selfish Tops

  • fchho

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    Mar 19, 2012 6:19 PM GMT
    i've met many tops for hookup from the internet and grindr ,they just into being sucked and turn you over to fuck, i think it is very selfish and boring. i am just curious are most top not really into sucking and kissing or is it just me being unlucky?
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    Mar 19, 2012 10:21 PM GMT
    Truth be told,
    I don't have experience in this area, but from what I have been told, kissing and touching is more of a sensual thing and alot of people do it because they care about the person and it is like a way to connecting physically.

    No offense but you are just the sex toy.
    Craiglisters, Grindr, etc people want sex with no strings attached. The guys who are gay or on the DL or just experimenting want to get pleasure from you and use you. That really is it.

    If you ever watch certain porn, alot times Sean Cody, or Corbin Fisher, they dont kiss they just start having sex.

    Kissing can sometimes have more meaning than sex, as weird as that sounds.

    Besides a guy did not come over to kiss you, he came to do you.
    The only time I can see that happening is if a guy really likes the full aspect of being witha guy, and he doesnt get to do it often, and that guy will kiss, and hug, and cuddle. And yes they are out there.

    But yeah,
    I hope i did not offend you but I think you really have to like someone or have them get to know you to have them be more sensual.
  • TheBizMan

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    Mar 20, 2012 3:01 AM GMT
    You just haven't met me.
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    Mar 20, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    It's just you. So when you are chatting with them ask what they like to do in bed. If they ask you the same question, then tell them what you expect.
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    Mar 20, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    I don't think they're anymore predominent than selfish bottoms who just whip down their panties and thrust their butthole in the air.
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    Mar 23, 2012 2:50 AM GMT
    There are tops like my self who won't blow or kiss when meeting someone for the first time, especially on Grindr, A4A, Manhunt or other hookup sites. That doesn't mean they're adverse to doing those things with someone they know well. They're just being extra careful with casual hookups.

  • Apr 16, 2012 8:12 AM GMT
    won't blow the first time but will fuck?
    in case u didnt know, fucking is the more STD-heavy option

  • Apr 16, 2012 8:15 AM GMT
    for OP, i agree with many of the comments above- grindr is all NSA. no date-worthy guys on there.guys lie all the time just to get you to go home with them. tops become bottoms. bottoms become tops. dicks change size. its all old and tired. its easier for a trashy top to fuck a bottom he just met than kiss him, because he doesnt see you as a person- u r just a piece of meat to him. nothing more. no offense. but what wouild you expect from meeting guys in that way?