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Yesterday at the gym i noticed a guy checking out my dick. He said 'sorry to look man but you have a huge dick'
How many other of u guys have had similar experiences. How often have other guys told you that you had a big dick? How often have you dropped your shorts for the fIrst time in front of friends and they hAve been surprised at the size of your dick and commented on it?

Is such commentary common in aussie gyms?

Had guys stare but no audio...
unless I tak'em back to my place

I'm not in the habit of dropping my shorts in front of friends. Is this some strange Aussie custom? Never happened to me when i was in Sydney.

I am just shocked he said something to you. Most people look away. I was in my gym shower and at the time they had taken the curtains off all the stalls. There was a guy in on of the showers that always would look my way. So as I was washing my hair (scalp) I turn to give him a peek. I hear a "OH" and a thud. I guess he liked what he saw.

The only comments I've ever heard about the size of my dick is when I've been with a guy and it's erect.

I have a big cock, and I get that sometimes at the spa. Of course, when I wear a jock or my rubber Spedo, that seems to emphasize the... size, and I do get a LOT of stares. Once, when I was at a co-ed sex club in Vegas, a hot little blond showgirl pulled me into her room and had sex with me, and said "With a cock that size, you'll be very popular in here!"

Anytime someone looks or comments (even the trolls) I always smile and thank them.

Maybe it's an American thing, being too uptight about commenting on the size of guys in the shower. Any guy that's really hung likes to hear it, and in a guys-only shower that's no exception. I've had conversations in the shower about how to get your butt to look like that, or I'll do the occasional 'wow, you're girlfriend must really be happy with you', referring to the size of his dick.

Oh, and yogihound...how you doin!

redheadguy saidI'm not in the habit of dropping my shorts in front of friends. Is this some strange Aussie custom? Never happened to me when i was in Sydney.

What you never been skinny dipping with mates?

I've seen all my mates (even the few girls I do know) completely butt naked and they have all seen me I never got comments for the size of my cock though... laughed at yes, but ya get over it

Since I go to two nude beaches here, I have gotten a few comments. The other day a few of us were standing around a table while some friends were eating their lunch and we were just talking. Right in the middle of the conversation about something non-sexual, this one friend takes a break from his salad and says to me, "I would like your cock and his balls". It was funny at the time but I really do not appreciate these kind of comments.

Most guys always seem to want a bigger cock, but, remember, it always looks greener on the other side. There are problems with having a big cock. Luckily, I am not too big for my present husband. There are a lot of guys out there bigger than me. Frankly, it is pretty to look at, but sometimes, I pity them.

My size is average for a typical Asian guy. So nobody comment that is to big or to small ....so far.

redheadguy saidI'm not in the habit of dropping my shorts in front of friends.

Perhaps, but he has no compunction against dropping them in front any stranger who has the least inclination to cooperate, as far as I can tell. ... ...

After working out and going into the showers, I have had a few guys sneaking a peek or two , which means nothing to me really, we are guys, we like to see what other guys have. I did make a friend at the gym though and he did comment one time about my cock, but that was only because I got a Prince Albert and he said he did not see that there before. I joked with him and asked " Oh.. so you were peekinh HUH..?? " He got a tinsy bit nervous and I laughed at him and said it was OK... I looked at him too. We talked about if it hurt to get it done (which it does intially guys- but it goes away after a few days) and he wanted to see if closer. I showed him and he was quite intrigued. He touched it, no big deal - we were alone, and said he would never get one. He did also remark, half joking, that it maked my already big dick look bigger. I said Whatever, I am average. He said " trust me, I am a black guy and you got me beat" I about pissed myself laughing.

ERIK

That was actually something that I got teased mercilessly about in jr high, by a couple of particularly stupid bullies. They went on doing it for years before finally realizing that they weren't really hurting my reputation.

yogihound saidYesterday at the gym i noticed a guy checking out my dick. He said 'sorry to look man but you have a huge dick'
How many other of u guys have had similar experiences. How often have other guys told you that you had a big dick? How often have you dropped your shorts for the fIrst time in front of friends and they hAve been surprised at the size of your dick and commented on it?

Please unlock your privates!

Caslon5000 said

redheadguy saidI'm not in the habit of dropping my shorts in front of friends.

Perhaps, but he has no compunction against dropping them in front any stranger who has the least inclination to cooperate, as far as I can tell. ... ...

LOL...you beat me to it, Caslon.

This thread is perhaps one half step classier than the soon-to-be posted companion thread....

"Guys commenting on how good looking I am..."

No, about me or anybody else. Men are getting more brazen perhaps.

1st, I think that it is imperative that yogihound drop trow and let's us determine if, infact, it is trully huge...

I'd be happy to examine it and qualify my findings

Yeah, guys stare and comment. And I'd be a liar if I pretended I didn't love it. I'm a show-off and an exhibitionist, so if guys want to look, I give them a good look. ;)

Damn!! Well thanks yogihound....

Yeah, that man has a pretty cock!!

BodyWork4 saidDamn!! Well thanks yogihound....

Yeah, that man has a pretty cock!!

damn, i feel left outta the loop

I am pretty well endowed but never had 'audio' in the showers as well. I would have no idea how to react. Sure i had the occasional stare but i take that as a very sincere compliment hahaha.
and i must admit, when i see one that is larger then mine i can't help to stare myself hahaha

That's so tacky to me! Why would you compliment or comment on something someone had no control over (size)? Unlike say one woman complimenting another's breast (which she may have had done), it's quite ridiculous.

Now, if a guy's comment follows his mouth going on it, that might be something else...

hmmm, would gasping and fainting count as a comment?

ShawnTX saidMaybe it's an American thing, being too uptight about commenting on the size of guys in the shower. Any guy that's really hung likes to hear it, and in a guys-only shower that's no exception. I've had conversations in the shower about how to get your butt to look like that, or I'll do the occasional 'wow, you're girlfriend must really be happy with you', referring to the size of his dick.

Oh, and yogihound...how you doin!

Notice it is happening more and more in college towns, but then fraternity as well as the soccer team have always been vocal.... And as stated, we all love to hear it.... I just turn it around and say Y'all should see it hard!

as a teenager in the locker rooms after practice there was always complimenting the guys with the biggest dicks...but we were young back then...lol

I don't get any comments. Well, I'm average.
But I do look at others in the showers, and don't mind if others are looking at me

sometimes on my swimmer team, i was asked my someone if i was smuggling a cucumber in my pants. and when i run i dont wear underwear, sometimes people who run past me stare down and then look up real quick.

Truthfully, I've been dealing with this since high school. For years I was actually rather embarrassed about my "size", but as what happens when we mature, we learn to embrace those qualities, attributes or things that we can't change. Since exploring the gay scene in my early 40's, (and earlier in my life in the straight scene as well) I have also dealt with feelings of being objectified. At this point in my life however, I have reached a point where I am a lot more comfortable and confident in myself for who and what I am, and less sensitive or aggravated about issues like what I have described. Every once in a while I see or hear from an old school friend who still calls me by a certain notorious nickname I earned when I first joined the football team and had to share the showers with the other guys....and for a second, I get a little twinge of that same old awkward embarrassed feeling, then I just laugh it off. With age comes wisdom and an ability to let things just not bother you as much as they used to!

I have gotten some looks and comments like "no shame down there man" but comments dont bother me at all. I am comfortable with my dick size even though some have said its not that comfortable in their ass.

BIGBLKBDYBLDR saidTruthfully, I've been dealing with this since high school. For years I was actually rather embarrassed about my "size", but as what happens when we mature, we learn to embrace those qualities, attributes or things that we can't change. Since exploring the gay scene in my early 40's, (and earlier in my life in the straight scene as well) I have also dealt with feelings of being objectified. At this point in my life however, I have reached a point where I am a lot more comfortable and confident in myself for who and what I am, and less sensitive or aggravated about issues like what I have described. Every once in a while I see or hear from an old school friend who still calls me by a certain notorious nickname I earned when I first joined the football team and had to share the showers with the other guys....and for a second, I get a little twinge of that same old awkward embarrassed feeling, then I just laugh it off. With age comes wisdom and an ability to let things just not bother you as much as they used to!

So big guy, and I do mean BIG, what IS that notorious nickname? We all wanna know!

well if he was alking abot you thats cool i eish my friends would do that with me lmfao would love to see =] ill tell yea

This is a great topic..I used to think I was small in high school, until I met many more men being gay. I am about 5 completely limp and 9 or so erect. I am a definite grower, but even flacid I am large. I like the comments in the showers, esp when I am 'partially more hung' just from seeing hot men and it has happened even with straight guys saying things like-'man you are hung'. My dad saw me once and asked me how I got that size cause iy wasn't from him. He compared me to a guy in the navy they nicknamed 'One hung low'.

Its also fun to get the first reaction when I am dating and the guy says 'OMG its huge'. Its just something that people like and associate with verility and masculinity. the big downside is that I am versatile and guys usually won't or can't take it...that sucks so I usually end up bottoming.

I have gotten to the point that I like to see a guy 3 times or so just before any kind of sex so I know there is a connection and that they want more than a big dick.

I used to be embarrassed about being much bigger than the other guys, especially in high school PE classes. At that age boys mostly want to be the same as everyone else, not different, and many of the boys were still developing and quite small, making me seem even larger. In my early teens I hadn't yet learned that this a difference usually to be envied by other men.

Instead, I thought it would be interpreted by my HS shower mates as my being semi-hard, a queer sign. And I was in fact always fighting a stiffy in the shower, sometimes losing the battle to even more remarkable effect.

Not until many years later when I came out gay did I realize the advantage I had. But it was an advantage that cuts both ways. It also caused too many size-queens to wanna latch onto me, for no other reason than my big dick.

Ironic that as a gay man, I found myself facing a woman's dilemma, when straight men are only interested in her for her big tits and nothing else.

So yeah, I've had stares and comments since I was a teenager, still do, but now I've learned to accept it in the locker room. Except when dating, where as soon as some guy starts obsessing on my size, to the exclusion of any other qualities I might have, it's adios.

I was once dating this woman (a Black woman, as I only date Black men and women) and she was being snarky with me one day, and she said, "If I could, I'd just take your cock, your hands and arms, and your butt. I'd throw away the rest."

I threw her away soon thereafter.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jY8FNlfsWhU

above link to Mario Lopez appearanc in the showers on Nip/Tuck. Well worth the 3 minutes!


I was with a couple of friends one evening - they knew each other only through me. The topic of nice dicks came up (go figure) and one said, "Didn't you tell me about someone who has a really pretty dick?" I smiled and said, "Yeah .. . he's standing right next to you."

I'm much more excited by a really nice looking one than a really big one! Half the big ones I've handled didn't have such talented owners in the first place.