Extremely Attractive Guys!! Can you approach them? Are you intimidated by them?

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    Apr 13, 2012 12:54 PM GMT
    I always see guys that are extremely attractive; and in my mind think we would be hot together. However approaching them is another story. I never want to make them uncomfortable..
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    Apr 13, 2012 1:29 PM GMT
    That happens to me all the time too! It's like when a shy, nerdy guy approaches a girl he likes - it's intimidating. I try to watch what I say if they know I'm gay, or I try not to reveal my cover.
    I try to think away from thinking of us being together. It'll just save me from wanting them later. ;(
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    Apr 13, 2012 1:54 PM GMT
    Depends. I would say don't approach them. Most "extremely attractive" guys here are kinda full of themselves. By experience I rarely approach someone cause they tend to be rude and superficial.
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    Apr 13, 2012 2:04 PM GMT
    I carry a gun.
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    Apr 13, 2012 2:35 PM GMT
    Haaretz saidI carry a gun.


    Lol!
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    Apr 13, 2012 2:36 PM GMT
    Confidence and swag are attractive!
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    Apr 13, 2012 2:38 PM GMT
    I try not to let them intimidate me.
    Yeah they're great for decor, but they're human too, so they're just as likely to be insecure about things as the rest of us. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 13, 2012 2:42 PM GMT
    If I find a guy really really attractive I'm usually a total dick to them initially icon_lol.gif

    So I'm not intimidated but they sure as hell have an effect on me that I can't control which drives me mad more than anything.
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    Apr 13, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    Here in Bumblescum, Nowhere? If I see any I'll let you know...
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    Apr 13, 2012 2:47 PM GMT
    Please don't bother me with this silly thread. Go away.
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    Apr 13, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidChloroform. Always approach them from behind.

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    This and the gun idea are my favorite! Without a doubt.
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

    Über hot guys are human too, and have their issues.

    All things being equal though, I will probably gravitate to more average looking guys as the über-hots will tend to be higher maintenance and a bit more self-absorbed than your everyday standard issue gay man.
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:06 PM GMT
    I don't talk to strangers
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:07 PM GMT
    i Don't even stay near em... yes they intimidate
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:08 PM GMT
    AlphaTrigger said
    I will probably gravitate to more average looking guys as the über-hots will tend to be higher maintenance and a bit more self-absorbed than your everyday standard issue gay man.


    Same here man, that's the first thing that pop's into my head when I see an extremely good looking guy.
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:34 PM GMT
    Just remember pretty outside is almost always ugly inside, so they don't deserve to be on the pedestal you're putting them on. Know that they've got flaws unseen that would remove any intimidation once you knew them, and should be a piece o' cake.
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:36 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidJust remember pretty outside is almost always ugly inside, so they don't deserve to be on the pedestal you're putting them on. Know that they've got flaws unseen that would remove any intimidation once you knew them, and should be a piece o' cake.


    Or, using you as a prime example, we can see that what people look like on the outside has nothing to do on the inside. One, like skinnyB, can be ugly on the outside and the inside as well!
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:38 PM GMT
    If I find a guy attractive, I'll say something to him, sure. The worst that can happen is he's rude or ignores you, and then you just walk away. You never know unless you try, right?
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    whateveryo said
    AlphaTrigger said
    I will probably gravitate to more average looking guys as the über-hots will tend to be higher maintenance and a bit more self-absorbed than your everyday standard issue gay man.


    Same here man, that's the first thing that pop's into my head when I see an extremely good looking guy.
    Same here as well!
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:48 PM GMT
    I've tried to... but usually when a guy looks like a model, he or I better be drunk cause I can't handle people when they're good looking, mean &/or insecure about it. I'd rather a guy be good looking, like young Paul Newman; and blissfully so unaware he blossoms in other regards greater than his granted looks.
    Beauty like Humility is destroyed once some has become aware of the value it has for others, AND take Pride in it. Pride, can be a good thing, in other regards... imho.
    Nonchalant is the approach for handsome guys and dealing with them. Defuse any unnecessary tension by not giving a damn about what is the least important about talking to him anymore than once.
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    Apr 13, 2012 3:59 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    SkinnyBitch saidJust remember pretty outside is almost always ugly inside, so they don't deserve to be on the pedestal you're putting them on. Know that they've got flaws unseen that would remove any intimidation once you knew them, and should be a piece o' cake.


    Or, using you as a prime example, we can see that what people look like on the outside has nothing to do on the inside. One, like skinnyB, can be ugly on the outside and the inside as well!


    Nice to see you too, chainers.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 13, 2012 4:00 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    Chainers said
    SkinnyBitch saidJust remember pretty outside is almost always ugly inside, so they don't deserve to be on the pedestal you're putting them on. Know that they've got flaws unseen that would remove any intimidation once you knew them, and should be a piece o' cake.


    Or, using you as a prime example, we can see that what people look like on the outside has nothing to do on the inside. One, like skinnyB, can be ugly on the outside and the inside as well!


    Nice to see you too, chainers.icon_biggrin.gif


    Its never nice to see you.
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    Apr 13, 2012 4:08 PM GMT
    Extremely attractive guys and the cliques they run in scare the heck out of me. Its not something I notice in the smaller rural area that I live in, but every time I go to Seattle I'm blown away.
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    Apr 13, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    gymdude86 saidExtremely attractive guys and the cliques they run in scare the heck out of me. Its not something I notice in the smaller rural area that I live in, but every time I go to Seattle I'm blown away.


    YOU are way tooo Hot to be blown away by ANYthing.

    Certainly anything in Seattle.

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    Apr 13, 2012 4:20 PM GMT
    Yehoshua_B5917 said I'd rather a guy be good looking, like young Paul Newman; and blissfully so unaware he blossoms in other regards greater than his granted looks.
    True.

    The "I'm sexy and I know it" types are a big turnoff.

    The "Sexy and unaware of it" types are sooooo hot!!!!!!