How to find a committed guy for long distance relationships?

  • AndreC17

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    Mar 18, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    I've tried a few long distance relationships (I guess you have to if you do the whole online dating thing haha) but every time it ends with him going out with another guy (usually local) and me winding up sad. Do long distance relationships ever work? And if they do, how do you know if a guy is committed to them or not? I think I'm cute enough for one to be worth it, but hey, what do I know
  • BmwKid92

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    Mar 18, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    why would you want to date someone long distance.... NO SENCE
  • Suetonius

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    Mar 18, 2012 10:26 PM GMT
    AndreC17 saidI've tried a few long distance relationships (I guess you have to if you do the whole online dating thing haha) but every time it ends with him going out with another guy (usually local) and me winding up sad. Do long distance relationships ever work? And if they do, how do you know if a guy is committed to them or not? I think I'm cute enough for one to be worth it, but hey, what do I know

    They can.
    But they ususally develop from one partner having to move away for a time.
    For them to last, usually one partner has to move to be with the other.
    That move should be undertaken VERRRY carefully, as newer long distance relationships have a tendency to end after one partner moves to be with the other.
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    Mar 19, 2012 12:49 AM GMT
    The only way i could see long disance working is if it is short term or at least for an agreed timeframe until you are both physically in the same place and you have that time firmly in sight to keep it going.. If you dont have someone in your life day to day eventually it isnt gonna work.. It just seems impossible..
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    Mar 19, 2012 3:05 AM GMT
    Really I see this story all the time. There is no such thing!
    If you are already in a relationship and one partner moves for whatever reason then you are still in a relationship, not a long distance one.
    Seriously the amount of guys I meeet that say they have a bf they met online and he lives on the other side of the country, thats just sad that you would think so poorly of yourself that you only deserve some fake relationship.
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    Mar 19, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    Bmwkid92 said why would you want to date someone long distance.... NO SENCE
    This
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    Mar 19, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    Are you collecting relationships like merit badges while you're still unable to truly understand the value of a solid committed relationship, or are you really into long distance loving and sexual relationships?
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    Mar 19, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    they dont
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    Mar 19, 2012 3:21 AM GMT
    will only work if you make an effort to see each other as often as possible (which will require both money and a flexible work schedule) as well as a promise by one to relocate in a certain time-frame.
    It's kinda rare for it to work but I've been witness to that kind of thing actually working out so if you wanna do that keep trying but just remember it may take a lot of attempts...
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    Mar 19, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    i want to experienced that as well because here in UAE gay is banned soi dont belong here i want to move to safer place and be happy.