trouble with getting a guy to stop liking you

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    Apr 06, 2012 6:27 AM GMT
    serious stuff, guys. here's the story: bumped into the sexiest, most beautiful man last week at this gay festival last week. 6'5, massive build, aussie. deep voice, huge feet. you know, the works. oh score, he has this crazy obsession with asians who are borderline 5"11.

    .....so just found out the other day he's my younger sister's PE teacher, bisexual, and very flirty with the students. obviously the creepster alarms should be sounding off right about now, but sweet jesus those biceps fucking delicious.

    he wants to do it with me in the high school parking lot this afternoon. it'll be off to the elementary school locker rooms after that after that, i suppose.

    how do i get this creep off my back.
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    Apr 06, 2012 7:22 AM GMT
    punch him in the face
  • sbwlguy

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    Apr 06, 2012 8:42 AM GMT
    kick him in the balls
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:02 PM GMT
    Just say no thanks i'm into younger guys and quit looking at his biceps. You're sending the wrong signals
  • mybud

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    Apr 06, 2012 1:25 PM GMT
    Tell him you love him...He'll be gone faster than you could paint a fart red....
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:26 PM GMT
    I was thinking fake your orgasms, but ^^this^^ could work.
  • okcomputer201...

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    Apr 06, 2012 1:26 PM GMT
    I had a customer that developed a very strange attraction towards me. He would sit in my section and stare at me strangely while I was busy with my other tables. He asked all of my coworkers about me and knew my work schedule by heart. It was creepy and sweet at the same. I was always nice to him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings and he was a good tipper, so instead of ignoring him, I made sure that any interaction that I had with him was as professional and cut-and-dry as possible. Even though he was itching to ask me out, I didn't give him the opportunity. When he would get too personal, I would make it clear to him that I was uncomfortable. He eventually got bored and moved on.
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:26 PM GMT
    Tell him to go walk about!
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:26 PM GMT
    damn, why wasn't my high school pe teacher like this?
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:28 PM GMT
    on another note, I think the bigger question is whether you're okay with being fetishized... in other words... treated like an object.
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:30 PM GMT
    Ask for a commitment; he'll be gone in the morning.
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:30 PM GMT
    Slap him
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:31 PM GMT
    mybud saidTell him you love him...He'll be gone faster than you could paint a fart red....


    Amen icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:38 PM GMT
    Deep down, you like the attention and you'd still hook up with him. Just think, you'd be sacrificing your ass to potentially divert his attention from some other 18 year old boy this week who is also lusting after him.

    Seriously, all you'd have to do is say, "no" and then ignore him, the same as what you'd do with an ugly guy. You just met him a week ago and aren't even in the same social circle. This situation isn't hard, you just are. LOL.
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    Apr 06, 2012 1:39 PM GMT
    Silent treatment.
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    Apr 06, 2012 2:02 PM GMT
    lol at the "tell him you love him" comment :p so much truth in that. pass the asshole-repellant.

    alright, i see that i haven't explained this thoroughly enough. i'm getting texts from this guy at 5 minute intervals. he's adding people i know on facebook. he's always bragging about his dick size and sends me pictures comparing it soda bottles, rolling pins, etc. lord.
    this afternoon i actually emailed him saying that i wasn't interested anymore and that we should stop seeing each other cause it's just so awkward since he teaches my sister's class and everything- he doesn't listen. he's coming to pick me up at my house tomorrow and taking me out on a "proper date" which i'm just uber excited about. heh.
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    Apr 06, 2012 2:09 PM GMT
    njmeanwhile saidAsk for a commitment; he'll be gone in the morning.


    i like the way you think man. just maybe if i stick my head up my ass far enough, we'd be seeing things in the same light.

    haha, kidding.
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    Apr 06, 2012 4:40 PM GMT
    Just get it over with and get fucked by him. You'll end up one day regretting. Just fuck n cut.

    Unless you top...but even so.
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    Apr 06, 2012 4:55 PM GMT
    chaitea17 said

    how do i get this creep off my back.






    i_VAN saidJust get it over with and get fucked by him. You'll end up one day regretting. Just fuck n cut.

    Unless you top...but even so.


    You seem to be leaning towards this approach, by the way.
  • rogerfederer

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    Apr 06, 2012 5:45 PM GMT
    just do it? i dnt understand what the big deal is. fuck him if u want
  • DR2K

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    Apr 06, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    If you want him off your back then just lay on your back nd he'll be on your stomach.
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    Apr 06, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    Walk up to him and say "twinny dolla me luv u long time."
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    Apr 06, 2012 6:22 PM GMT
    Tell him your really into scat and you want him to take a massive shit on you.

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    Apr 06, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    Seriously? How do you go from finding this dude to be freaking hot to being a total creep in a matter of minutes? Honestly, you set yourself up for this kind of action the minute you engaged him and didn't nip it in the bud as they say. The only reason you don't want anything to do with him is because he's your little sister's PE teacher and supposedly he's flirty with students. Big deal.

    He's texting you pix of his dick because you probably gave him your number. You're emailing him because you guys probably exchanged emails. He's coming by your place because you told him where you live. Secretly, you are loving this attention otherwise you would've cut this dude off and you wouldn't be making this post. You're encouraging his come-ons because no one does stuff like this unless they are given a sign to do so meaning you aren't doing a good job of fending off his affections. You aren't explaining your disinterest clearly. That's your bad. Not his.

    If you don't want this dude bothering you then you simply say "Not interested" and show that you mean it. No means no in any language and if he's as hot as you claim him to be then I doubt he'll have a problem moving on. You're sending him misleading signals and aren't putting any confidence behind the "Not interested". When dudes sense this they still feel like they have a shot and will pursue until you cave. In other words, you're being a cock tease and it's your own fault for not being assertive and confident with your lack of interest in him. Shame on you.
  • JayneCobb

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    Apr 06, 2012 6:43 PM GMT
    Tell him you want to poop on his chest and eat it.