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Just wondering if I'm the only one out there not getting as much action as anyone else. How many sex partners have you guys had:

1. in total

and

2. average per _________
(insert random duration of time i.e. day, week, month, year)?

5 women
9 men

Been with the last guy 15 years. I'm 38 and have been sexually active since I was 18, so I guess that's an 13 in 4 years and then 1 for 15+.

What the fuck dude? how many has the first guy fucked with? After all the whores admit to fucking and sucking their entire town watch him come back playin all innocent and shit. say he's only let his neighbor jack him off once while watching Dumbo. Big ears turn him on. He's probably watching this topic like a hawk and after every guy gives a number he jacks his pud.

Alpha62667 saidWhat the fuck dude? how many has the first guy fucked with? After all the whores admit to fucking and sucking their entire town watch him come back playin all innocent and shit. say he's only let his neighbor jack him off once while watching Dumbo. Big ears turn him on. He's probably watching this topic like a hawk and after every guy gives a number he jacks his pud.

Agreed, Strike til he answers

oops. guess I forgot proper forum etiquette and forgot to answer my own question. Total, I've been with 9 women and 8 men since i started having sex. Not too into random hook ups. But with the regular fb's i have, probably averaging once a week.

joarky123 saidoops. guess I forgot proper forum etiquette and forgot to answer my own question. Total, I've been with 9 women and 8 men since i started having sex. Not too into random hook ups. But with the regular fb's i have, probably averaging once a week.

You're a cool guy. You got what I was saying. Now I can answer your question. 6 women and I don't think I've hit triple digits with men just yet. I'll guess 60. Maybe more. I'm a sexual guy. Average a week? Usually one a week if I'm wanting to get off with someone. Maybe two. Always safe.

All men but I have not kept a diary or anything. I have been faithful to my partner for the 10 1/2 years we have been together.

Before then I was sexually active, but most years I had maybe 2-3 sexual encounters a year. I have never been a fan of casual sex and celibacy came easily to me most years.

40 since 2001, but that was during a not so wholesome time in my life, in the past few years it has dropped to about 3 a year this year has been only one

can I just give you a page count of my little black book?

Umm, more then anyone so far, a LOT more but that was before I got into a long term relationship and after that erm.. well not many at all since.

I couldnt tell you the number of sex partners I have had...it would be in the hundreds. I think my best number in one day was 4.

10,000,000,000

Seriously though, kuddos for those who can say! (I haven't had that many really, but enough not to remember them all!)

0 for the last 22 years...

1.) at least 1,500
2.) twice a month
LOL@YOU

Sedative said0 for the last 22 years...

Well, if you lowered your price. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ... oh I crack me up! ...

Do we count the FWB's- friends with benefits?

PRDGUY saidDo we count the FWB's- friends with benefits?

if you had sex with them, I'd say they count as a sex partner.

Caslon5000 said

Sedative said0 for the last 22 years...

Well, if you lowered your price. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ... oh I crack me up! ...

I don't have sex with poor people *sticks up nose*

Well - I'm a little chagrined to admit that with all the partying I've done, going all the way back to my fraternity days - the unvarnished truth is that I have no idea what the answer to this question would be. In the late 70s and early 80s, we just had ourselves one hell of a party - countless one-nighters. I'm lucky to be alive and healthy.

From 18 to 25 I had sex with 4 girls (1 time each). I made up for lost time once I started having sex with men last year. Lets just say I quickly passed the number of females fairly quickly. I guess I had to go through a small Ho Phase.

Women: 1 (failed attempt)
Men: I have no clue, I want at least once a week sex. If I would have to say a number I would guess something from 20 to 30.

Somewhere around 18-20 or so since I turned 18. Will be 22 on friday so something like 5 or so a year?

21 women
12 men
(i like to keep a balance...12-21)

since i was 15...

Just one man and I will be turning 22 next month.

((((((1)))))) me myself and i

0

I lost count. Not that I am the town crotch or anything, I just stopped caring. If I had to guess, under a million.

To quote an episode from one of my favorite TV shows: "Ballpark figure? Definitely less than a ballpark!"

MunchingZombie saidI lost count. Not that I am the town crotch or anything, I just stopped caring. If I had to guess, under a million.

Had to replace any parts yet?

If I were to use Bill Clinton's definition the answer would be very few for my age considering I haven't been in many long-term relationships. In fact I think I've only had IC with five guys.

So what is the definition of sex? I am so confused! Does J/O with no kissing count? What if neither of you cum? What if you don't but he does? Does receiving a BJ or HJ with no kissing count? Does J/O or HJs with kissing count? Giving a BJ with or without kissing has to count right? And then there is cyber-sex. Not my cup of tea at all, but I know many of the good little prudes are the big old webcam whores.

I suppose my true colors come out in these questions. I remember a friend saying "at least you got laid" to which I answered, "Laid? We just beat off."

SurrealLife said

MunchingZombie saidI lost count. Not that I am the town crotch or anything, I just stopped caring. If I had to guess, under a million.

Had to replace any parts yet?

Not yet. But I meant the figure was well under a million.

ZiMpLuS said1.) at least 1,500
2.) twice a month
LOL@YOU

Yeah sure, Zimpluswhat? That would make you more than 62.5 years old, that is, if you started when you were a babe in the woods. Porrr favorrrr!!! Sorry, just a little math jibe to liven things up.

As for myself, when single, whore is a somewhat accurate description and therefore, uncountable. When coupled, starting at about 5 times per week and now about once every two weeks if I am lucky. This is not due to lack of interest but the slow withering of ability.

7 in total since I was 14. That makes 1 a year so far. I don't really want a lot of sexual partners - I'm looking for the one - but the number still seems tiny. Eh, oh well.

A total (started when I was 13) of about 300, including four in the past year.

You guys answer that question like it is something to be proud off

MikePhil saidYou guys answer that question like it is something to be proud off

I'm proud on not proud off.

Are you suggesting one should be ashamed of his sexual experiences?

does it count if they sucked in bed (and not in a good way)?

Are or we only counting great sex!!!

In that case I've had sex every day this week... Just me though no one else was there except my imagination but the experince was every thing I could have wanted!

1 woman and I'm embarrased to say how many men. I guess I came out real fast and real strong when I figured things out.

But now days, it's only one man for me.

Sedative said

Caslon5000 said

Sedative said0 for the last 22 years...

Well, if you lowered your price. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ... oh I crack me up! ...

I don't have sex with poor people *sticks up nose*

it means, if you know your "price" and it's quite high - maybe you would never show big numbers.

i just don't care to digress for numbers. Sure, i like beautiful strangers - men and women - but not much than well designed cars (expensive sometimes )

I happen to know 90% of scenarios - what would be exactly the next thing and usually i find it boring to spawn..)

And, Sed, don't worry - the world only seems to be unproportional (i mean, you - 0, someone - 300+). As whole it keeps balance - many guys are working hard to compensate your 0

kreawiz5 said

Sedative said

Caslon5000 said

Sedative said0 for the last 22 years...

Well, if you lowered your price. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ... oh I crack me up! ...

I don't have sex with poor people *sticks up nose*

it means, if you know your "price" and it's quite high - maybe you would never show big numbers.

i just don't care to digress for numbers. Sure, i like beautiful strangers - men and women - but not much than well designed cars (expensive sometimes )

I happen to know 90% of scenarios - what would be exactly the next thing and usually i find it boring to spawn..)

And, Sed, don't worry - the world only seems to be unproportional (i mean, you - 0, someone - 300+). As whole it keeps balance - many guys are working hard to compensate your 0

LOL. That's sweet, thank you. *hug*

I've only had one sex partner... Maybe because I'm not catholic anymore

haha...you ready??

1 woman

32 men


what can i say....i love sex....

MunchingZombie saidI lost count. Not that I am the town crotch or anything, I just stopped caring. If I had to guess, under a million.

Sounds right with me. I like to say that I have tried many different samples here. As for the average per week, it's normally 1-4 times a week since I turned 24. So I'm up there on the boards. That doesn't mean that I will sleep with anyone. I do have some standards.

11 men, gee I'm such a slut.

To many to or care to count.

In youth as many as I could and was able to.

Thinks it makes one a better sexual human being to explore a little and learn from others.

1,000...up till 2004 or so.

After that, I really stopped counting. Not that I counted much before but I had this same discussion with some friends in 2004. Rough guess. Maybe 1,000. But I grew up near San Francisco and started younger than most.

HIV- and have never had an STD. Healthy as a race horse and do not look back and wish I had done anything different. It has been a fun ride so far.

I look forward to the next 45 years. Should be fun.

Mikephil-

Why should it not be something guys are proud of? You have a problem with sex? Proud, not proud, that is for the individual to decide. Why judge?

If you have been with only one guy your whole life, that is awesome. I hope you are still with them. If it is one guy and it was sucking off the quarterback in high school then you lived a closeted life and now you have just come out, why is that a good thing? OK, you have only been with one guy. More power to you. But to denigrate guys cause that have been with multiple guys, maybe you should ask a few more questions before you get on a high horse. I have never been "straight" or even faked it. So, yes, my numbers might be higher than most. But I have lived a 45yo life pretty much totally open. I did not lose twenty years being married to a woman and hoping I was straight.

I also have been in two relationships, 8 years and 5 years, where I was completely monogamous.

Anyway, I find the judgement funny. It always comes from guys that can't get laid.

An average of 10 a year I'd say, over 32 sexually active years.
That's 320 different guys, or so.

This is a tough question... I stopped counting a few years ago so I'll have to guess...

Probably 130 men / 6 women

Ok, We'll bite. Bill and I are ever changing to each other, and exploring each other is fun. Sometimes if he's a fireman or I'm a policeman or we're strangers that meet up and make out etc. shouldn't that be considered the same as a stranger? (only more fun, we think). In which case, well over 3,000 encounters. Should we include the kinky stuff? heheh

I get tired of the judgemental answers. If people can't simply answer what was in the question than leave it alone. Some need to get a life.

I say fuck & suck till you drop and be as safe as possible and if in a relationship do what works for both of you.

To Infinity and Beyond ~buzz lightyear

i had about 150-200 from 13-20 usually once or twice with each ... and i regret that so much

I can't remember them all, there have been so many. This year I'm up to 11 different guys, four of them on several occasions. Since I'm having a lot of fun with my BF, I'm not as slutty as I used to be. I think I could get used to the monagamous thing.

I lost count , I would go around the figure of 90 that would be the most.

8 guys and now just my BF (10years now).

I fooled around with a few girls before I really started to attack men, but ended up sleeping with a new guy at least every three days for about a year and a half. I slept with a lot more than that on average, and had more than one guy a day pretty often. I didn't count, I didn't always catch names, and I certainly don't remember everyone. I usually had 5-10 guys on call for days that I couldn't find someone new. After a certain point, I started taking gifts and charging guys who wanted to see me more often. The whole thing is just kind of a blur of alcohol, cocks, drug rings, and desperate men.


Needless to say, I was a cock hungry, manipulative, anorexic piece of shit, and I am so glad that part of my life is over.

Does it really matter? It's all in the past, what matters is the future.

joarky123 saidJust wondering if I'm the only one out there not getting as much action as anyone else. How many sex partners have you guys had:

1. in total

and

2. average per _________
(insert random duration of time i.e. day, week, month, year)?

I've been having sex since I was 19(5 3/4 years ago) and my sexual activity is REALLY sporadic.

When I first moved out on my own, for the first 6 months, I was probably having sex maybe once a month... but i've also gone 9 or 10 months with no sex at all.

I would say it would average out, if you were to look across the last 6 years, to be 4 partners a year, for a total of 24.

2 women
and 32 guys.

For Humor:


You know you have an active Boy by two items in the Bedroom. A Deli Ticket Machine,and a Head Board that looks like th Golden Arches of McDonald's. a SIGN stating "BILLIONS SERVED"

Define sex partners~ Does a hand job or a blow job count? or is it just intercourse?

Anything sexual performed with you and not by yourself alone.

Then that number is too high to share~ But I did have a good time doing it, them~

Hagan_F saidTo quote an episode from one of my favorite TV shows: "Ballpark figure? Definitely less than a ballpark!"

Oh, and what is that Andie MacDowell says in Four Weddings and a Funeral? Something like, "More than Princess Di, less than Madonna"

I got a late start myself. I was off and running at a pretty good clip and BAM, I when and feel in love less than 10 guys into it.

First sex partner was a classmate named Gary, who taught me to jack off when I was 12. We had sex about once a month until we graduated.

In college I serviced my swimming teacher (a grad student) for almost three years, an average of twice a week.

Very little sex from age 24 till I was 31 and moved to Chicago. A friend introduced me to the baths and for a year I was at the Unicorn club once a week. Usually I had sex with two men per visit. One time I paid the fees for 24 hours and had sex many, many times, once serving as bottom boy for 5 men in a row. I must have sucked 20 men that time.

After that year, I got wise about STDs and thankfully stayed healthy. At the time it seemed so daring and erotic, but now I realize I acted this way because I was desperate, insecure and lonely. Now that I type and read these words, I am ashamed of my behavior during this period.

In the last 10 years I've had sex with only two men.

My total would probably be around 150 men. Gosh I am not proud of it.

Back to the question of "what counts as sex". If your doctor asks you how many sex partners, you don't need to list the guy you were sitting next to on the couch when you jacked your own dick.

Not sure the total number is really the important thing, or is it?
Just thinking that I had times where I was single and definitely had less sex and less enjoyment with more guys in total then other times, when I was in a monogamous relationship, and therefore probably had more sex, more fun but with only one guy?!

Sedative said0 for the last 22 years...

Ohh.. don't be so sad..

to all the people who've been with 100+ guys.... how do you not cower in fear of getting a disease? Statistically speaking, you've probably had sex with or hooked up with a guy with an STD.....

.... I'm not judging, but I wonder how it is that you dont have constant anxiety or worry about getting something? I haven't even 'slept' with one guy...but i've fooled around and even that makes me paranoid!

More than princess Di less than Madonna.

-stole that from 4 Weddings and a Funeral.

ZbmwM5 saidto all the people who've been with 100+ guys.... how do you not cower in fear of getting a disease? Statistically speaking, you've probably had sex with or hooked up with a guy with an STD.....

.... I'm not judging, but I wonder how it is that you dont have constant anxiety or worry about getting something? I haven't even 'slept' with one guy...but i've fooled around and even that makes me paranoid!

It only takes one person to give you an STD. If you are safe than things should be fine.

ZbmwM5 saidto all the people who've been with 100+ guys.... how do you not cower in fear of getting a disease? Statistically speaking, you've probably had sex with or hooked up with a guy with an STD.....

.... I'm not judging, but I wonder how it is that you dont have constant anxiety or worry about getting something? I haven't even 'slept' with one guy...but i've fooled around and even that makes me paranoid!

In life there are chances you take everyday. You educate yourself about what you can do to reduce risk than go with what makes you feel comfortable. This is not only true with sex but with a lot of everyday aspects of living.

Playing safe can be fun and disease free.

In total I would have to say 100 + never cared to count. Was just having fun!

And

About 1 a month if you don't count repeats

In total Ihave had sexwith 6 women and 47 men. I have sex with my now steady partner about 4 times per week

Well...i started when I was 20...averaged like 3-4/week..sometimes more (hey...i was in college...don't judge) until 2003 whne i got shipped off to Pakistan for further studies...averaging like 1/week or every 2 weeks depending. On my trips back to NY (July and December for 4 weeks each) i average 4-5/week. I'm 28 now so that would make a total of..IDK...alot??

Actually had this discussion with my best friend last year and she gasped and had a nightmare the same night.

Well I'm 23. I hate one night stands, so in total it's 5 people. 3 of those were LTR.

Since I started at 19, that's 1 per year? not bad!

you whores are awesome though! I live vicariously through you.

Only out 13 years, so not much of a track record for someone my age.

2 partners (1 died and I'm still with the second), monogamous while with them.

6 serious BFs, also monogamous while with them.

50+ club tricks? (Difficult to recall, and some were 3-somes & 4-somes, but I guess should count separately?)

Totally unknown number of gay bathhouse & guest house encounters. Grabbing a dick there is like shaking hands at a business convention.

Counting the bathhouse ones would skew the average daily count, but I think my individual maximum was 8 separate guys over a weekend car trip to and from Minneapolis, all bar tricks in Mpls and along the way.

I feel slutty now that I started adding them up and making a list, hahaha!

Are we talking full-on anal (or vaginal) penetration sex or "California sex" where it's sex if someone gets off?

I was kind of a dork and made an actual list to help me remember. Even though some of the first people on the list are labeles things like "that creepy guy that didn't look like his pic," or, "the guy that only talked about comic books".... hahaha! But yeah, I was separating "penetration" and BJ/JO only. I got an equal number on both sides of the line, haha!
So I am curious alongwith groundcombat... are you guys including just getting off with someone?

Total 14 men.. no women..

Oh gee.. sounds like a slut, still 18 yo and all of that sex partner happened in the last couple years when I started to come out...

But still 0 boyfriend..

my stats:

to be honest, i really love sex (i bottom only) and don't really care who fucks me.

i average about 1-2 different guys per week.

i have had as many as 12 in one week.

i have had as many as 7 different guys fuck me in one night (bottomed for a sex party)

average is about 90-100 men per year.

i rarely have sex with the same guy more than once or twice.

i have had sex with someone as young as 18 and as old as 75.

the max number of dicks i've had in my ass at one time is 2.

i've lost count how many guys i've had in my lifetime (age 32) but it is probably close to 1500.

joarky123 saidJust wondering if I'm the only one out there not getting as much action as anyone else. How many sex partners have you guys had:

1. in total

and

2. average per _________
(insert random duration of time i.e. day, week, month, year)?

When I was 30 something I wrote down the names of the guys I had been with so I wouldn't forget them. I Started at age 22 and had been with about 30-40 guys. From about 1989 for 12 years my left hand was my only sex bud. I threw the list away. I guess now I've been seeing one or two guys a year. Quality is better than Quantity. One brief time in my 20's I had sex with a different guy each friday and saturday night and that was the most emotionally numbing time. One good thing from this post might be that having alot of sexual partners doesn't make one feel better.

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