What do you do to keep your relationship exciting?

  • Profire

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    Mar 30, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    I read another thread about a guy who would take one day out of a month and make it his BF's special day.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2271411

    I thought it was a good way of not letting a relationship get stale.

    What other tricks or special things do you do for your BF/ Partner to keep the spark going in your relationship?

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    Mar 30, 2012 6:57 AM GMT
    We like to travel a lot so that keeps things interesting. It's fun to have sex in new places.

    I also am the one who is more spontaneous in our relationship. Sometimes you need to plan a head if your going to be on the recieving end especially if you want things to be a surprise in an unknown area such as the beach, woods, etc.

    I thinks setting up some quality time is essential if you both have a really crazy work schedule too.

    Communication of what he finds sexually fun and entissing. There is so much to choose from and everybody is different.

    Speaking for my self, I'm very experimental and willing to try most things. Oh and we always say to each other almost every day that I love you. It just comes out naturally, it's not forced. We always hug and cozy at night.
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    Mar 30, 2012 7:56 AM GMT
    Hmm there's nothing you can do I mean if it have to end well it's not the big deal you don't have to change yourself for someone if he really like you then your gonna deal with the hard time together the true key it's stay true to yourself everyone have qualities and flaws, a good relationship come with a good communication between the two.
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    Mar 30, 2012 1:44 PM GMT

    "What other tricks or special things do you do for your BF/ Partner to keep the spark going in your relationship?"


    We take a conscious joy in being in that privileged place; being the apple of each others' eye. Keeping that in mind, all kinds of small actions of love take on greater meaning.

    Ugh, that didn't come out very well. I'll explain/clarify if you need.
    We're coping with a tragedy and an impending death today.

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    Mar 30, 2012 7:40 PM GMT
    No special tricks are necessary. Just enjoy each other's company and always think that each day could be your last day together, so maximize every minute that you have with each other without overwhelming or asphyxiating your partner.
  • LJay

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    Mar 30, 2012 7:59 PM GMT
    I just masturbate and wish I had a relationship.
  • ueatzit

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    Mar 30, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    I agree with others on here that no special tricks are necessary. I'd argue that trying too hard gets you in trouble by setting yourself up for disappointment when you find your partner can't/won't follow along because you've made grand plans to set the relationship alight again through unilateral decisions. Communication is very important and by being intimate with your thoughts and his, the relationship will keep on burning.

    It is normal that every relationship colds down with time, but that crazy fiery passion is transformed into a hot slow burning heat if things are right. Spending time together and knowing he is very special to you, and you to him, is sufficient. Just a different pace than the youthful phase of fresh love. That is refreshing after many gay flash-in-the-pan type relationships.

    We do set aside date nights in a special effort. Rules are no mobiles, no expectations about venue as long as the focus is spending time together.