Alpha13 saidIt's because fetish is driving your sexual desire not what is normally called a human relationship. It's kinda typical in gay men that incidental stuff triggers lust. Its also contradictory to the belief that we are "born this way" . How could a gay man be born having a thing for leather, jock straps and guys that live a thousand miles away?
Wtf? That made almost no sense, and the part that made sense was just stupid. Of course people arent BORN with fetishes. They develop and manifest over time with experience and exposure. For example, I find underwear sexy because I see a lot of hot guys posing in underwear. I dislike sm because as I grew up I noticed that I dont like pain. And what kind of fool has a FETISH for long distance RELATIONSHIPS? You can have a fetish for foreigns guys, or guys whose type arent found in your area, but not a fetish for the fact that they live far away, or the relationship itself. Lastly what is the "it" you are referring to?