ARE YOU SINGLE CUZ YOU WANNA BE?

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    Apr 17, 2012 12:19 AM GMT
    I've been single for quite some time now (approx. 4 years). People ask me all the time, "Why are you single?" or "Don't you want to be with someone?"

    Truth is, I actually like being single. I've become more independent over the years and I don't think that's a bad thing. But, I've also become picky. I'm not for settling down with someone just for the sake of settling down or having a bf. I will get with someone when I'm ready, and feel he is right for me and what I want out of a relationship that could be worth something special down the road.

    What about you single men? Are you single cuz you wanna be or have you not found someone you want to be with yet? Or maybe you're fresh on the rebound? Or maybe other reasons?
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    Apr 17, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    Yes.
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    Apr 17, 2012 12:30 AM GMT
    Yes. Sort of. There have been times when I've preferred to be single. Problem is that I can just turn it on and off when I want. It doesn't work that way.
  • mizu5

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    Apr 17, 2012 12:50 AM GMT
    Es and no. Yes I am choosing to be single but only because I haven't found anyone that wants to date me, just fuck.


    I'd rather be with someone but this year is about me. Fixing me.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:07 AM GMT
    Although I really do want to meet 'Mr. Right' and would love to be in a relationship, sometimes I think that my standards are too high. But, I'm not yet desperate enough to lower my expectations; maybe down the line. The sad part is, I met someone I'd love to be with and I keep comparing everyone else with him. Ke sara sara...
  • socalisurfer

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    Apr 17, 2012 2:11 AM GMT
    Yeah. I like being single, happy with my life and happy with myself. It takes a lot for me to get into a relationship. I just cant jump into one. I'd rather be single and happy than miserable with the wrong person.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:54 AM GMT
    Yea single is the best thing. No commitment, no wasted time, no drama. Everything is about you you you. You can call that selfish I guess hehe.

    In my situation, I'm single, but I have a friend with benefits. We get together about every week or so, to hang out and maybe sleep together after. We said that we're definitely not a couple and can look around until we're in a relationship with someone. So, in the mean time, he's my source for when I'm yearning for hug or fuck. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:57 AM GMT
    i don't know
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    According to another forum post its cuz I'm "extremely attractive " hehe. Seriously, I'm too shy to ask anyone out. Its sad really.
  • Slickdog21

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    Apr 17, 2012 3:05 AM GMT
    Yes and no. I'm single and I like it, so I'm not really looking for a relationship at the moment. I wouldn't mind being in one though. Haha icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    wonofakind said Are you single cuz you wanna be or have you not found someone you want to be with yet? Or maybe other reasons?


    Single and seriously spoiled by the freedom it allows, but still looking and hopeful. Just haven't found the *right* someone yet, but I know he's out there. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    I don't think I am capable of being in a relationship - I am way too self-fish. I really enjoy being able to determine when I want to have my "me time" without having to get permission from another person.
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    YES, IF I WASN'T SINGLE I COULDN'T TYPE LIKE THIS.
  • MCVA

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    Apr 17, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    There is a lot to gain through being single. Just depends on what your focus is in life at a given moment.

    Wouldn't mind knowing what its like to have someone care for me though. Maybe one day. icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:12 AM GMT
    right now I'm choosing to be single, yes. That's after being rejected a couple of times lately haha
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:17 AM GMT
    I dont want to be single but I am. I'm just the type that people just dont want to get into a relationship with. The only people that talk to me are big people, old people, and the ones that are just desperate to get with anybody which looks like the road I am going down on lol. I dont know if I am becoming comfortable with it because it does not look like it is going change anytime soon but hey life moves on. Been dealing with it all this time now no need to change I guess. Oh and that means that I have not done any random hookups. icon_neutral.gif
  • MCVA

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    Apr 17, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    k3l3k0 saidright now I'm choosing to be single, yes. That's after being rejected a couple of times lately haha


    lol icon_smile.gif nice.
  • GAYBIGMACHODU...

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    Apr 17, 2012 4:00 AM GMT
    Yes,I am single because I want to be.i love being single alot.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    hell yes, i know what i want and only when i find that will i even consider otherwise icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    I don't see the problem in being single: the sense of independence and autonomy, freedom and ease ... but being lonesome is a different thing, especially on Sundays, when everyone's busy. Point is; the older you get, the fewer concessions you grant, so chances are reduced when you reach maturity (and it's then when you need it most)
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    Yes and no for me.
    I choose to be single because I'm hoping to have another chance with the guys I've dated for a few months last year.
    No... because I've found a right partner yet icon_razz.gif
  • kennyj08

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    Apr 17, 2012 4:24 AM GMT
    mizu5 saidEs and no. Yes I am choosing to be single but only because I haven't found anyone that wants to date me, just fuck.


    I'd rather be with someone but this year is about me. Fixing me.


    ^^^^^ THIS
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    well, i prefer to stay alone, I feel like im becoming more independent like before and that's good for me i can say. When i hit someone that i like sometimes i feel so annoyed by him and id like to stay alone and do my own stuffs.However, its kinda hard to find someone that has the same variety as you so my view its better to concentrate on myself for now...
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    Single, because I wont settle. Ideally, I'll someday stumble across someone who would eventually consider spending the rest of their life with me. One of my biggest fears is growing old alone. I don't think it's something that has to be resolved in my 20's though.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    JPtheBITCH saidI am single because I genuinely believe---after three long relationships---that i am very hard to put up with.


    Putting down the gun might help. icon_confused.gif