Fisting, if you are a bottom why do it?

  • takashi

    Posts: 192

    Apr 14, 2012 11:23 AM GMT
    The other day my partner started to finger me. First a couple of fingers and then all four fingers deep inside wiggling, invading my hole. Then my partner started to include his thumb into the situation. I could tell that this was leading to only one thing, fisting. I chickened out and wiggled free of his heat seaking fingers. We went back to making love.

    I am always amazed when a penis is deep inside me and love that sensation. It feels soooo intimate.

    But that is not the case for fingers and I guess a hand. Fisting I feel is all about domination. The top wants to put his hand inside his poor bottom. This is about control and imposing one's will against another. I guess that is why fisting is such an important act in SM.

    Still we were very close. My poor anus was being stretched to the limit. I watched some on-line videos of fisting after that just to see what its like. Once the widest part of the hand pushes through the hand goes in up to the wrist easily. The scary part seems to be taking it out but it looks like by that time the hole is so loose that it looks like it goes out easily.

    I have a feeling that my partner is going to do it eventually. He was so close the other day that I can sense that this is what he wants to do to me eventually. I just want to know what its like. hah, guess I will not know until he does it to me. I know I am chicken but next time I do not think he will let me go without penetrating me with his hand.

  • Apr 16, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    i agree that it's about domination. the real pleasure comes from being 'used' by the top and humilated by the aggressive invasion. not for me at all and never want to try it. but some men are practically addicted to it. seriously, guys who do that kind of thing pay the price in the future- no joke. the sphincter is a muscle that like all others needs muscle tone, u keep stretching the anal sphincter out in abnormal degrees and you will reach a point that it loses its elasticity. for real. then you will have to wear adult diapers or never leave the house because you won't be able to control your bowel movements.
  • bmoney1

    Posts: 244

    Apr 16, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    Gross
  • spider

    Posts: 62

    Apr 22, 2017 10:47 PM GMT
    Sorry guys ive got to disa a
    gee.My partner and I are versatile and enjoy deep anal fisting. We find is a time of deep intamerce for us.And ass for making you loose this is a urban myth..after a decade of it im still nice and tight
  • JoeyBottom

    Posts: 7

    Apr 26, 2017 10:56 PM GMT
    The pleasure is so intense! It can be about domination, but I don't think that's the rule, depends on the people involved. I find it very intimate and love every moment of it.
  • spider

    Posts: 62

    Apr 28, 2017 2:56 PM GMT
    Got to agree.The dominance may be for some but my partner and I are both versatile so for us fisting each other is al about intamsey
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    Apr 28, 2017 3:25 PM GMT
    I have never been fisted. I would like to, but I don't know what the experience would be. It sounds quite intimidating and painful but the idea of it turns me on.
  • spider

    Posts: 62

    Apr 28, 2017 10:42 PM GMT
    ricky1987 saidI have never been fisted. I would like to, but I don't know what the experience would be. It sounds quite intimidating and painful but the idea of it turns me on.


    The key is plenty of foreplay and a lube made for fisting.Dont rush and lube ..lube and lube again. Douche to you run clear. Then find a top who is realy experienced in the art