How do you start dating, in college

  • rndale

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    Apr 05, 2012 11:26 PM GMT
    I am a 26 year old, I pass for 18, virgin working on my undergrad, at a State Maritime Academy with a supposed 20% gay population. How do you start dating in college. Around 20% of the student body is gay, I am starting a GSA club, gay strait alliance. I have no idea how to start dating or any idea what to do, in a uniform militaristic environment. Let alone outside in the real world. I have 2 years remaining before I graduate, any advice would be great.
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    Apr 06, 2012 12:15 AM GMT
    Have lunch with a hottie, ask him out for dinner.
    Repeat as necessary until you tie the knot.
  • Dominican_Gen...

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    Apr 06, 2012 1:38 AM GMT
    Do you even have SOMEONE in mind you would like to date? That's the first step.

    Also, and this is and on-going homework for you, me and everybody: Be the man you would like to date. If you are into athletic guys, start doing (or attending) some sport that you enjoy. If you are into intellectual guys, start reading. If you are into computer geeks, better start learning to write scripts.. Likewise, I you want to date nice guys, start treating others in a nice way. Your guy is out there and will notice those traits in you.
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    i just start last year!!!!!
  • A_1991

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    Apr 06, 2012 2:09 AM GMT
    old fashion way
    1) talk to someone you like
    2) build a relationship with them some how: hobby, school(in class), sports, etc.
    3) Be sure they like you or at least interested in you so you know you won't get rejected
    4) Ask them out for something: lunch, dinner, golfing, surfing, shooting range, etc.
    5) Ask them out again if you had a good time!

    Gay world way
    1) have sex with them
    2) if they dont text you back, your not doing it right.
    3) on to the next

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    Apr 06, 2012 8:53 AM GMT
    Is there a campus pub? Is there the possibility of having a monthly "gay night" special event? That would be a great mixer for available guys, I would think.

    Then again, that may not be workable in your context... but something to at least look in to.
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    Apr 06, 2012 10:07 AM GMT
    Meet other gay people?

    I think you're on the right track.

    You are 26 though, don't sell yourself as an 18 year old virgin lol..

    And.. the bear 's gotta go lol
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    Apr 12, 2012 2:21 PM GMT
    smiling always helps icon_smile.gif