Fisting, if you are a bottom why do it?

  • takashi

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    Apr 14, 2012 11:23 AM GMT
    The other day my partner started to finger me. First a couple of fingers and then all four fingers deep inside wiggling, invading my hole. Then my partner started to include his thumb into the situation. I could tell that this was leading to only one thing, fisting. I chickened out and wiggled free of his heat seaking fingers. We went back to making love.

    I am always amazed when a penis is deep inside me and love that sensation. It feels soooo intimate.

    But that is not the case for fingers and I guess a hand. Fisting I feel is all about domination. The top wants to put his hand inside his poor bottom. This is about control and imposing one's will against another. I guess that is why fisting is such an important act in SM.

    Still we were very close. My poor anus was being stretched to the limit. I watched some on-line videos of fisting after that just to see what its like. Once the widest part of the hand pushes through the hand goes in up to the wrist easily. The scary part seems to be taking it out but it looks like by that time the hole is so loose that it looks like it goes out easily.

    I have a feeling that my partner is going to do it eventually. He was so close the other day that I can sense that this is what he wants to do to me eventually. I just want to know what its like. hah, guess I will not know until he does it to me. I know I am chicken but next time I do not think he will let me go without penetrating me with his hand.

  • Apr 16, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    i agree that it's about domination. the real pleasure comes from being 'used' by the top and humilated by the aggressive invasion. not for me at all and never want to try it. but some men are practically addicted to it. seriously, guys who do that kind of thing pay the price in the future- no joke. the sphincter is a muscle that like all others needs muscle tone, u keep stretching the anal sphincter out in abnormal degrees and you will reach a point that it loses its elasticity. for real. then you will have to wear adult diapers or never leave the house because you won't be able to control your bowel movements.
  • bmoney1

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    Apr 16, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    Gross
  • spider

    Posts: 291

    Apr 22, 2017 10:47 PM GMT
    Sorry guys ive got to disa a
    gee.My partner and I are versatile and enjoy deep anal fisting. We find is a time of deep intamerce for us.And ass for making you loose this is a urban myth..after a decade of it im still nice and tight
  • JoeyBottom

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    Apr 26, 2017 10:56 PM GMT
    The pleasure is so intense! It can be about domination, but I don't think that's the rule, depends on the people involved. I find it very intimate and love every moment of it.
  • spider

    Posts: 291

    Apr 28, 2017 2:56 PM GMT
    Got to agree.The dominance may be for some but my partner and I are both versatile so for us fisting each other is al about intamsey
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    Apr 28, 2017 3:25 PM GMT
    I have never been fisted. I would like to, but I don't know what the experience would be. It sounds quite intimidating and painful but the idea of it turns me on.
  • spider

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    Apr 28, 2017 10:42 PM GMT
    ricky1987 saidI have never been fisted. I would like to, but I don't know what the experience would be. It sounds quite intimidating and painful but the idea of it turns me on.


    The key is plenty of foreplay and a lube made for fisting.Dont rush and lube ..lube and lube again. Douche to you run clear. Then find a top who is realy experienced in the art
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    Apr 29, 2017 6:26 PM GMT
    spider said
    ricky1987 saidI have never been fisted. I would like to, but I don't know what the experience would be. It sounds quite intimidating and painful but the idea of it turns me on.


    The key is plenty of foreplay and a lube made for fisting.Dont rush and lube ..lube and lube again. Douche to you run clear. Then find a top who is realy experienced in the art


    Two months ago, on a holiday, an Irish man had two of his fingers up mine. Oh God! It felt heavenly.
  • MuscledHorse

    Posts: 83

    Apr 30, 2017 12:37 PM GMT
    Why do I let guys slide their paws in me? Because the feeling is fucking amazing!!! It is a stimulation very different from a cock and it hits some hardcore pleasure circuits in the fuck hole and the prostate.
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    Apr 30, 2017 1:48 PM GMT
    As a Top who enjoys tight ass, I can honestly say this. Many bottoms want to know if they're ass feels tight, usually during sex though I am sure many could site different scenarios. Tops will very seldom tell you what you need to hear unless the sexual activity is completed and they are certain they don't want to entertain f***ing you another time. When guys get 'fisted' particularly with any regularity, for the guy who gets fisted to think they have tight ass, you are welcome to your own view but it's not your cock trying to throw a sausage down a hallway. There are numerous medical studies showing fisting has medical complications unless its done with extreme care and very rarely and Maximum recovery time too before you let anything go near your fisted hole. I have included some reading just to make sure people know I am not making it up. Personally, I think to each there own, I don't find it thrilling at all and I certainly don't want to bother f***ing someone who gets fisted (I am not talking about the one or two occasions many years ago which may happen to some people who are curious by nature and value experience via participation).

    1. http://sti.bmj.com/content/80/6/469
    2. https://www.gmfa.org.uk/fisting
    3. http://www.downandirty.org/site/sexualpractices/section/8/fisting?warningshown=true

    I could go on but I thought these examples would be enough to check over for a starter.
  • spider

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    May 05, 2017 11:34 AM GMT
    Its a matter of personal. Choice..one mans kink is anothers vanilla..I just simply cant get enough fist n being double fisted is simply ogasmic!