Fisting, if you are a bottom why do it?

  • takashi

    Posts: 192

    Apr 14, 2012 11:23 AM GMT
    The other day my partner started to finger me. First a couple of fingers and then all four fingers deep inside wiggling, invading my hole. Then my partner started to include his thumb into the situation. I could tell that this was leading to only one thing, fisting. I chickened out and wiggled free of his heat seaking fingers. We went back to making love.

    I am always amazed when a penis is deep inside me and love that sensation. It feels soooo intimate.

    But that is not the case for fingers and I guess a hand. Fisting I feel is all about domination. The top wants to put his hand inside his poor bottom. This is about control and imposing one's will against another. I guess that is why fisting is such an important act in SM.

    Still we were very close. My poor anus was being stretched to the limit. I watched some on-line videos of fisting after that just to see what its like. Once the widest part of the hand pushes through the hand goes in up to the wrist easily. The scary part seems to be taking it out but it looks like by that time the hole is so loose that it looks like it goes out easily.

    I have a feeling that my partner is going to do it eventually. He was so close the other day that I can sense that this is what he wants to do to me eventually. I just want to know what its like. hah, guess I will not know until he does it to me. I know I am chicken but next time I do not think he will let me go without penetrating me with his hand.

  • Apr 16, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    i agree that it's about domination. the real pleasure comes from being 'used' by the top and humilated by the aggressive invasion. not for me at all and never want to try it. but some men are practically addicted to it. seriously, guys who do that kind of thing pay the price in the future- no joke. the sphincter is a muscle that like all others needs muscle tone, u keep stretching the anal sphincter out in abnormal degrees and you will reach a point that it loses its elasticity. for real. then you will have to wear adult diapers or never leave the house because you won't be able to control your bowel movements.
  • bmoney1

    Posts: 244

    Apr 16, 2012 5:09 AM GMT