Why are gay men so scared of commitment and deny the long for right to be wed after complaining about it being unfair? I swear, some people will never be satisfied!

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    Jul 12, 2008 5:35 PM GMT
    Omg wtf?! First it's us gays are never going to have the same rights as heteros and that's unfair and unconstitutional, and now that we've actually achieved some small measure of success and progression, all the polygamous gay clubbers are bitching because they want something more than gay marriage? What the hell? If you wanted something other than gay marriage why the hell did the community band behind The Equal Rights Campaign for gay marriage, if they really wanted civil union rights? Wth!? Or is it just that the beggers have become choosers and want something more than just closure and happiness? Or I could be all wrong and all these gays just want to live a restraintless life going around club to club fucking whomever without even the thought of commitment as possibility. Maybe all they want is a crutch to perpetuate their self pity for not being equal and having to live such a rabid risque lifestyle. Damn bitches, this is a chance for us to actually use gay marriage as stepping stone towards greater equalities throughout society. This could lead to work related benefits, tax exception status, and few other benefits a lot you don't know your missing because you can't take the rare chance at progress set right in front of you! Goddamn, if it turns out that gay marriage is done away with because of idiots like you, than I'm going to disassociate with the gay community as a whole and stick to the few gay friends I have. You selfish ingrateful bastards.
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    Jul 12, 2008 5:43 PM GMT
    Epic_Q said if it turns out that gay marriage is done away with because of idiots like you, than I'm going to disassociate with the gay community as a whole and stick to the few gay friends I have. You selfish ingrateful bastards.


    If you want to impose your own morality on others, I say good riddance.
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    Jul 12, 2008 6:18 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie said
    Epic_Q said if it turns out that gay marriage is done away with because of idiots like you, than I'm going to disassociate with the gay community as a whole and stick to the few gay friends I have. You selfish ingrateful bastards.


    If you want to impose your own morality on others, I say good riddance.


    This isn't about me getting what I want, this is about a step foward we're already taking. Now a bunch of polygamist want to take away something from the few monogamist in the game community? If anything this is them imposing thier morality on us. Some of us may actaully want gay marriage. And though I know I don't speak for all, I speak for myself when I say that that's a crime. All the polygamist queers can fuck in dark corners all they want, but they're not going to steal away something that could be invalueable to all of us, including them.
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    Jul 12, 2008 6:30 PM GMT
    polygamist hets aren't taking away het marriage. People screw around, it is wired into our monkey brains. If sex without commitment bothers you then your beef is with humanity, not the queer community.
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    Jul 12, 2008 7:26 PM GMT
    It's not just the Gays! Not every single person is equipped/built/ready for marriage let alone a monogamous relationship. To each his/her/their own!
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    Jul 12, 2008 7:44 PM GMT
    a1972guy saidIt's not just the Gays! Not every single person is equipped/built/ready for marriage let alone a monogamous relationship. To each his/her/their own!


    So what, doesn't mean we don't deserve the option. And it's not like there'll be a gun to your heads demanding you get married your long term relationship partner or whatever. So don't get married if you don't want to, but for those who want to I believe they all deserve the right and option whenever and/or if-ever they're ready.
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    Jul 12, 2008 11:52 PM GMT
    Who in the gay community is organizing against making gay marriage legal?

    Just because some people don't make it a priority doesn't mean they care if you get married.

    Am I missing something?

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    Jul 13, 2008 12:04 AM GMT
    Fucken A dude thats all kinds of fucked up fag drama you posted. I haven't heard of the gay community running from gay marriage. Did you think every fag in town was going to skip on down to city hall and get a marriage liscense? Even if only a bunch of dykes get married it doesn't mean the gay community doesn't support it. All the gay community wants is equality. We fags don't have to put in some number of legal fag marriages a year or month to get what every straight gets.

    Maybe after spending a life time watching the straights fuck up Marriage some of us fags know if you are going to legally get married you need to think it through and not rush it. All wen want is that equal right. If we want to get married and it feels right then we will. If not so what? At least the option is there. Maybe fags take the idea more serious.
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    Jul 13, 2008 12:31 AM GMT
    Epic_Q said all the polygamous gay clubbers are bitching because they want something more than gay marriage?


    I am lost.

    Where did this come from?

    Who's complaining?

    What do you mean "more than gay marriage"?
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    Jul 13, 2008 12:36 AM GMT
    So that's where left field is...icon_eek.gif


    Your sampling of a few polygamists isn't near a significant statistic that represents the gay community.
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    Jul 13, 2008 4:50 AM GMT
    Epic_Q saidOmg wtf?! First it's us gays are never going to have the same rights as heteros and that's unfair and unconstitutional, and now that we've actually achieved some small measure of success and progression, all the polygamous gay clubbers are bitching because they want something more than gay marriage?


    Where did this come from? Who are the polygamous "gay clubbers" that are bitching? Cite some sources. This sounds like a long, rambling whine.

    I have yet to meet a gay person who isn't at least supportive of what's happening in California and other states, even if they don't think gay marriage is as important as an air tight civil union.

    I guess I should know better. Every Forum thread that starts out with a whining overgeneralization such as "...why are gay men so scared of committment..." is quicksand for any logical argument.icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 13, 2008 4:55 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie said People screw around, it is wired into our monkey brains.

    Oh here we go again... Waiting for that quote! Say it!
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    Jul 13, 2008 4:59 AM GMT
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    Jul 13, 2008 5:22 AM GMT
    [cite]all these gays just want to live a restraintless life going around club to club fucking whomever without even the thought of commitment as possibility[/cite]

    That's kinda the American dream.

    It sounds like you're expecting too much from a 'community' that really isn't there in the first place.

    It is kinda like the outcome of the women's lib movement - some women feeling they have to marry and have the kids and the job and all of the things because that is what was fought for.

    What/who caused you to write this post? The tone of it sounds like someone or something pissed you off.
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    Jul 13, 2008 5:33 AM GMT
    There is some gay and bisexual garter snakes and penguins that are opposed to marriage too:

    http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=bisexual-species