Ironically, I've chosen to keep myself away from the gays in the area cause the nature of the South. With such a high crime rate and not getting a good first impression from the many guys I met online, and few in person here; I'm feeling like a contradiction. Though, I'm not the kind of person to deny a direct question of my sexuality; if anyone ever had a reason, and honest desire with balls to ask me. Other than that, I've walked the dog wearing most of my gayest to neutral clothing just to subjugate a reaction/response that remains to seen. Odd how gay men will not even speak to each other in public here. Damn my gaydar! It is USELESS to me out here!