Are bottoms just plain lazy?

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    Mar 29, 2012 3:06 PM GMT
    Somebody said this to me yesterday and it really got me going. I've always thought that sex was between two people, so I got a bit wound up.

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    Mar 29, 2012 3:12 PM GMT
    If you must, blame comedienne Margaret Cho for popularizing this sentiment many years ago when she said "I'm so lazy I'd be such a bottom."
  • Hothouse

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    Mar 29, 2012 3:14 PM GMT
    I've also heard a gay comedian say he didn't know if he was a bottom because he liked it or because he was lazy.
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:16 PM GMT
    None of you have seen a power bottom before?

    Bottoms can definitely do a lot of the work...
  • Hothouse

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    Mar 29, 2012 3:28 PM GMT
    Yes, I know what a power bottom is, and I also know that a good bottom man is not lazy in the sack.
    A bottom man that gets into having a hot time is wonderful.
    I've also had guys I'd call a lazy bottom, just laying there and taking it and not really getting involved. Not even sure if he's enjoying any of it. I'll take an active power bottom man anyday!
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 29, 2012 3:30 PM GMT
    A talented bottom creates opportunities and certainly isn't lazy!

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    Mar 29, 2012 3:35 PM GMT
    Power bottoms are amazing guys to know! What is hotter than a bottom who knows how to give you the ride of your life? Squeeze, release, push-back, slamming - - - there are a whole lot of skills a good bottom has developed. I'd never be, or want to be with - a lazy bottom.
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:36 PM GMT
    TrevorMark saidNone of you have seen a power bottom before?

    Bottoms can definitely do a lot of the work...




    agree.... i love when the work....icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:38 PM GMT
    There are all kinds of bottoms, power, bossy, cry baby, teasing and lazy. Some are so lazy that it feels like they are dead. Personally I like screaming bronco in my bed. My ex was a corpse...ugh.
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:38 PM GMT
    Yes. Which is why I like being lazy. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:40 PM GMT
    Tops can be pretty lazy too. Plus, I've dated guys who could not bottom just because they weren't tough enough, no matter how much time they spent at the gym. I wouldn't put too much faith in universal statements about people.
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:40 PM GMT
    Dacaden saidThere are all kinds of bottoms, power, bossy, cry baby, teasing and lazy.


    You forgot messy.
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    endo said
    Dacaden saidThere are all kinds of bottoms, power, bossy, cry baby, teasing and lazy.


    You forgot messy.


    and unconscious
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    What exactly is a Power Bottom?
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    Mar 29, 2012 3:45 PM GMT
    A power bottom is the dominant in bed. Really I think it is a misnomer because a good top realizes it is more then just get hard and fucking the guy until he comes. A good top drives his bottom crazy, making him orgasim multiple times if possible and literally wearing him out before he gets off. The bottom sets the speed and tempo and a good top reads those signals.
  • dj12

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    Mar 29, 2012 3:57 PM GMT
    Lazy? Lazy?! I'm hardly lazy. Being a good bottom takes skill and a lot of energy. icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 29, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    I don't even know what top or bottom is icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 29, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    A good bottom is definitely not lazy. But a great bottom is hard to find.
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    Mar 29, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    TotalTopJock saidA good bottom is definitely not lazy. But a great bottom is hard to find.
    Soooooo truuuuuue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Mar 29, 2012 5:35 PM GMT
    All I ask is that you come clean. And I mean CLEAN! The rest I can deal with.
  • nomad4life

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    Mar 29, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    hexagon9 saidI don't even know what top or bottom is icon_lol.gif


    Please tell me that's an honest joke. Maybe a "lol" at the end of the sentence?
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    Mar 29, 2012 5:57 PM GMT
    I don't know if there is any truth to bottoms being merely lazy - - but I LOVE the whole concept!!!!!!!

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    Mar 29, 2012 6:00 PM GMT
    TotalTopJock saidA good bottom is definitely not lazy. But a great bottom is hard to find.



    totally agree... found mine btw icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 29, 2012 6:01 PM GMT
    It takes work to open up to take it.
    Sometimes a lot of work. icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 29, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    Shush you!