Your first time

  • Discoverin

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    Mar 18, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
    Describe your first time. Was he the right person? If you could go back and change it would you?
    What advice would you give someone who hasn't done it?

    I am still fresh so I can share it myself personally icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 18, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    My first time was awkward. I felt so clumsy and didn't know what to do. He was very patient with me and we took things slow at first. But after a while, I got the right rhythm and was going at it like a pro. Although, I did stall on a hill once and grinded 2nd gear a few times. After that, driving a manual transmission car was pretty easy.















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    Mar 18, 2012 10:38 PM GMT
    This is the first time I ever posted in this thread.
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    Mar 19, 2012 12:39 AM GMT
    The power of being too vague icon_lol.gif

    Anyways, I'm not sure what you mean by first time,so I'll write about my first date. It was definitely not with the right person. I wouldn't go back and change it though because I learned to be a bit more compassionate from the guy.
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    Mar 19, 2012 12:58 AM GMT
    My first sexual experience. It was the summer between my junior and senior year and I had finally wormed my way into being friends with my high school crush who was super ripped/jacked for a 16 year old. He was always going on about this girl or that girl and wanting to do all kinds of kinky things to them but that they were too prude to, so I joked that I'd be willing to give those things a shot. I was closeted and sort of dating a girl at the time, so he thought it was just a joke. One day while I was over at his house I told him I had something weird to tell him: I might be bi. He said that wasn't so weird and that he fingered himself all the time. The next day he suggested we JO together. I thought he was just kidding so I said no, but then he picked me up and put me over his shoulder and carried me to his room and plopped me down on his bed and said "take off your clothes." We lay naked on the bed for a while touching each other and stuff and then he rolled onto his front and put his butt up in the air. ;) So I got on top... but had no idea how anal sex was supposed to work. Didn't realize we'd need lube and it just wasn't going in, so I blew/jerked him instead.

    To this day he still identifies as straight (though recently he referred to himself as bi-ish) but still gets me to fuck him every once in a while. His new thing is trying to get me to do it while he does his gf, but I'm not down with that.

    So was he the right person? Sure. I loved him, and we were great friends already. And we've remained great friends. But I went through a lot of heartache coming to grips with the fact that he is not romantically attracted to guys and would never be in a romantic relationship with me.

    Would I change it? Nope.

    Advice? Follow your heart.
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    Mar 19, 2012 1:09 AM GMT
    Oh, my first time...

    I was 18 and he was "27". Muscular body and a nice smile (he's also the only guy that I've ever been with that has a bigger penis than my 10.5x8...) He offered to pick me up and take me over to his place. He said it would be okay with his roommate considering his roommate knew about his sexuality. So we sat on his couch and made out...

    Clothes started coming off... I got nervous and starting making the my clothes come back on. He calmed me down and took me to his room. Where we continued...

    His penis was killer, but he was a very determined and delicate top. VERY very long night considering we had sex 3 times. I felt like I could love this guy forever (remember, I was just 18, lol...) We fell asleep.

    Sometime in the middle of the night, he got up and tucked me in.
    "Where are you going?" I asked.
    "I'm sorry, I can't sleep with you because it is too intimate..."

    [to the couch he goes? no...]

    It was then that I realized that it was only the "guest" room that I was sleeping in when he went into the room with his partner (the said "roommate"). I fell asleep feeling stupid. The next morning he wanted a threesome to which I declined.

    It was a couple years later when I described to a friend about my first time...
    ... he said...
    "Oh, you're talking about [name]. He's notorious for doing that to guys all the time. He's literally a nymphomaniac considering how many guys he invites over for threesomes, how many times he flies guys out to meet him, and would go hundreds of miles to go out for some ass."

    Was he the right person?
    He was the right one to teach me how cautious I have to be even to the seemingly nicest of guys. I would have never imagined he was a sex addict and he could have easily done something to compromise my health.

    If you could go back and change it would you?
    No.

    What advice would you give someone who hasn't done it?
    Read my story and don't be naive.
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    Mar 19, 2012 1:59 AM GMT
    JPtheBITCH saidMy first time was with my cousin. It was great.


    Seriously?? icon_eek.gif that makes for an awkward family reunion.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Mar 19, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    My first time? hmm. I used to lick my best friends bum when we were 8 and we were under his back porch. Or was it the grade 8 teacher when I was in grade 7? Or that orderly that was more interested in the figureskating on TV than in making me cum when I first had a adult to play with? Maybe the first time I fell in love? That's even more of a disaster.
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    Mar 19, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    Sex? Never heard of it.
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    Mar 19, 2012 6:33 AM GMT
    hmmm not so good

    The first guy who showed interest in me. I was 22 and really wanted to get laid. Thinking that I should keep the whole b/f thing going afterwards was tough - he was pretty strange (did't want a TV as it was too expensive - and ate baked beans mostly as they were 99c a tin - and a few other things) so a month afterwards went to ground and hid.

    Meh... the things we do when little head speaks louder then big head. Wish I had waited until it was someone a liked a whole lot more!
  • Sexybimale

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    Mar 19, 2012 5:46 PM GMT
    It was a college party from an invite of a friend that went to this other college. Fortunately, it was not my school and my friend never showed.

    I did stay and started drinking and just sat on a couch in an area where there was a lot of trafffic to the kitchen for more drinks. A guy kept walking past who was in some tight white sweats and had a beautiful butt! He moved it pretty well when he walked and as I got more drunk, I became more interested.

    I gave him a look as he passed and looked at his butt and he looked back and saw me looking. He gave me a curious grin and kept going. He came back through and just sat right down with me.

    It was one of those things where you are making casual conversation but you know what both of you really want. He was pretty overt with his sexuality but I am not so much...until I get drunk!

    He would put his hand on my thigh on occasion when he would talk...maybe to test my reaction. I was so aroused and I think he could see that through my shorts.

    He put his hand on mine and everything went fast after that. He didn't say a word and we both got up and went out to his car. I was so turned on and he started to rub my cock. I wanted to suck his cock so bad so I stopped him and went down on him. He had a great cock and I let him cum in my mouth. As soon as I started sucking him, I came in my pants. He came very fast and I had a flight response right after. I left the car without looking at him again. I just said I had to go and I jumped out and went to my own car and left.

    It was exciting and embarrasing at the same time.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 19, 2012 5:47 PM GMT
    It was with my partner and when I was ready..... and I fucking wanted it.

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    Mar 20, 2012 9:46 PM GMT
    it went a lil like this

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    Mar 20, 2012 10:11 PM GMT
    JPtheBITCH saidMy first time was with my cousin. It was great.


    BAHAHAHAHAHA! Incest is great as long as it's kept in the family!
  • swall1963

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    Mar 21, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
    My first time I was 15 and he was 16 (both of us within a week of our most recent birthday). I lost my virginity in the back seat of his car. We had intended to go to a movie, but instead ended up having sex at an abandoned farm site.

    He was definitely the right guy. He and I were friends.

    I knew I was gay, he said he wasn't (in the late 70s in rural Minnesota we never had heard of bi-sexual). We had sex fairly regularly until my senior year (I was 18 and he was 19). During those three years I had sex with a number of guys (I was a slut, but became even more of slut in college) and two girls. He had sex with me, a couple of other guys and a number of girls.

    I wouldn't change a thing about my first time.

    Your first time should be with someone you like, know and care about. Definitely not a one-off. I think the main reason why my first time was so right was because he and I were friends (since 5th and 6th grade) and we cared about each other, even though there wasn't that "love" aspect.
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    Mar 21, 2012 1:38 AM GMT
    I don't think we're talking about circle jerks, frottage and experimentation are we? Didn't think so. My first time at real sex was with an older grad student when I was in my first year in college. He was also a swimmer - and had a bronzed, sleek build - - and fortunately for me - he wasn't too large. He taught me all I know about bottoming. Topping - I had to learn from someone else!
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    Mar 21, 2012 1:36 PM GMT
    Still waiting for my first time!
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    Mar 21, 2012 1:45 PM GMT
    my first what?icon_confused.gif

    oh i lost my first tooth at age 7
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    Mar 21, 2012 1:50 PM GMT
    My first time was horrible and awkward. I was stressed about the whole coming out to my parents deal and my bf wanted to have sex. I did not feel I should say no so we did it for like a minute or two. It hurt so bad it almost turned me straight. I had to run off to go throw up, and I cried the entire night. I was a wreck. lol

    This was back in 2006, and I am still with the same guy. It got better after a while.
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    Mar 21, 2012 2:14 PM GMT
    Discoverin saidDescribe your first time. Was he the right person? If you could go back and change it would you?
    What advice would you give someone who hasn't done it?

    I am still fresh so I can share it myself personally icon_smile.gif
    now why would I describe my first time to someone without pics nor any other info in their RJ profile? WTF
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    Mar 21, 2012 2:23 PM GMT
    beachbum310 said
    Discoverin saidDescribe your first time. Was he the right person? If you could go back and change it would you?
    What advice would you give someone who hasn't done it?

    I am still fresh so I can share it myself personally icon_smile.gif
    now why would I describe my first time to someone without pics nor any other info in their RJ profile? WTF


    Maybe he's one of those who gets off on those things :S

  • Discoverin

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    Mar 22, 2012 12:33 AM GMT
    beachbum310 said
    Discoverin saidDescribe your first time. Was he the right person? If you could go back and change it would you?
    What advice would you give someone who hasn't done it?

    I am still fresh so I can share it myself personally icon_smile.gif
    now why would I describe my first time to someone without pics nor any other info in their RJ profile? WTF


    I had a profile, deleted everything because of how secular it is on this site. It is people like you who judge others on the outside that makes most gays insecure about themselves. What makes a good experience is when one doesn't look too much on the outisde but connect solely on the inside. I know this may sounds abstract, maybe you are right about the whole picture and profile thing. But the thing is, do I care more about what people say or do you? You only care about the look now don't you? And you will only reply IF my profile fulfilled your list of criteria for 'worth spending my time on' man. I am confident in my look and what I am capable of. Thank you.
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    Mar 22, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    my first was with a guy in my apartment complex that I lived at, he was an indian (india) guy that was a college professor, many times when I would come home later at night he would be outside with a robe on, many times he invited me in asking if I wanted a beer, I figured what he wanted, but I couldn't build up the nerve, even though I wanted to try.

    One night I was out with friends and had a couple of beers, I came home around 10 PM as I had to work in the morning, my neighbor was outside, again in his robe, asked if I wanted to come in for a beer, this time I took him up on it. He got me a beer from the fridge, and each time he would come back his robe was more open and he would sit on the couch and I could see his cock and balls. After a couple of beers I was ready to go for it, just trying to figure out how to approach it.

    After the 3rd beer he brought me, he handed me the beer, his robe was mostly open, his cock was stick out, half hard and he asked if I wanted anything else. I said yes, i grabbed his cock, pulled him towards me and gave him head like i've done it a bunch of times before, yet this was the first time.

    After that night I went over the next day after work, we went up to his bedroom, we had a good time, first time I was fucked, and glad I went in finally. We had sex on a regular basis, and I was worried my roomate would pick up on it, as his bedroom was against my neighbors bedroom and when I was getting hammered good sometimes the bed would ram against the wall so it was obvious what was going on, on the other side of the wall, but with who lol. I got it about 2 to 3 times a week for almost a year and I ended up moving out of state.
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    Mar 22, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    My god, I can't believe I can relate to that!
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    Mar 22, 2012 5:05 AM GMT
    Discoverin said
    beachbum310 said
    Discoverin saidDescribe your first time. Was he the right person? If you could go back and change it would you?
    What advice would you give someone who hasn't done it?

    I am still fresh so I can share it myself personally icon_smile.gif
    now why would I describe my first time to someone without pics nor any other info in their RJ profile? WTF


    I had a profile, deleted everything because of how secular it is on this site. It is people like you who judge others on the outside that makes most gays insecure about themselves. What makes a good experience is when one doesn't look too much on the outisde but connect solely on the inside. I know this may sounds abstract, maybe you are right about the whole picture and profile thing. But the thing is, do I care more about what people say or do you? You only care about the look now don't you? And you will only reply IF my profile fulfilled your list of criteria for 'worth spending my time on' man. I am confident in my look and what I am capable of. Thank you.


    plus 10++++ good answer bud.