"Imperfections" you find attractive

  • Musicman91

    Posts: 1529

    Mar 25, 2012 8:10 AM GMT
    Are there any? I personally think it's adorable when a well built guy has a little bit of a tummy. Idk why I have always thought it was cute.

    If there aren't any imperfections are they any quirky things about guys you find attractive?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 8:11 AM GMT
    I think Chris Evans' crooked nose is cute.

    I love it when ears stick out. I don't consider that an imperfection, but a lot of people don't seem to like it.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:19 PM GMT
    I could not date a guy without any physical imperfections. A) it would drive me crazy/make me insecure and B) it's the imperfections that make me fall in love with someone.

    I'm one of the weird types who will discriminate against someone for being too 'conventionally' goodlooking. I need to see someone I can relate to in order to be attracted to them. You know, a 'real human being' and not someone who has won the genetic lottery or looks like a walking, talking ad campaign.

    When I look at profiles on this site. see professional shots and non professional shots, I always prefer the non pro ones. The pro ones often give off a coldness because they lack imperfections.

    I like this quote:

    “Perfection is boring. If a face doesn't have mistakes, it's nothing.”-Kevyn Aucoin
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:25 PM GMT
    What is being defined as perfect? Looks? Personality?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:34 PM GMT
    I consider scars to be attractive if they are the result of actually being active and enjoying life. I have several scars from accidents and they each have their own (fun) story behind them.

    I also find little quirks to be quite attractive as I think it would be terribly boring if everyone behaved and acted the same way.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:34 PM GMT
    MusicMan91 saidAre there any? I personally think it's adorable when a well built guy has a little bit of a tummy. Idk why I have always thought it was cute.


    If you like hunky looking guys a little tummy won't derail the look and may even enhance it! icon_biggrin.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:37 PM GMT
    I love when a guy can't sing for shit but sings anyway, with enthusiasm.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:41 PM GMT
    Physically: I actually kind of like a guy who is a little "ugly" in a rough way. I've had people tell me my last boyfriend was a butterface lol.

    Personality: If you're socially awkward but deeply sincere, that will set my heart fluttering for you.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:44 PM GMT
    GINGERS


    kidding...Scars, birthmarks, and (OMG) freckles.

    Give me a Ginger with a scare on his chin from a hockey incident, freckles across his nose and a birthmark on the back of his neck...Wait...
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:49 PM GMT
    Someone with a little bit of awkwardness
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 1:54 PM GMT
    i realized that no one is perfect like me, so i guess i think i don't give a dame what imperfection a guy ill like him anyways.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 2:00 PM GMT
    whateveryo saidYou know, a 'real human being' and not someone who has won the genetic lottery or looks like a walking, talking ad campaign.

    Most men I've known closely, or even intimately, have had at least one genetic anomaly, internally or externally. Not always severe enough to be classified a deformity, more an oddity. I have some myself, including deformed ankle bones that affect my walking & running ability, but aren't visible to the naked eye.

    I've known men with odd hair patterns (one guy had a 2-inch diameter patch of very thick hair to the left of his lower spine, long enough to be a tail), misshapen toes, birthmarks, a laundry list of things. I've concluded that very few people are genetically perfect, that almost everyone has some kind of bodily flaw somewhere, either inside or outside, even if they don't know it themselves.

    But for the majority of people it's minor & insignificant, or at least should be, unless they or others fixate on it. As for being attractive, I can imagine that possibility for some people, although I've never met a man with an imperfection that particularly appealed to me. But neither do minor flaws bother me, I hardly think about them unless he happens to mention it, my attraction to a guy being more than superficial appearance.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 2:03 PM GMT
    Got a thing for a dodgy nose. Not too big, but wonky or formerly broken.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 2:07 PM GMT
    big ears ...and large nose icon_smile.gif
  • vintovka

    Posts: 588

    Mar 25, 2012 2:20 PM GMT
    wilcobravo saidGot a thing for a dodgy nose. Not too big, but wonky or formerly broken.


    +1
    Also a couple of scars don't hurt either.
  • suedeheadscot

    Posts: 1130

    Mar 25, 2012 2:22 PM GMT
    Muscled chest with big belly!
  • dreamer121

    Posts: 265

    Mar 25, 2012 2:23 PM GMT
    I agree with many of you... ears that stick out, glasses, gingers, social awkwardness... all can be very sexy.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 2:31 PM GMT
    crooked smile ;-/
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 2:38 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidPhysical imperfections? Not really. I find guys more attractive when society considers them unattractive.

    Clumsiness and awkwardness are two things I like. Also, I'd like to be able to take charge or the initiative, because the other guy is either too afraid too insecure with himself to make a move on me.


    i'm uglyicon_lol.gif
  • dannyboy1101

    Posts: 977

    Mar 25, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    Shnoz. I live big noses
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    whateveryo saidI could not date a guy without any physical imperfections. A) it would drive me crazy/make me insecure and B) it's the imperfections that make me fall in love with someone.

    I'm one of the weird types who will discriminate against someone for being too 'conventionally' goodlooking. I need to see someone I can relate to in order to be attracted to them. You know, a 'real human being' and not someone who has won the genetic lottery or looks like a walking, talking ad campaign.

    When I look at profiles on this site. see professional shots and non professional shots, I always prefer the non pro ones. The pro ones often give off a coldness because they lack imperfections.

    I like this quote:

    “Perfection is boring. If a face doesn't have mistakes, it's nothing.”-Kevyn Aucoin


    haha - this is exactly how i feel about conventionally good looking people. too chiseled, too square chinned, too buff. all my BFs tend to look a bit cubbish, lumpy, and stout. i like short guys who are a bit pudgy and rough on the edges. i think its because i grew up around factory workers and farmers.
  • kittar

    Posts: 314

    Mar 25, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    Back hair is one off the top of my head.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 3:09 PM GMT
    I don't find any imperfections attractive. My guys must be Photoshop perfect, in every way. And if they're not, I'll take a picture of them and make them that way. icon_razz.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Mar 25, 2012 3:33 PM GMT
    I like ears that sticks out a bit.
  • Timbales

    Posts: 13993

    Mar 25, 2012 3:36 PM GMT
    teeth that are a little crooked and 'fangs'