I have a crush and it's silly!!!

  • igadude1

    Posts: 1

    Apr 03, 2012 1:17 AM GMT
    I have a crush on someone but I've been getting mixed signals!

    It goes like this... this guy started working at a grocery store located right under
    my building. The first minute I looked at him, I knew that I was attracted to him in an unbelievable way. He made prolonged eye contact too!

    Forward 2 weeks, and I'm buying groceries 3 times a day! And ''just by chance'', of all the the cash registers there are, every time I fall on his.
    We start making small talk, he's the one who did the first interactive
    conversations.

    All through this, I still don't know if he's also interested, or
    if he's super friendly (and has no idea I'm gay). In all honestly, he could be straight, but a very friendly straight guy.

    First, he is the one who started asking personal questions.
    One time, he gave me free pasta. Just they way he did it was cute.
    Just today, he offered me chewing gum. These small gestures... don't they mean something?

    But of course, there's a but. Today, I told him jokingly ''I buy my
    groceries 3 times a day''. He said ''yea I noticed, and I still
    don't know why'' he smiled. I told him I was throwing a party this
    week-end, and that he's invited, he told me he'll see. But for some reason,
    when I invited him, his body language changed a bit (negatively if you ask me).

    Should I take it down a notch with the stalking?
    Any advice?



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    Apr 03, 2012 1:19 AM GMT
    I'm calling bullshit on this one icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 03, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    Offer money.
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    Apr 03, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    Even in the best case scenario (he's gay & interested in you), you are coming across too desperate. Make yourself scarce & see how he responds. These things take time; be patient.
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    Apr 03, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    Find out where he lives and send him a dead frog with a heart carved into it's back. He'll get it.
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    Apr 03, 2012 2:57 AM GMT
    igadude1 saidI have a crush on someone but I've been getting mixed signals!

    It goes like this... this guy started working at a grocery store located right under
    my building. The first minute I looked at him, I knew that I was attracted to him in an unbelievable way. He made prolonged eye contact too!

    Forward 2 weeks, and I'm buying groceries 3 times a day! And ''just by chance'', of all the the cash registers there are, every time I fall on his.
    We start making small talk, he's the one who did the first interactive
    conversations.

    All through this, I still don't know if he's also interested, or
    if he's super friendly (and has no idea I'm gay). In all honestly, he could be straight, but a very friendly straight guy.

    First, he is the one who started asking personal questions.
    One time, he gave me free pasta. Just they way he did it was cute.
    Just today, he offered me chewing gum. These small gestures... don't they mean something?

    But of course, there's a but. Today, I told him jokingly ''I buy my
    groceries 3 times a day''. He said ''yea I noticed, and I still
    don't know why'' he smiled. I told him I was throwing a party this
    week-end, and that he's invited, he told me he'll see. But for some reason,
    when I invited him, his body language changed a bit (negatively if you ask me).

    Should I take it down a notch with the stalking?
    Any advice?





    I'm thinking you guys just got trolled LOLicon_twisted.gif
  • sbwlguy

    Posts: 566

    Apr 03, 2012 10:11 PM GMT
    Invite him out for a 121, not where he'll be thrown into a crowd of people he doesn't know...