Looking for a relationship.......

  • clcgman

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    Apr 11, 2012 12:07 AM GMT
    I'm 18 looking for a relationship with a man that is no older then 25 I am looking for any kind of relationship I don't have my pic able to be viliewd but if u want to see it just ask and I mite unlock my privet photo of me for u
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    Why do you need a man? Be happy, that will attract guys not desperately searching for one.


    And you're fucking 18 boy, enjoy being single. No need to be tie down just yet...kids these days....
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    If you are looking for one, you probably aren't ready for one.
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:18 AM GMT
    Beleive me it is just hard man, so enjoy you being single and being able to do whatever the hell you want without having that complicated part of every relationship. When you least expect it and when the right moment comes you'll meet the guy. At least, this has worked for me icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    I would like to be in a relationship again. Just not in any place to welcome one in at the moment. I hate necessary loneliness.
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    7Famark saidIf you are looking for one, you probably aren't ready for one.


    I agree.
    I've been in your shoes, kid. It's OK to look for a relationship, but stop if it's your No. 1 priority in life, cuz it's just pointless and depressing to think about.
    There are other "relationships" in life you can improve before starting a new one - family, friends, even how you treat yourself. icon_smile.gif
    Good luck!
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    7Famark saidIf you are looking for one, you probably aren't ready for one.
    I used to not believe this, but I'm starting to think it's true...


    I have mixed feelings about it, I don't think there is an issue with feeling like you are ready for a relationship....I think the issue is when you are actively pursuing one.
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:39 AM GMT
    ry77 said
    7Famark saidIf you are looking for one, you probably aren't ready for one.


    I agree.
    I've been in your shoes, kid. It's OK to look for a relationship, but stop if it's your No. 1 priority in life, cuz it's just pointless and depressing to think about.
    There are other "relationships" in life you can improve before starting a new one - family, friends, even how you treat yourself. icon_smile.gif
    Good luck!


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    Apr 11, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    7Famark said
    Trollileo said
    7Famark saidIf you are looking for one, you probably aren't ready for one.
    I used to not believe this, but I'm starting to think it's true...
    I have mixed feelings about it, I don't think there is an issue with feeling like you are ready for a relationship....I think the issue is when you are actively pursuing one.
    Exactly. I just let it happen. Then again, if you're not making yourself available, a relationship won't happen.


    Well yeah, I mean putting yourself out there and meeting people isn't necessarily a quest to find a relationship - I just think you have to be in a place where you are okay not being with someone, and then you can start to go out and see people and just let it progress naturally - forcing it is badsies.
  • clcgman

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    Apr 11, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    I understand that but I am more looking for someone to help me figure out of I'm gay or bi because I realy love men but I find my self wanting to date girls but don't know if that's just cuz my parents don't know so I want them to think Im there pirfict son so to say
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    7Famark said
    Trollileo said
    7Famark said
    Trollileo said
    7Famark saidIf you are looking for one, you probably aren't ready for one.
    I used to not believe this, but I'm starting to think it's true...
    I have mixed feelings about it, I don't think there is an issue with feeling like you are ready for a relationship....I think the issue is when you are actively pursuing one.
    Exactly. I just let it happen. Then again, if you're not making yourself available, a relationship won't happen.
    Well yeah, I mean putting yourself out there and meeting people isn't necessarily a quest to find a relationship - I just think you have to be in a place where you are okay not being with someone, and then you can start to go out and see people and just let it progress naturally - forcing it is badsies.
    That I agree with. Nothing should be forced either...

    Oh my god. Relationships are like farts. If you try to force them they could turn to shit.

    Dammit. Upon googling that, I discovered I'm not original...


    That's fucking amazing...I wonder if people will think I'm a lunatic if I put it on my FB lol
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:43 PM GMT
    7Famark saidIf you are looking for one, you probably aren't ready for one.


    This
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    Apr 11, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    I know this may not make sense to you now, but you can't look for a relationship like it's the coffee in the Stop and shop that I was having trouble finding the other day. You need to develop one with a person who is right for you and willing to do the work to develop it. Hope this helps.
  • Suetonius

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    Apr 12, 2012 1:07 AM GMT
    clcgman saidI'm 18 looking for a relationship with a man that is no older then 25 I am looking for any kind of relationship I don't have my pic able to be viliewd but if u want to see it just ask and I mite unlock my privet photo of me for u

    This is the wrong place to look.