Would You Take Your Gay Virgnity Back If You Could

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    Mar 22, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    I always hear people say if they knew what they know now they would have either waited or not done it with the person they were with.

    So my question is,
    Your first time with a guy, was it a mistake, and knowing what you know now...would you take it back and why?

    Or were you happy with the way things happened and would do it all over again reguardless of if you ended up together or not
  • TheBizMan

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    Mar 22, 2012 4:17 AM GMT
    Happy with how it happened... And even if it was a bad first time, I wouldn't take it back. It's a learning experience and will happen how it happens.

    Plus he let me do everything I wanted icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 22, 2012 5:50 AM GMT
    It depends.

    Would I be taking it back for a full refund or just exchanging it for size?

    I also have NO idea what I did with the reciept and I ain't in no mood for no hassles.
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    Mar 22, 2012 5:55 AM GMT
    I'd take it back just so I could experience the same pleasure and joy again with the same guy.
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    Mar 22, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
    NO! He and I loved each other.
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    Mar 22, 2012 8:18 AM GMT
    I was 13 and wouldn't trade the rush/experience for anything. Getting it over with that early before I knew you could wait took a lot of anxiety about losing my V card later. We are sexual beings, don't overthink it.
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    Mar 22, 2012 11:36 AM GMT
    No- We can all live vicariously live through Tim Tebow. icon_wink.gif
  • rnch

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    Mar 22, 2012 2:39 PM GMT
    Nope!

    I waited a lonnngggg time to loose it to the right person, at the right time, under the right conditions.

    It was a most satisfying experience, perhaps one of the most pleasant, satisfying, enjoyable experiences of my life (so far!); that lived up to ALL my expectations.

    A long description of the night I lost it is somewhere here on the RJ threads...well worth searching out and reading!


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    Mar 22, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    Yes. It was an ill-considered, unsatisfying hookup with some rando I never talked to again.
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    Mar 22, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    Larkin saidYes. It was an ill-considered, unsatisfying hookup with some rando I never talked to again.


    Samsies
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    Mar 22, 2012 2:59 PM GMT
    Never never never...oh and never!
    I wish I had the opportunity for it to have happened sooner in my life.
    It was the most amazing experience...and he was great.
    If anything I'd honestly rather take back my first straight sex experience
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    Mar 22, 2012 3:02 PM GMT
    So just my gay virginity or my straight virginity too?
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    Mar 22, 2012 3:02 PM GMT
    Do-overs
    Not, that it wasn't AWESOME, because it was; mostly because the buffet had a 'one trip only' policy.
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    Mar 22, 2012 3:52 PM GMT
    totally yes!
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    Mar 22, 2012 4:27 PM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidSo my question is,
    Your first time with a guy, was it a mistake, and knowing what you know now...would you take it back and why?

    Or were you happy with the way things happened and would do it all over again reguardless of if you ended up together or not

    Extremely happy, he gave me what is still the strongest & longest orgasm I ever experienced in my life. I wouldn't want to take THAT back! In fact, I did it several more times with him over a couple of months, until his employer relocated him out of state. And yet, it wasn't anal sex with him, just oral & manual.

    Anal came a few years later, with I guy I handpicked for his smaller dick (yes, I said SMALLER). I loved that sex, too, he couldn't believe I was a virgin, I was slamming back against him so enthusiastically while he did me doggie the first time. And twice more that night, in other positions.
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    Mar 22, 2012 6:04 PM GMT
    Tdawg saidSo just my gay virginity or my straight virginity too?


    Your gay one.

    As weird as it sounds..i count gay and straight virginity as seperate, because to me it is. You are going into territory you have never been in and opening yourself up to a person in a way you never have before so to me it's like being a virgin...


    but to the guys who just did a random hookup..why? I mean you guys are georgous surely you could have found a nice guy. Did you just want to get it over with, or were you just horny, or just wanted to know the feeling of being with another man?

    that is kinda sad, to regret your first time like that,icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 22, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    Can I just move the point in time to the third guy I was with? I really enjoyed that one.
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    Mar 22, 2012 6:10 PM GMT
    Nspyerf8 said
    Larkin saidYes. It was an ill-considered, unsatisfying hookup with some rando I never talked to again.


    Samsies


    totes!
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    Mar 22, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    why does it matter? all you can do is learn from it or cherish it...
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    Mar 22, 2012 6:23 PM GMT
    Definitely not. I was kinda pressured into it, but ended up loving it and I'm happy it happened.
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    Mar 22, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    Hell no! My 1st time I was with an italian bodybuilder on the blueridge parkway at night under the moon & stars while we did it finishing in sweat dripping from us both.....hot as hell!
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    Mar 22, 2012 6:48 PM GMT
    efff, let me lose mine 1st
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    Mar 22, 2012 7:34 PM GMT
    anal virginity is still intact. Should have held onto the other one too...
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    Mar 22, 2012 7:37 PM GMT
    notadumbjock saidefff, let me lose mine 1st


    Lol sorry
  • Graffix

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    Mar 22, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    So happy to hear soooo many of you had such great first time experiences. You remind me of guys I've known over the years who always responded to "How are you?" with "Fabulous, life is awesome!" Of course they weren't being truthful, not all the time. But with that kind of insincere emotional noise those of who have real and honest lives (as opposed to fictitious and/or delusional depictions of our own lives) get drowned out and overshadowed by your fantasies. The truth is that many guys have bad first time experiences and many people get taken advantage of the first time and throughout life. Some of you could take it down a couple of notches and stop bragging about how fabulous you are.