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Mar 28, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
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Hygene
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QUOTE Mar 28, 2012 11:20 PM GMTNo. You are not being selfish. Unless requested otherwise, it is general courtesy to cleanup for you romantic interests.
You don't seem to be too attracted to him anymore, perhaps, it is better to say things are not working out.
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QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 12:49 AM GMTTalk to him, not to the internet
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QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 12:51 AM GMTYou're simply gonna have to have a chat with him and ask him in a gentle way that you would like some changes. That is what being partners is all about. Asking for what you want.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 12:51 AM GMTYeah...sounds like you're gonna have to talk to him.
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QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 12:52 AM GMTmy ex body hygene was clean but everything else was really bad. he never did any house cleaning and a dirty bathroom was kind of a deal breaker for me. i didnt like going over to his place because of that
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 12:55 AM GMTTime for the talk, and if he doesn't wanna deal, then time for the walk.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 12:56 AM GMTIsn't brushing your teeth immediately before sex that involves your mouth a bad idea? Thought I read that somewhere. But no, I don't think you're being selfish. He's just not used to having his hygiene affect another person so directly. Whitener may be pushing it but he should be a little more attentive if he expects to be intimate.
You might want to try to "make it a game" as is suggested with kids, playing in the shower can be fun. -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 12:57 AM GMTYou're not being selfish, and, he's not for you. It would be great if you could stay friends, but keep your eyes open for a new boyfriend more similar to yourself.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 1:01 AM GMT
RHUK saidTalk to him, not to the internet
HAHAH I totally agree with you on this one. This is a discussion you should be having with him, not posting on the internet. Anyone who may know you or your BF from this website is now apart of your relationship. ROFL! I say talk to him if it doesn't pick up, then find another bf,
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 1:04 AM GMTI, personally, don't think you are being selfish with the teeth, cleanliness down low, and facial hair.
However, even though you hate body hair, he may find it tedious and difficult to keep it shaven on a regular basis. With that being said, if body hair bothers him as well, then he should not be complaining. Like almost everyone is saying, I suggest you talk with him about all of this. -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 1:10 AM GMTYour dislike of his body hair is not a hygiene issue. His mouth and ass, yes.
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QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 1:16 AM GMTbreak-up
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QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 1:30 AM GMTSometimes you have to love the good and the bad. Talk to him. Love him.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 1:38 AM GMTHe actually sounds like a breath of fresh air (no pun intended). Some gay guys are just too "made up" and spend too much time beautifying themselves. Good hygiene is cool, but too much can be cloying.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 2:39 AM GMTI'm sure you are making the guy sound dirtier than he seems. If it's really bothering you then you should talk to him, we don't know him and we cant talk to him for you. It's good that you found out he's Oscar the Grouch now than several months later so you can just ditch him if need be. Just hose him down if it's really bothering you.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 2:40 AM GMTshower with him
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QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 3:31 AM GMTI'm suprised your sticking around and its only been 2 months. I would have broken up with him a long time ago. Its pretty clear he does not care about him self, brushing your teeth and showering should be priorty!!!!! If I were you I'll cut it short.......
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QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 3:46 AM GMT
Ariodante saidYour dislike of his body hair is not a hygiene issue. His mouth and ass, yes.
This. Hygiene is healthiness through cleanliness, not how much time you waste shaving.
Tell him, as politely as possible, to wipe his teeth and brush his ass. Or is it the other way around?
Anyway, if he won't change for you then go from there whether or not to stay with him. Your boyfriend. Your choice. -
Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 3:50 AM GMTIt works, or it doesn't. If you like him you like him. Tell him if he wants anal to clean up and if he doesn't it is out of the question.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
averagejoe said
He has nice, straight teeth, but they're all discolored and stained.
He likes anal, but he's always self conscious that he's dirty. Yet he never cleans up down their before we hang out.
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QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 4:54 AM GMTHe just needs Gay 101. Take him into the shower before sex and scrub him down, play with his butt, clean it up, take the brush and tell how you like him to brush like you do and do it together. THEN if he does not see the point of all this, and how much you appreciate it , you move on.
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Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profileQUOTE Mar 29, 2012 4:59 AM GMT
AvadaKedavra said
averagejoe said
He has nice, straight teeth, but they're all discolored and stained.
He likes anal, but he's always self conscious that he's dirty. Yet he never cleans up down their before we hang out.
ew
and
ew
Ewwwww!! I hate young piggy bottoms. They scare me straight -
QUOTE Mar 29, 2012 5:07 AM GMTThe BF sounds kind of selfish and sort of gross.
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