Don't you hate homos who bash scene gays yet...

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    Apr 03, 2012 3:09 PM GMT
    They are on every single gay dating-hook up site 24/7 and they know everyone in the online community? acting like they are different from gays who are active in the gay scene every weekend. Just a vent..

    anyone else notice this? might just be a toronto thing
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    Apr 03, 2012 3:23 PM GMT
    Ugh I know, I hate it when people bash me for wanting to go out to the clubs all the time and then they get mad that I listen to only the toppest of the top 40. Then they get mad that I want the latest fashion and gush when lady gags comes on. Then they get mad because I call all my friends "gurl" or "bitch". Its like yeah, so what if I am here all the time and know the regulars and judge all the ugly people, that doesnt make you better than me. I swear the nerve of those gays who dont do what I do on a regular basis
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    Apr 03, 2012 3:32 PM GMT
    Claystation saidUgh I know, I hate it when people bash me for wanting to go out to the clubs all the time and then they get mad that I listen to only the toppest of the top 40. Then they get mad that I want the latest fashion and gush when lady gags comes on. Then they get mad because I call all my friends "gurl" or "bitch". Its like yeah, so what if I am here all the time and know the regulars and judge all the ugly people, that doesnt make you better than me. I swear the nerve of those gays who dont do what I do on a regular basis

    +111 well said.
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    Apr 03, 2012 3:37 PM GMT
    Don't you just hate haters?
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    Apr 03, 2012 3:45 PM GMT
    Claystation saidUgh I know, I hate it when people bash me for wanting to go out to the clubs all the time and then they get mad that I listen to only the toppest of the top 40. Then they get mad that I want the latest fashion and gush when lady gags comes on. Then they get mad because I call all my friends "gurl" or "bitch". Its like yeah, so what if I am here all the time and know the regulars and judge all the ugly people, that doesnt make you better than me. I swear the nerve of those gays who dont do what I do on a regular basis


    A fair bit of stereotyping going on there man BUT there is truth to it. I get sick of it sometimes too..........being surrounded by a bunch of insecure arrogant gays can be a bit much at times. Hence why i've never had a LTR with a gay man.
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    Apr 03, 2012 3:46 PM GMT
    I don't know if I hate homos who bash scene gays but I do know that I love the OP's screen name.
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    Apr 03, 2012 3:57 PM GMT
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidThey are on every single gay dating-hook up site 24/7 and they know everyone in the online community? acting like they are different from gays who are active in the gay scene every weekend. Just a vent..

    anyone else notice this? might just be a toronto thing
    Agreed.
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    Apr 03, 2012 3:57 PM GMT
    Eat more poutine.
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    Apr 03, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    "The fundamental delusion of humanity is to suppose that I am here and you are out there."
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    Apr 03, 2012 5:41 PM GMT
    ZennedDaFuckOut saidThey are on every single gay dating-hook up site 24/7 and they know everyone in the online community? acting like they are different from gays who are active in the gay scene every weekend. Just a vent..

    anyone else notice this? might just be a toronto thing


    No, let them stay online...

    ...where they belong.
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    Apr 03, 2012 5:45 PM GMT
    What if you're a scene gay AND on dating-hook up sites 24/7 icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 03, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    It's not very PC, but for all the talk about "community," gay subculture really isn't all that kind to its lone wolves who break from the pack.
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    Apr 03, 2012 5:51 PM GMT
    GreenHopper saidDon't you just hate haters?


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    Apr 03, 2012 5:52 PM GMT
    Elusium saidIt's not very PC, but for all the talk about "community," gay subculture really isn't all that kind to its lone wolves who break from the pack.


    Yep
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    Apr 03, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    Elusium saidIt's not very PC, but for all the talk about "community," gay subculture really isn't all that kind to its lone wolves who break from the pack.



    When you break away from the pack of the mainstream of U.S. culture, it is large enough that you can can still find a lot of people with similar interests to you. When you break away from the pack in a subgroup of the population like the mainstream gay population, you often find yourself alone as far as the gay experience goes since gays are already such a tiny fraction of the population.
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    Apr 03, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    Elusium saidIt's not very PC, but for all the talk about "community," gay subculture really isn't all that kind to its lone wolves who break from the pack.


    Well put.
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    Apr 03, 2012 6:11 PM GMT
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    Elusium saidIt's not very PC, but for all the talk about "community," gay subculture really isn't all that kind to its lone wolves who break from the pack.



    When you break away from the pack of the mainstream of U.S. culture, it is large enough that you can can still find a lot of people with similar interests to you. When you break away from the pack in a subgroup of the population like the mainstream gay population, you often find yourself alone as far as the gay experience goes since gays are already such a tiny fraction of the population.


    Very true. And it doesn't help that my hobbies / interests are what they are. I somehow couldn't have managed to find anything as nohomo as what I'm interested in. Sometimes I think my only solution is to go find an older woman who is no longer horny.

    Business is picking up so I can't wait until I start doing this and see how this goes over. This will likely leave me completely alone.

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    Apr 03, 2012 6:22 PM GMT
    As a tee-shirt wearin', camping/hiking/biking/working out (and fully out) kinda guy, I don't get the animosity on either side, frankly. I have friends (some gay) for the above parts of my life, and gay friends who wouldn't think of doing such things as well.

    Club all you want, wear high heels, or whatever ... and have a blast. Good for you!

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time. IMO
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    Apr 03, 2012 6:29 PM GMT
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    Tenebrism saidAs a tee-shirt wearin', camping/hiking/biking/working out (and fully out) kinda guy, I don't get the animosity on either side, frankly. I have friends (some gay) for the above parts of my life, and gay friends who wouldn't think of doing such things as well.

    Club all you want, wear high heels, or whatever ... and have a blast. Good for you!

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time. IMO

    Marry me.
    Once that morals charge is dropped and those bogus identity theft charges they rung me up on clear, I'm all yours, baby! icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 03, 2012 6:31 PM GMT
    Tenebrism saidAs a tee-shirt wearin', camping/hiking/biking/working out (and fully out) kinda guy, I don't get the animosity on either side, frankly. I have friends (some gay) for the above parts of my life, and gay friends who wouldn't think of doing such things as well.

    Club all you want, wear high heels, or whatever ... and have a blast. Good for you!

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time. IMO


    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time.

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time.

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time.

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time.
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    Apr 03, 2012 6:32 PM GMT
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    Tenebrism saidAs a tee-shirt wearin', camping/hiking/biking/working out (and fully out) kinda guy, I don't get the animosity on either side, frankly. I have friends (some gay) for the above parts of my life, and gay friends who wouldn't think of doing such things as well.

    Club all you want, wear high heels, or whatever ... and have a blast. Good for you!

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time. IMO

    Marry me.
    Once that morals charge is dropped and those bogus identity theft charges they rung me up on clear, I'm all yours, baby! icon_smile.gif


    But those are some of the main reasons JPtB wants to betroth you...
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    Apr 03, 2012 6:44 PM GMT
    Tenebrism saidAs a tee-shirt wearin', camping/hiking/biking/working out (and fully out) kinda guy, I don't get the animosity on either side, frankly. I have friends (some gay) for the above parts of my life, and gay friends who wouldn't think of doing such things as well.

    Club all you want, wear high heels, or whatever ... and have a blast. Good for you!

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time. IMO


    Amen.

    You're a good man, Charlie Brown.
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    Apr 03, 2012 6:47 PM GMT
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    Apr 03, 2012 7:26 PM GMT
    adam228 saidWhat if you're a scene gay AND on dating-hook up sites 24/7 icon_cool.gif


    You're a scene gay squared.
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    Apr 03, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    Cash said
    Tenebrism said
    JPtheBITCH said
    Tenebrism saidAs a tee-shirt wearin', camping/hiking/biking/working out (and fully out) kinda guy, I don't get the animosity on either side, frankly. I have friends (some gay) for the above parts of my life, and gay friends who wouldn't think of doing such things as well.

    Club all you want, wear high heels, or whatever ... and have a blast. Good for you!

    We all owe a death at the end, so best to find your own answers and have fun along the way. Cause if you spend a second judging what someone else chooses to do (while harming no one else), you're wasting your time. IMO

    Marry me.
    Once that morals charge is dropped and those bogus identity theft charges they rung me up on clear, I'm all yours, baby! icon_smile.gif


    But those are some of the main reasons JPtB wants to betroth you...


    GIGGITY!!!! icon_biggrin.gif