Welcome here dude! As I can read , you live in Brisbane! I used to live over there. You are a lucky guy, and wont be difficult to find thing to do and explore what you want to explore! Dont be shy, this site is very nice, and people will be happy to discuss with you!
Famous last words... This post is destined to die unnoticed after a predictable round of flames (complete with gif's) and general hatin'. Surely you realize that this is a Gay site. But take heart, OP, some that glimmers is gold.
don't think of your possible partners as.. dicks, but as interesting human beings with whom you can enjoy intimacy. leave the sex on the second role..focus on personality. a little romance helps the beginnings