The Interest of a Certain Type

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    Apr 16, 2012 6:59 AM GMT
    Hey all,
    Why is it certain people are interested with certain type of other people. I, for one, have this love sick attraction towards Latino, Native American, and filipino dudes. I've grown up in a latino Black community with absolutley No whites whatssoever...I want to rule out any rascism and prejudice before I go on. Im niether Racist, nor Prejudice.

    I've also see in real life, some skinny guys like real fat fat FAT kind of guys? why is that? being gay/Bisexual is already a curious topic...but I've never noticed how different and diverse and deeper the idea of "a man" is for some other individuals. So...
    So I guess my actual question is why do some people choose to be with others who are so different then themselves or their community?

    Perhaps me being new tothis whole new mindset is just throwing me off? idk what do you guys think?
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    Apr 16, 2012 7:07 AM GMT
    Variety is the spice of life. People like to experiment. Even if guys aesthetic appearance doesn't match or make sense to you, thierpersonalities may meld well together. I like all types of guys.
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    Apr 16, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    It's what you've grown up around.. The prejudice comes in when you exclude white people just based on the fact they are white.

    It's pretty common (in that most people dont consider it prejudice, just "preference") but its still limiting imo. Don't knock us til you try us ;)
  • araphael

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    Apr 17, 2012 3:03 AM GMT
    My philosophy is: love whoever you want to love. We're attracted to certain guys, usually, because those were the kinda guys we had some of our first sexual experiences with or our first erotic love feelings towards. I don't think you can help it actually. I think our brains are hardwired that way or something. I know the first guy I ever had sex with, I'm still attracted to guys like him, even though I've hooked up with guys that were nothing like him. But I'm an open minded guy, a lot of people aren't when it comes to sex and eroticism.
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:18 AM GMT
    You don't 'choose' who turns you on
  • Bunjamon

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    Apr 17, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    Different strokes for different folks.
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:36 AM GMT
    I understand the "love sick attraction" to "filipino dudes." Some of them are crazy hot. We do have our own preferences (gay or straight), and there's nothing wrong with that. For example, I'm not attracted to effeminate "twinks" in general-- I accept it, I acknowledge it, and I'm unapologetic about it. I'm certain that there are tons of gay guys that don't like my physical attributes as well. I can't force them to like me any more than I can force myself to like those to whom I'm not physically attracted.
  • spinningguy

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    Apr 17, 2012 3:40 AM GMT
    In my opinion its all chemical...I find short guys extremely hot. That doesn't mean that I rule out tall guys its just what I am predisposed to find attractive.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    My preferences can vary widely, but they tend to centre on a few key points - a tight, round clean ass, a kinky streak, and a willingness to completely let go in bed and be used, dominated, and pleasured with total abandon.

    Though I probably find myself trending toward Mediterranean/Latino/Asian men (though lately I've had some hot ass black men who needed some ass-stretching icon_wink.gif )

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    Apr 17, 2012 4:06 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidbeauty is in the eye of the beholder



    Couldn't be said better. Sometimes when I see a couple and one member of it is way hotter (to me at least) than the other, I wonder "why!!!!" But then again, there must be a reason why they are together. Maybe it's emotional, spiritual, or maybe even physical. But at the end, they are together because they like each other. Sometimes I find a guy super attractive but my friends would they I have weird taste. And I say the same thing about my friends sometimes. Just different taste.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:27 AM GMT
    i like all types of guys
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    as a gay john tucker might say...what is my type? GUY is my Type.


    I like guys who are not that attractive but are...um, like an ugly pretty. If you catch my drift. Idk also if he is deaf its kind of a big turn on..:N is that weird.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:49 AM GMT
    LilPuppet saidI like guys who are not that attractive but are...um, like an ugly pretty. If you catch my drift. Idk also if he is deaf its kind of a big turn on..:N is that weird.


    I think you need to elaborate