Jul 15, 2008 12:23 PM GMT
I was wondering if and when is it ever ok to snoop through your bf's things, computer, phone etc....especially if you suspect cheating?
gymguy1 saidThis has been posted before. Its never ok to snoop. Why look for trouble? If you think your boyfriend is hiding something from you. Ask him about it. I dont go through my boyfriends phones, check his messages, go through his drawers or his email. I dont even have or want his password. I trust him. If I want to know something. I ask. If I find out he was lying to me. I will deal with it accordingly.
quaddamn saidI was wondering if and when is it ever ok to snoop through your bf's things, computer, phone etc....especially if you suspect cheating?
If you suspect something, just ask; if you never ask you'll never receive/know! At least let him know about your suspensions, he may not own up to it, however at least it's out in the open.
Squarejaw saidNever snoop. Have a friend do it for you.
Sedative saidWhat about just asking outright?
RunintheCity saidBut if you think your man's cheating and you confront him...what happens when he protests that he's not but the evidence still suggests he is? What then? Especially if YOUR sexual health might be at risk?