have you ever known someone that's led you to the dark side?? how did it end?

  • rogerfederer

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    Apr 12, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    im talking to two guys. On one end is a guy who is sweet, charming, cute, fun, nice, and total bf material...but on the other is a guy who does crystal meth, host orgies and has wild torture sex, doesn't believe in god, he parties, he drinks, he deals drugs, never has a boyfriend, and all his friends do the same thing. Now most ppl would run away from a guy like this but i am utterly fascinated. So fascinated that i cant stop hanging out with him. Now i dnt even want a bf when b4 i really really wanted one. Has this ever happened? How did it end?
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    Apr 12, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    rogerfederer saidim talking to two guys. On one end is a guy who is sweet, charming, cute, fun, nice, and total bf material...but on the other is a guy who does crystal meth, host orgies and has wild torture sex, doesn't believe in god, he parties, he drinks, he deals drugs, never has a boyfriend, and all his friends do the same thing. Now most ppl would run away from a guy like this but i am utterly fascinated. So fascinated that i cant stop hanging out with him. Now i dnt even want a bf when b4 i really really wanted one. Has this ever happened? How did it end?
    Meth? It ALWAYS ends in disaster.. get away from it/him ASAP!
  • newral

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    Apr 12, 2012 4:25 AM GMT
    I'm diagnosing this one with BBIS (bad boy infatuation syndrome). This shall not end well. Unfortunately, this commonly leads to people making themselves believe that it will be different for them (as in they won't be sucked into the instigator's world) because they are "smarter" or whatever. He has to suffer and feel the pain before he's able to move on. Best of luck!
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    Apr 12, 2012 4:28 AM GMT
    Just an off-topic: I find it outstanding how someone can compare drugs, torture sex, and not believing in god...
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    Apr 12, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    enlalinea saidJust an off-topic: I find it outstanding how someone can compare drugs, torture sex, and not believing in god...


    that's the first thing i thought, too
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    Apr 12, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    Best friend in high school was raging alcoholic, he did drugs, sold drugs by the band room, was party kid and basically was not the type you'd want to introduce to your parents (except we've been friends for so long my family watched his decline from elementary school to high school). We basically moved away- he wound up in Fargo and I in a college town south of Minneapolis. We just drifted apart even though I was never under his influence or pressured by him to do the shit that he did as well.
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    Apr 12, 2012 12:10 PM GMT
    It will not end well and keep in mind, every drug addict laying in the gutter and the morgue started off thinking that they could just start off hanging with the dangerous drug dealer who seemed just a little dangerous and a little bit fabulous. Very few step into the dark side and come out of it a better person than they would have been had they never touched meth, coke, crack, et al.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 12, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    It could end up with you in jail or with your health in jeopardy if you don't
    wake up.

    I'm not saying I couldn't find something on the dark side intriguing, but anything drug related would make me wake up really fast.....

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    Apr 12, 2012 1:22 PM GMT
    Stay away from the meth guy at all costs.
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    Apr 12, 2012 1:26 PM GMT
    enlalinea saidJust an off-topic: I find it outstanding how someone can compare drugs, torture sex, and not believing in god...



    Doesn't that just trip off the tongue?
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    I've never been led by anyone to the dark side, but I have led many unsuspecting men to it. They're all grateful.
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:11 PM GMT
    Nope, if I found out someone like that its over with him. Can't respect or love a guy who doesn't love himself. Drugs are deal breakers for me and if you can't give them then its adios, not going to ruin my life for them.
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:13 PM GMT
    how is not believing in god/being a rationalist dark? icon_confused.gif
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:24 PM GMT


    FootballHawk saidhow is not believing in god/being a rationalist dark? icon_confused.gif



    Footballhawk tempted me to go to the dark side! For a while I suspended believing in g-d.. yikes!!! It was hell, but o so much naughty fun!
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:25 PM GMT
    FootballHawk saidhow is not believing in god/being a rationalist dark? icon_confused.gif
    Its a fundie talking point.. nothing more.icon_rolleyes.gif

    In other words, total bullcrap!
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:28 PM GMT
    A friend of yours is doing crystal meth - - - - and you wonder how it will end? Well, I knew of some guys in my high school who did drugs like that, but I can't ask them how they're doing these days. Why? They're dead.
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:30 PM GMT
    Sounds promising...
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:32 PM GMT
    Most of the meth heads I've encountered are devoutly religious. I don't think "doesn't believe in god" supports the "dark side" profile.

    But, to your question: I strongly suggest you get some counseling that addresses your apparent insecurity and lagging maturity. Each of your threads have raised red flags (as evidenced by the not-positive responses your threads mostly get). Make some effort to understand why these are red flags to us.

    Now, on this topic: you already know this man is bad news. You're fascinated by him, which isn't surprising considering a "dark side" man can be attractive, adorably vulgar and disarmingly forthright about his id. But you are his rube, his sucker, his ferry to another score. And you won't understand how useless you are to him until you're hospitalized or jailed for your hapless association.

    But go for it. Your self-contempt (evident in the threads I've read by you) will only encourage you to seek out those who'll abuse you, so what can we say to change your mind?
  • okcomputer201...

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    Apr 12, 2012 6:33 PM GMT
    misery loves company
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:36 PM GMT
    FootballHawk saidhow is not believing in god/being a rationalist dark? icon_confused.gif



    Read some of the other threads started by the OP and you might understand his reasoning (or lack of). That is where you will truly find the dark side.
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:45 PM GMT
    This will not end well. If you want to lose your family, friends, and job - then by all means, continue to hang out with him.

    FYI - there's a strong link between meth use and HIV seroconversion.

    http://www.drugs-forum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=32543
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    Apr 12, 2012 6:47 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidWhat does atheism have anything to do with someone being a bad influence?
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  • PRDGUY

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    Apr 12, 2012 7:25 PM GMT
    Never happened as bad as your situation, but I'm still in a similiar situation currently.

    I'll have to let you know lol.
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    Apr 12, 2012 9:09 PM GMT
    Given the bullshit in the OP's brain as evidenced by his prior posts, meth might be an improvement...
  • rogerfederer

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    Apr 12, 2012 10:17 PM GMT
    oh jesus u ppl nit pick for everything. IM SRRY didnt mean to put atheism in the same category. i myself am an atheist...i was just trying to give u the impression this dude just dont give a fuck and has nothing stopping him (including a belief in god) from doing what he's doing (which most ppl do). And also i asked a reasonable question and yet ppl are still being mean. now u cant seriously say anything about me starting it.