Majorly disappointed.

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    Apr 05, 2012 9:51 PM GMT
    fuck y'all bitches

    WHERE CAN I FIND A GAY MEN'S FASHION FORUM?
  • BmwKid92

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    Apr 05, 2012 11:20 PM GMT
    DESERVED
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    Apr 05, 2012 11:28 PM GMT
    It appears the fashion faeries are upset because they like a really gay profession. I wish anduru would post the website of this site, someone needs a good flaming!
  • BmwKid92

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    Apr 05, 2012 11:30 PM GMT
    Chainers leggo!!! im down !!
  • metta

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    Apr 05, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    Chainers saidIt appears the fashion faeries are upset because they like a really gay profession. I wish anduru would post the website of this site, someone needs a good flaming!


    Just do a google search with one of the quotes and the thread comes up.


    hmmm...should I post it?


    http://www.styleforum.net/t/127534/how-would-you-like-a-girl-to-dress/3480
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    Apr 05, 2012 11:34 PM GMT
    Bmwkid92 saidChainers leggo!!! im down !!


    He needs to give us the site first. They just jelly cause 90% of the guys here get more chicks hitting on them in a day than they will their whole lives.
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    Apr 05, 2012 11:35 PM GMT
    metta8 said
    Chainers saidIt appears the fashion faeries are upset because they like a really gay profession. I wish anduru would post the website of this site, someone needs a good flaming!


    Just do a google search with one of the quotes and the thread comes up.


    hmmm...should I post it?


    http://www.styleforum.net/t/127534/how-would-you-like-a-girl-to-dress/3480


    Hehe metta, we love you!
  • BmwKid92

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    Apr 05, 2012 11:36 PM GMT
    ite making a profile meow
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    Apr 05, 2012 11:40 PM GMT
    Bmwkid92 saidite making a profile meow


    Yea I am too. It's too easy, they are so fucking gay (not as in stupid as in if they replaced all the pics with half naked men they would be less gay)
  • BmwKid92

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    Apr 05, 2012 11:43 PM GMT
    idk how to navigate that bitch, make a thread or sumzing ahaha i started a thread called poopie
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    Apr 05, 2012 11:47 PM GMT
    Bmwkid92 saididk how to navigate that bitch, make a thread or sumzing


    Im on it, it will be very clear that it is me (same username and main profile pic)
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    Apr 05, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    Bmwkid92 saididk how to navigate that bitch, make a thread or sumzing


    Im on it, it will be very clear that it is me (same username and main profile pic)


    http://www.styleforum.net/t/295122/lol-you-guys-are-so-gay-it-is-hilarious
    They are so damn gay lol. I mean Im sorry I know our site is about gay life too, but they are a sight that has nothing to do with sexuality and manages to be even gayer than RealJock. That, my friends, takes skills.
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:09 AM GMT
    I'm still trying to wrap my head around the concept of a men's fashion forum that is homophobic and so dependent on maintaining the status quo.
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    Dahas saidI'm still trying to wrap my head around the concept of a men's fashion forum that is homophobic and so dependent on maintaining the status quo.


    Who would of thought - go figure. icon_confused.gif
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    Apr 06, 2012 5:50 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidSo basically these mens fashion forums are filled wtih straight fags icon_lol.gif

    Are those anything like jumbo shrimp?
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    Apr 06, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidSo basically these mens fashion forums are filled wtih straight fags icon_lol.gif


    LOL. Yes, that's where my confusion is at the moment.
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    Apr 06, 2012 7:16 AM GMT
    TriAthInCA said
    AMoonHawk saidSo basically these mens fashion forums are filled wtih straight fags icon_lol.gif

    Are those anything like jumbo shrimp?


    mmmmmmmmmmm..........shrimp.........
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    Apr 06, 2012 9:31 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidDafuq? You have a hard time getting liked.
    Apparently they don't like new people posting a lot????
    Basically it's like how dare I contribute lots of image-heavy posts of designers etc. that haven't been posted yet.

    They all talk about the same like.... 5 designers I'd say, all the fucking time. Their shit is all boring anyways, they basically just wear lots of neutrals.
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    Apr 06, 2012 9:34 PM GMT
    Oh and here's my messages with the admin:

    AnduruHello,

    I just wanted to make you aware of something that is apparently a problem on the forums.
    I have made casual comments that happen to reference my sexuality as a gay man, and quite a few people have told me to stop talking about being gay.
    I don't really see this as my problem as much as I do theirs, but it becomes my problem when it seems that I am being attacked for making completely normal comments that are the equivalent of comments that heterosexual people make quite often online and offline.

    I have written out a few long posts explaining to them that it is hypocritical and prejudice for them to call me out on my comments yet they never tell other heterosexuals to stop talking about being straight.
    I have also told them that if they continue to harass me about it that I will report it to you. If it continues I will record the comments that have been made to submit to you.

    It would be appreciated if there is anything you can do to help with this issue before it gets out of hand and try to make sure that this bigotry does not continue, especially if directed towards somebody who is not as strong-willed and comfortable as I am in regards to their sexuality. The fact that this is even a problem causes invisible issues as well, because homosexual men who read the forums may feel that they are unwelcome to post or that they don't want to post somewhere with such discriminatory comments being made.

    Thank you,
    Andrew


    AdminHi Andrew,

    I read that thread, and, I'm not going to lie to you, but you are the one who comes off as both belligerent and defensive.

    There are a lot of other openly gay members on the forum, including one of the "Dubiously honored" members of the SW&D community, which is a big deal, because there are essentially 3 (Rach is gay, Parker is not, and Zissou has never mentioned his sexuality one way or the other.) Rach talks openly about his sexuality, and his nickname (the pink dolphin) is clearly not that of a closeted homosexual.

    In general, people on forums don' t take kindly, or quickly, to people who impose themselves on the community, whether they are gay or straight, black or white. If the community does accept them after some time, it's because they've either become a fixture of the community (jet), or somehow show themselves to be knowledgeable and with a good sense of self-deprecation in addition to being somewhat combative (Brad-t).

    Others have essentially never fit into the community because of their abrasive attitude, and the majority of those guys were straight, and were constantly bringing up how manly they were, and how many girls they had, and how alpha they were, etc...

    I don't see anything either overtly or covertly homophobic or anti-gay about the comments from the other posters.

    Cheers.



    as if I'm supposed to know that there's a history of every fucking new person to the forums getting flamed out.
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    Apr 06, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    Dude Anduru to be honest that forum is one of the saddest things I have seen in a long time. I dont know why you would waste time there, they are quite pathetic and fail at any sort of comeback. You should come back here where we love you long time.
  • swimmer8671

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    Apr 06, 2012 10:07 PM GMT
    Honestly after reading your entire argument. You did seem to be provoking an argument at certain times. Especially when they repeatedly said, lets drop it and move on, you continued to argue.

    Honestly the biggest thing to do is to stop arguing because no matter how long you argue, if someone doesn't feel the same way you are not going to change their mind by arguing on the internet with them.

    Also with how many recent posts you were making on that forum in particular, and you referencing a few times your sexuality, maybe they just got the fuck over you running into the forum topic and throwing glitter in the air.

    If it is honestly a fashion forum, then the only thing you should really have to talk about is fashion. Which doesn't pertain to who you are attracted to, but rather what someone is wearing that is attractive to you.
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    Apr 06, 2012 10:17 PM GMT
    I seem to be blocked by Anduru now ----

    But just in case...

    There's always a learning curve on these forum sites. In fact, I feel like I am still learning how to navigate the various personalities. I met resistance getting to know people here. I tried a couple of other forum type sites and met resistance forming relationships there.

    It just takes time for everyone to get to know each other. Sometimes you have to ease into it.
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    Apr 06, 2012 10:23 PM GMT
    onaquest saidI seem to be blocked by Anduru now ----

    But just in case...

    There's always a learning curve on these forum sites. In fact, I feel like I am still learning how to navigate the various personalities. I met resistance getting to know people here. I tried a couple of other forum type sites and met resistance forming relationships there.

    It just takes time for everyone to get to know each other. Sometimes you have to ease into it.


    Your not blocked by Anduru. He's deleted his account and left RJ.
    YAY!!
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    Apr 06, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    catfish5 said
    onaquest saidI seem to be blocked by Anduru now ----

    But just in case...

    There's always a learning curve on these forum sites. In fact, I feel like I am still learning how to navigate the various personalities. I met resistance getting to know people here. I tried a couple of other forum type sites and met resistance forming relationships there.

    It just takes time for everyone to get to know each other. Sometimes you have to ease into it.


    Your not blocked by Anduru. He's deleted his account and left RJ.
    YAY!!


    He is hidden.

    Douchemonger.
  • LJay

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    Apr 06, 2012 11:00 PM GMT
    kwitcherbeliakin