Losing your virginity

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    Jul 10, 2008 4:26 AM GMT
    What does it mean as a gay man? It has come up in conversations I've had three times this week alone. Definitions presented thus far included:

    - As soon as another person gets you off
    - Penetration, whether catching or receiving
    - Passionate intimacy

    Take them for what they're worth, how would you define it? By some measures I am still pure, by others I am dirty icon_twisted.gif
  • ShawnTX

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    Jul 10, 2008 4:55 AM GMT
    Touching, mutual masturbation - you're still a virgin

    Any type of oral/genital contact or penetration (given or received) - you're a dirty dirty whore, open to scorn and ridicule
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    Jul 10, 2008 5:33 AM GMT
    original714 saidWhat does it mean as a gay man? It has come up in conversations I've had three times this week alone. Definitions presented thus far included:

    - As soon as another person gets you off
    - Penetration, whether catching or receiving
    - Passionate intimacy

    Take them for what they're worth, how would you define it? By some measures I am still pure, by others I am dirty icon_twisted.gif


    Great question......I'm too wasted to write a decent opinion, but I will try later..


    Cheers
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    Jul 10, 2008 5:51 AM GMT
    original714 saidWhat does it mean as a gay man? It has come up in conversations I've had three times this week alone. Definitions presented thus far included:

    - As soon as another person gets you off
    - Penetration, whether catching or receiving
    - Passionate intimacy

    Take them for what they're worth, how would you define it? By some measures I am still pure, by others I am dirty icon_twisted.gif


    Describe in deatail what you've done and I'll tell you if you are still a virgin.
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    Jul 10, 2008 8:02 AM GMT
    Technicaly speaking, men don't have a verginity to lose. We have what's called a spermarche and it just means the first time you ejaculate sperm.

    But if you INSIST, I'd have to say the first time someone else gets you off.
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    Jul 10, 2008 10:07 AM GMT
    Nice try Alpha, lol, but I definitely do not consider myself a virgin icon_twisted.gif I did think it was peculiar to have it described in such different ways however.

    Also an interesting point Ryan, I never knew that so I have some homework now.
  • GQjock

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    Jul 10, 2008 10:16 AM GMT
    When I've heard the term used
    It usually means taking part in anal sex

    but I'd lump in there oral sex too
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    Jul 10, 2008 10:27 AM GMT
    Having sex with another guy and achieving orgasm. Does not need to involve anal or oral sex. If that was the case some guys would never lose their virginity!
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    Jul 10, 2008 11:55 AM GMT
    ShawnTX saidTouching, mutual masturbation - you're still a virgin

    Any type of oral/genital contact or penetration (given or received) - you're a dirty dirty whore, open to scorn and ridicule


    I'm so glad I'm still qualified to give birth to Jesus. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 11, 2008 2:53 PM GMT
    I don't understand...please enlighten me what exactly have you done with a guy?...Just be honest like me I suck, dick, take it up the ass alot, and I'm a dirty little whore that's all!...just be fuckin' HONEST!!!!!!...WITH YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!LOL!!!!!!!
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    Jul 11, 2008 6:01 PM GMT
    I think for some guys, just making out with another guy can probably be seen as losing their 'gay virginity.' That said, I agree that some kind 'insertion' has to take place to really rise to the level of what I would consider loss of virginity.

    Just speaking for myself, I definitely felt like I'd crossed an altogether different threshold when I had someone inside me for the first time.
  • metalxracr

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    Jul 13, 2008 3:47 AM GMT
    JBE60 saidHaving sex with another guy and achieving orgasm. Does not need to involve anal or oral sex. If that was the case some guys would never lose their virginity!


    agreed!