luckyboi1223 saidHey everyone!!!! im a 22 year old guy that is fairly new to the gay scene. In the beginning i wasnt really comfortable with my sexuality but i have grown and i am now more comfortable with it now. I go to gay clubs now, have more gay friends, and I want a boyfriend and to talk to guys but there is one problem. When I go to the club guys really dont try to talk to me and I really dont see them paying me any attention. I am African American/ German/ Irish/ and Italian. Does the fact that Im half African American play a role? Is it my look? I will upload photos. Please give me your opinions guys.
Whatever you look like: young, old or middle-age, fat, muscular or skinny, black, white or brown, etc. etc. etc.People will either find you hot or gross. You'll drive yourself crazy trying to please everybody. Especially about things you can't change like your race. Even with things you can change, like becoming more muscular, it's still an exercise in futility. You will find guys who think you're gross because you're too muscular and they prefer slim guys. Or you will get guys approaching you simply because you're muscular. They only care about your muscles. Not about you. You won't get what it sounds like you really want by giving into the superficiality that's rampant in the gay male community. Just accept and be yourself. Then, if you attract a guy, it's because he's attracted to the real you and not somebody you're trying to be to please everybody. You'll go crazy worrying about everybody else.