them or had a deeper relationship with them, but who is to say we can't meet a girl and fall in love with her again and want to be with her, or spend our life with her.

    It could happen...right?
    Not that I could ever care to be straight, but just wondered about that. I mean if you can fall in love with a girl once , then why can't it ever happen again?

    And No this is not a question about wanting to like girls, just a question about if people's sexual orientation can be sparked by people entering their lives.

    I have known guys who thought they were straight then a guy came into their life and changed it. So why can't the same happen with a gay guy and girl?

    Do you guys think it is possible?
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    Mar 17, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    I've seen women that I was attracted to on a physical basis, but couldn't get past the female part. They're ok in public, but I couldn't live with one.
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    Mar 17, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    I'm going to relate with you (as usual) for a second here. I know what you're saying having potential feelings for a girl. However, the feelings are completely different from sexual arousal or anything of the sort.

    I have dated and become great friends with a lot of girls. I always wondered why I never felt any sort of attraction to them, and now I realize why. I am pretty positive I am completely gay or if you're going by the Kinsey scale I would probally be about 9 or 10 (if 10 being completely gay).

    I don't see myself randomly going bi one day. I'm physically and emotionally attracted to men out there and that has never happened with any woman.

    My two cents anyway icon_smile.gif! Take care, Jamie!
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    Mar 17, 2012 5:21 AM GMT
    bi what? icon_wink.gif i love shopping....
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    Mar 17, 2012 1:33 PM GMT
    Yes, but its unlikely.. as I fall for guys far more often
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    Mar 17, 2012 1:37 PM GMT
    Not really.

    Don't get me wrong; I know some girls that I think are really pretty and are totally datable. But I have no personal sexual interest in them.
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    Mar 17, 2012 1:38 PM GMT


    Nope.
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    Mar 17, 2012 1:41 PM GMT
    I'd never rule it out, but I just can't get past the whole vagina thing. Other than that they are lovely.
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    Mar 17, 2012 1:41 PM GMT
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    Mar 17, 2012 1:42 PM GMT
    I prefer men more these days but I still jerk off to hot women and have had the odd fling. I haven't been in a relationship with a woman though since my early 20's and I don't always tell people that I find women attractive because it can open up a can of worms.

    Just a lot easier to say that I'm completely gay to have an easy life.

    Anything in life is possible OP but we all have our preferences. How set they are varies from person to person and is dependent upon a large number of differing factors.

    Science has yet to identify conclusively whether it is a genetic element or figure out what effect environmental factors have on a person's sexuality.
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    Mar 17, 2012 1:43 PM GMT
    No. Been there, done that years ago, when I was trying to conform to what my parents & society expected of me. Ain't ever going back there again.

    This morning my husband was in an affectionate mood, we cuddled in bed as we woke up. Lots of expressions of love, something I never did with a woman. Why would I want to give that up to "go" bi?
  • laxdude25

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    Mar 17, 2012 1:52 PM GMT
    I didn't "go" bi, it's just what I am. 25+ years happily married to a woman who also understands and accepts the full spectrum of my sexuality.
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    Mar 17, 2012 5:31 PM GMT
    Too late!
  • Rock7

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    Mar 17, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    Fucking a good slimy slippery pussy is something i'd like to try sometime... but I still prefer dudes ;)
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    Mar 17, 2012 5:55 PM GMT
    no.
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    Mar 17, 2012 6:19 PM GMT
    You've gone stupid. Obviously.
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    Mar 17, 2012 6:24 PM GMT
    Haaretz saidYou've gone stupid. Obviously.
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  • sbwlguy

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    Mar 17, 2012 6:25 PM GMT
    Errrr, you can not just 'go bi'. Sexuality is innate. You can not just learn to get turned on by a vagina.

    Jesus... :/
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    Mar 17, 2012 6:28 PM GMT
    Ew vagina.
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    Mar 17, 2012 6:35 PM GMT
    laxdude25 saidI didn't "go" bi, it's just what I am. 25+ years happily married to a woman who also understands and accepts the full spectrum of my sexuality.


    Is she allowed to fuck other men too?
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    Mar 17, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA said...before...(some)...gay guys realize they are gay, including myself we were with girls and were intimate and even could have fell in love and I was deeply in love with a girl..


    Do not confuse intimacy or love with sexual attraction as they are not the same, even if they can be combined. I have loved and do love women in my life. But I"ve never been sexually attracted to them.

    I let myself be seduced by a female in my first round of college. Everything about it down to the temperature felt wrong. Also, the love of my life turned out to be a practicing bisexual guy so we had plenty of women in our bed. I enjoyed him enjoying himself but they did nothing for me.

    So having been in love with them and having had sex with them, I can say without any shadow of a doubt that there is not even a trace of bisexuality in me. There is no chance of me going bi.

    Or, as
    Young_Sir so very eloquently put it,Ew vagina.
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    Mar 17, 2012 8:00 PM GMT
    I figure I will end up with who I end up with and, why limit oneself?
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    Mar 17, 2012 8:04 PM GMT
    sbwlguy saidErrrr, you can not just 'go bi'. Sexuality is innate. You can not just learn to get turned on by a vagina.

    Jesus... :/


    I know that...but alot of people go with/ claim one sexuality that is more dominant. Like if a guy is more into women but likes men aswell he will go on and say he is straight, just like men who mostly like men more identify with gay...Especially since bisexuality is the subject of alot of criticism on both the straight and gay community.

    can people actually look deeper than the physical words...
    Jesus....:/

    But Note to EVERYONE ELSE if you dont like my topics...

    there is this thing called NOT READING THEM. OOOOOOOOHHHHHHHH icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 17, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
    straight women tend to get on my nerves. My roommate's boyfriend has jealousy issues and feels threatened by me cuz he's not used to the idea of a gay guy who can do all of the stuff around the house that he can and more. She thinks it's cute. Then we have issues with him coming over and doing/changing stuff in the apartment without asking me first. Yeah, I'm not going near that kind of crazy.
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    Mar 17, 2012 8:11 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    Haaretz saidYou've gone stupid. Obviously.
    +1

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