MarkRoger saidI actually thought here was just a forum first so I was really happy. Then I found the dating part and got upset because other dating sites I was on were just for sex so I was hoping that wasn't the case here. Now I don't get any freaks randomly messaging me asking me if I want them to pick me up so we can have sex in their car.
Anyway, to answer your question: I use it for the forums... and to look at the hot guy pics, which are made hotter because they're not pornstars/models/totally naked.
Thank you Mark , I will probably stick to the forums as well .
I don't think most guys here rely upon RJ as a dating site. Although I've read some lovely stories of partners finding each other online here. And my husband & I have met over a dozen RJers in person, for friendship & socializing. Every one a wonderful guy, absolutely honest to his profile & pics, not a single phony. Definitely a quality site.
You do know RJ offers many resources for health & fitness? Not just in the forums, but articles and links to other resources. This isn't called RealJock for nothing.
So as in many things, it's what you make of it, and in having realistic & appropriate expectations. And no, this is not another hook-up site. The guys here are the most intelligent, erudite, and accomplished of any gay site I have ever known. They run rings around me. Some annoying anti-gay political plants to be avoided, their goal disruption, the US Right Wing hates us so, but if you block them this site will really amaze & please you.