Giving head > making out > topping > bottoming > getting head
There's something about unleashing my oral skills on a guy's dick, balls, and a-hole that turns me on like nothing else in the sack.
And that's why "making out" takes second: dishing out tongue-twisting French kisses, nipple licks n' nibbles, ear chewing...Pushing the big one into a tight willing ass is awesome, but it's always a challenge to find somebody with receiving talents (ditto for when the roles are reversed.) OTOH out of all the sexually matured men in the world there's only a small minority that doesn't love getting their dick sucked. No schooling's needed to enjoy sliding the male organ into a willing mouth. As for me, I'd not turn down a BJ but since I'm all about giving 'em it's definitely not the first thing I go after in a hookup.