I have been talk to this guy for 3 months now and all of sudden he doesn't know he wants to be in a relationship...What do I do

  • Matt2004

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    Mar 23, 2012 1:17 AM GMT
    Here is the breakdown:

    There is a guy I have been talking to for 3 months and he lives in a small town and takes about 3 hours to get to his place. Well, this month, he said doesn't know what he wants in a relationship, he doesn't know what he wants in a boyfriend...one minute he says there is no connection between me and him, next he said he wants the connection he has with his best friend (he knows only 4 months)

    He recently got off he medication of depression and says he is doing fine but since he been off. He has made this decision about me and him and I think if he goes back on..He will see things clear

    My question, should I keep contacting this guy and hope he will know that am the guy that he is looking for ....or stop contacting him and find another guy?
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:26 PM GMT
    I'd suggest it's time to move on, at least for now.
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:27 PM GMT
    Move on, bud.
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    Aug 13, 2012 11:44 PM GMT
    Translation:
    thanks for building my self esteem to a level that I now feel I could do much better than you, Kbye
  • stratavos

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    Aug 14, 2012 12:01 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidTranslation:
    thanks for building my self esteem to a level that I now feel I could do much better than you, Kbye


    Dustin has a point. They've already moved on, it might be tough for you, but you should too.
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    Aug 14, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    A thread posted a March.

    First reply in August.

    The word "fail" has never had so much meaning! icon_lol.gif