WTF???

  • JOCKDEVIL34

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    Mar 30, 2012 2:33 AM GMT
    OK!! 4 Years ago I quit my job, sold my car, said good-bye to all my friends and moved away to a small town on the east coast with someone I thought I was going to be with for a long time. I spent a-lot of my personal savings on repairing things at his dad's house. What a dumb-ass I was. While you probably know what happens! He cheated and the relationship was out the door. Well I contacted my family, packed my shit as shipped what I could home and boarded a plane back to Tennessee.

    Well I did use my head on one thing! I didn't sell my house I rented it to some good people who were never late and always paid on time. Had to move in with the family until there lease was over and I found another job. But finding a job was not so easy. Worked some temporary jobs and learned a little more about the gay world. I see these comments about guys that won't date guys that don't have jobs. Well that's kind of crazy because I didn't have a job but I still had savings and my own house which is paid for, and still have great credit.

    But long story short. I never found another job that I really loved like my old one. So I made the decision to go back to college and get my Nursing degree. Now working on becoming an ARNP. Got a new boyfriend in my life and bought a new house.

    Now the Ex is trying to show up in my life wanting to be back in my life as friend but with benefits. WTF? Why am I getting wrench thrown at me? I love my new BF and would never hurt him. He is a good man.


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    Mar 30, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    If you love your bf and don't want to hurt him then just tell the Ex to move on. Simple as that.icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 30, 2012 4:18 AM GMT
    Take them both and have a "sandwich" every night. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 30, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    Jewlicious saidIf you love your bf and don't want to hurt him then just tell the Ex to move on. Simple as that.icon_wink.gif

    +1

    I lost my first BF that way. His ex suddenly reappeared, the issue complicated with the ex's demands for a portion of my BF's house in which they had lived together. My BF went into a deep depression, and our relationship fell apart.

    He got to keep his house, BTW, but not me. Tales of ex-BFs reappearing always make me shudder. They should be barred at the gate and avoided like the plague.
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    Mar 30, 2012 6:22 AM GMT
    Pff don't even think about him. The guy was a ahole once , pretty sure he can be one again.be happy with your new guy.
  • Laurence

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    Mar 30, 2012 10:17 AM GMT
    I agree with moodhawk. What's the point of the post? It's a great story and you've shown that life sometimes sucks but usually gets better.

    If you're asking what to do about your Ex, then tell him to f**k off. He had his chance and you're not going there again.

    Some people have a self-destructive side and will constantly screw things up for themselves. You sound like a hard worker, so don't let yourself be one of those people.

    Good Luck

    Loz
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    Mar 30, 2012 1:33 PM GMT
    simple: MOVE DA FU_CK ON...