What is YOUR opinion of a healthy relationship?

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    Apr 05, 2012 2:58 AM GMT
    How would you describe a "healthy relationship" and also in how many ways is a gay relationship different than that of a str8 one?
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    Apr 05, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    This is a classic case of two separate questions trying to be rolled into one.

    First, a gay relationship involves two members of the same sex, while a straight one involves opposite sex. Thats about it for the difference.

    As for a healthy relationship, it is going to vary from person to person (and the people involved.) For me, a healthy relationship would be someone whom I can compliment (and compliments me as well), as well as a person whom I enjoy the company of.

    Its kind of simple like that.
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    Apr 05, 2012 3:22 AM GMT
    One where the vow "till death do us part" does not end in murder.
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    Apr 05, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    When the weekly knock-down, drag-out arguments occur in private, rather than in public.
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    Apr 05, 2012 3:45 AM GMT
    TrojanAthlete saidWhen the weekly knock-down, drag-out arguments occur in private, rather than in public.
    ...and definitely not at the offending party's workplace.
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    Apr 05, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    Ugh i hate the people always trying to have smart ass answers when in reality your just making yourself look dumb, no shit i know the difference between and gay and str8 relationship is that a gay is a same sex couple and a str8 one in that of the opposite sex, i'm not fucking retarted.

    that's not what i meant, but never mind. because based on the people who actually reply to these things i will never get a proper answer, because ppl here don't really wanna give you an answer they just wanna be smart asses trying to make other people feel stupid.




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    Apr 05, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    Respect, tolerance (sometimes love), and sympathy between people are what is needed for all and any relationships, even on this site.
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    veed978 saidUgh i hate the people always trying to have smart ass answers when in reality your just making yourself look dumb, no shit i know the difference between and gay and str8 relationship is that a gay is a same sex couple and a str8 one in that of the opposite sex, i'm not fucking retarted.

    that's not what i meant, but never mind. because based on the people who actually reply to these things i will never get a proper answer, because ppl here don't really wanna give you an answer they just wanna be smart asses trying to make other people feel stupid.




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    If you knew the answer why did you ask?

    Who looks stupid now.

    And yes, I kept the smart ass reply in your quote because it deserves to be there.
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    commoncoll saidRespect, tolerance (sometimes love), and sympathy between people are what is needed for all and any relationships, even on this site.


    thank you! finally a good response, that was lovely icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:04 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    veed978 saidUgh i hate the people always trying to have smart ass answers when in reality your just making yourself look dumb, no shit i know the difference between and gay and str8 relationship is that a gay is a same sex couple and a str8 one in that of the opposite sex, i'm not fucking retarted.

    that's not what i meant, but never mind. because based on the people who actually reply to these things i will never get a proper answer, because ppl here don't really wanna give you an answer they just wanna be smart asses trying to make other people feel stupid.




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    If you knew the answer why did you ask?

    Who looks stupid now.

    And yes, I kept the smart ass reply in your quote because it deserves to be there.


    your obviously the stupid one because as you can see in my quote I wrote " that's not what i meant" hence i didn't get the answer i was looking for, so no i didn't know the answer! thank you for proving my point, smart ass.
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    veed978 said
    commoncoll saidRespect, tolerance (sometimes love), and sympathy between people are what is needed for all and any relationships, even on this site.


    thank you! finally a good response, that was lovely icon_smile.gif

    Because everyone loves a good proverb: "To have the rose you must respect the thorn"
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    veed978 said
    Chainers said
    veed978 saidUgh i hate the people always trying to have smart ass answers when in reality your just making yourself look dumb, no shit i know the difference between and gay and str8 relationship is that a gay is a same sex couple and a str8 one in that of the opposite sex, i'm not fucking retarted.

    that's not what i meant, but never mind. because based on the people who actually reply to these things i will never get a proper answer, because ppl here don't really wanna give you an answer they just wanna be smart asses trying to make other people feel stupid.




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    If you knew the answer why did you ask?

    Who looks stupid now.

    And yes, I kept the smart ass reply in your quote because it deserves to be there.


    your obviously the stupid one because as you can see in my quote I wrote " that's not what i meant" hence i didn't get the answer i was looking for, so no i didn't know the answer! thank you for proving my point, smart ass.


    Well child, you did say you know the difference between gay and straight relationships is based on the gender of the people in the relationship.

    So again, I must ask...who looks stupid now?
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    Oh my god your an idiot, what part of that's not the answer i was looking for don't you understand. please don't reply i'm sick of having to read your dumb ass answers.
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    veed978 saidOh my god your an idiot, what part of that's not the answer i was looking for don't you understand. please don't reply i'm sick of having to read your dumb ass answers.


    Cupcake you can't tell me what to do. Your question implies that, by being gay, our relationships are all ready different. Well they aren't. They are exactly the same. 2 people who care about each other and are in an arrangement that makes them happy.

    Don't like the answer? Don't ask dumb questions.
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
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    veed978 saidOh my god your an idiot, what part of that's not the answer i was looking for don't you understand. please don't reply i'm sick of having to read your dumb ass answers.


    Cupcake you can't tell me what to do. Your question implies that, by being gay, our relationships are all ready different. Well they aren't. They are exactly the same. 2 people who care about each other and are in an arrangement that makes them happy.

    Don't like the answer? Don't ask dumb questions.


    See that was the type of answer i was looking for, you dick! why couldn't you have wrote that to begin with rather than wasting my time.
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    It was for the lulz
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    Chainers saidIt was for the lulz


    well I hope you enjoyed being rude to someone who was only trying to make some friends & socialize with a community of people that otherwise couldn't really be able to socialize. I legit don't have ANY gay friends, atleast not ones close enough that i can talk to all like i can on this site.

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    Apr 05, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    ^^sorry if I offended I was just having fun
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    Apr 05, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    Chainers said^^sorry if I offended I was just having fun


    It's okay life is to short to be mad over a forum discussion lmao icon_smile.gif not harm no foul, yeah?
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    Apr 05, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    veed978 said
    Chainers said^^sorry if I offended I was just having fun


    It's okay life is to short to be mad over a forum discussion lmao icon_smile.gif not harm no foul, yeah?
    This thread is now officially worthless until pictures of a nekkid passionate makeup kiss are posted.
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    Apr 05, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    Whatever two people decide works for them.
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    Apr 05, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    veed978 said
    Chainers said^^sorry if I offended I was just having fun


    It's okay life is to short to be mad over a forum discussion lmao icon_smile.gif not harm no foul, yeah?


    Oh, whatever, you two. Now block each other!!!! LOL

    Describing a "healthy relationship" is so difficult in only a few words of sentences. Relationships are so complex, yet so simple at the same time. I guess the most concise way for me to describe a "healthy relationship" is when two people are in love and are each others' best friends. This applies to both gay and straight relationships.

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    Apr 05, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
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    commoncoll saidRespect, tolerance (sometimes love), and sympathy between people are what is needed for all and any relationships, even on this site.


    thank you! finally a good response, that was lovely icon_smile.gif

    Because everyone loves a good proverb: "To have the rose you must respect chop off the thorn to prevent being sued by your dumbass neighbor who tried to steal a rose and got poked"
    Fixed.
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    Apr 05, 2012 7:10 AM GMT
    veed978 said
    Chainers said^^sorry if I offended I was just having fun


    It's okay life is to short to be mad over a forum discussion lmao icon_smile.gif not harm no foul, yeah?


    Haha chainers made a new fwieeeend icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 05, 2012 7:19 AM GMT
    I'm still surprised that nobody has agreed with my first post in this thread.

    In fact, it's kinda scary. icon_eek.gif
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