The 30 year old Virgin or Not??

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    Mar 19, 2012 10:03 AM GMT
    So, I'm turning 30 next year and yes..still a virgin, in the sense that I have never done "it". Haven't been doing it on purpose, just havent met the right guy.

    A part of me regretfully tells me I should do it at least once before my twenties are over..but another weird part of me wants to earn that "30 year old virgin" title.

    What would you do in my shoes?
  • monet

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    Mar 19, 2012 12:06 PM GMT
    DO IT NOW!!! After 30 your dick won't get hard anymore and you won't be able to do it.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Mar 19, 2012 12:11 PM GMT
    I would eat more AND do lundges till the cows came home to add some butt to your frameicon_idea.gif
    no ass=no sex
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    Mar 19, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
    eh, whateva.
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    Mar 19, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    Or, you could just stop being an insipid diva.
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    Mar 19, 2012 6:06 PM GMT
    And you could just stop being ugly.
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    Mar 19, 2012 6:41 PM GMT
    Neutral saidSo, I'm turning 30 next year and yes..still a virgin, in the sense that I have never done "it". Haven't been doing it on purpose, just havent met the right guy.

    A part of me regretfully tells me I should do it at least once before my twenties are over..but another weird part of me wants to earn that "30 year old virgin" title.

    What would you do in my shoes?

    Well, I wouldn't do anything wearing shoes, unless it were in the Minneapolis airport johns.
    There's never a time like the present - if you get high or drunk enough, you won't notice till after that the guy wasn't the perfect one or "the right guy."
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    Mar 19, 2012 7:06 PM GMT
    I can totally relate to your situation. Look, don't rush anything if it's not your time. A year ago at this time I was 29 and nine months and I had anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend. I topped. Then I turned 30 in June and bottomed for the first time in September. If you don't have a boyfriend I wouldn't go and hook up with some guy just to say that you "did it" in your 20s. Your time will come. The best advice is to not to take advice from other people about this because it's personal.
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    Mar 19, 2012 7:27 PM GMT
    me11 saidI can totally relate to your situation. Look, don't rush anything if it's not your time. A year ago at this time I was 29 and nine months and I had anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend. I topped. Then I turned 30 in June and bottomed for the first time in September. If you don't have a boyfriend I wouldn't go and hook up with some guy just to say that you "did it" in your 20s. Your time will come. The best advice is to not to take advice from other people about this because it's personal.


    Aww thank you, and for not judging me.

    Deep down I know that's the answer, I'll let destiny run its course.

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    Mar 19, 2012 10:15 PM GMT
    I feel the same, and honestly I think waiting isnt a bad thing. Yeah I want to have sex, but for me I want to really be in love and I want to be with that guy for a long time and have him be special to me.

    I think people these days get it twisted on when you should have sex. I would be lying if i said I did not get horny, but having casual sex with someone just to get or, or someone I just "like" NO. This is your body another human being touching and licking and taking something from you, that you can never get back.

    You may think you are behind or whatever, but you don't have any kids, or any STD's etc.

    Sad thing is that in today's society that is such an achievement. I remember when virgnity was sacred, not people give blow jobs for a ride home ( yes i am serious). I think you should wait

    but like the guy said, do what you honestly want to do, but make sure it is because of what you want, and not what you think you should want.
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    Mar 24, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    The only thing is if you wait too long, you may rung the risk of thinking 'why did I wait so long? This is so great, I feel that I have wasted my 20s when I was young and hot and could have had lots of sex.'

    On the other hand, sex isn't something you wanna rush into if you're not comfortable with coz u will feel like shit during and after, and more often than not, THIS is many people's big regret.

    To solve the problem.............. hurry up and find the right partner that you can trust and get the first over and done with, then make sure that you are one fine muscle daddy and then you can have all the hot guys you want and make up for not fucking around in your 20s.
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    Mar 24, 2012 11:12 PM GMT
    Is "IT" anal sex? Some people never do... it's just not your/their thing. Other things qualify as sex too...

    If you haven't been having fun with your junk except solo (e.g. no mutual jacking or BJ's), maybe you should try that first. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 24, 2012 11:12 PM GMT
    Neutral said..but another weird part of me wants to earn that "30 year old virgin" title.

    What would you do in my shoes?


    Isn't being a 30 year old virgin like embarrassing, why would you want to earn that "title", if I were you, I would lose it ASAP with the first hunk that looked my way.icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 24, 2012 11:39 PM GMT
    intensity69 saidIs "IT" anal sex? Some people never do... it's just not your/their thing. Other things qualify as sex too...

    If you haven't been having fun with your junk except solo (e.g. no mutual jacking or BJ's), maybe you should try that first. icon_smile.gif


    It's not that, I just can't get myself to have a NSA. I want trust, which doesn't happen overnight, and no guy wants to wait..get labeled as picky.
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    Mar 24, 2012 11:44 PM GMT
    Hypnotico said
    Neutral said..but another weird part of me wants to earn that "30 year old virgin" title.

    What would you do in my shoes?


    Isn't being a 30 year old virgin like embarrassing, why would you want to earn that "title", if I were you, I would lose it ASAP with the first hunk that looked my way.icon_lol.gif


    LOL I don't feel it's embarassing but something unusual about me.. some guys find it hot, others not so much.

    As for the reason, may be I can make money preaching abstinence to young teens? lmao jk

  • Apr 16, 2012 8:59 AM GMT
    i had sex for the first time with another guy when i was in my mid 20s. my first time was awful- the guy was ugly and i only did it with him cuz nobody else seemed to be interested (it was at a bathhouse), and i was scared to death of meeting someone at the bars because i didnt know what to say and feared that the other guys were far more experience than me.

    rushing into things is a bad idea. but waiting forever isnt so good either. you should not settle for a guy who doesnt work for you, thats true. but you will regret it in the future if you set your standards so high that no guy can reach them. but thats something you have to learn on your own.

    when some guys are in their 20s, they think 30 is old. they think a guy isnt hot unless he is ripped, has 'perfect' Anglo Saxon features, and has dick that could choke a horse. every top must have a donkey dick and be a power top. every bottom must be perfectly attuned to the top's motions and expectations. you must have the right job, live in the right trendy neighborhood, have a lot of money (or pretend that you do by living beyond your means)...
    oh what its like to be young!

    then you reach 35 and 40-somethings become hot, and 21 y o's become 'babies.' Body hair is more acceptable, then it become downright hot. money is not such a big deal anymore. u just want a nice fairly handsome guy to spend the night and not be a total douchebag. you want to have things in common to talk about.

    then you turn the big 40. guys your age are unattractive. you lust after 25 year olds. you feel your best years slipping thru your fingers. You try extra hard to keep the weight in line, work on those crows feet, and promise yourself that you will save more money so you are not stuck in this crappy city and its lame ass gay scene for the rest of your life.

    or

    at 30 you become a big hairy bear, get into raw fierce kink, dont give a shit what anyone thinks, and get 'married' to a silverdaddy who takes care of you and you both move into a renovated Victorian townhouse in a trendy gentrified district where you open a cutesy boutique or pet grooming salon.

    have fun!