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    Apr 17, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    How many of you have experienced this. The guy shows interest in you. You exchanged a few emails and then they are gone forever.

    What gives, this happens all the time, is it just me or others experience this flakiness?
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    Apr 17, 2012 1:32 AM GMT
    graphicabc saidHow many of you have experienced this. The guy shows interest in you. You exchanged a few emails and then they are gone forever.
    Nope, never experienced that. But I've done it to others. icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 1:39 AM GMT
    Maybe someones just not that interested.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:08 AM GMT
    they show interest big time and it is not like I say anything that turns them off, I think, its like kids in a candy store, they get distracted by the next guy who writes to them. So sad.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:08 AM GMT
    Don't we all drop guys after a few e-mails in realizing that they're def not for us? I mean, the guy made it easy for you!
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:10 AM GMT
    I am not complaining, just curious if this is the norm.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    I'd say it's definitely the norm. Gay guys are much more blunt and direct, and almost vicious, in the way that they look for men. Straight up ignoring, on purpose, is pretty damn common. I've even called guys out on it pretty quickly. When I used to have a GrindR...

    "Okay if you're not interested don't ignore me, I know you will -- instead, let's shmoke a bowl and be friends?"

    Still get ignored sometimes ;)

    Of course, they could just be anti-420 icon_razz.gif but...the temptation to ignore is just high and easy to carry out - ah wellz.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    Yes, it is the norm.
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:12 AM GMT
    It's the norm but I personally prefer to politely tell people that I'm not interested in them. Takes the guess work out of things.
    We're men not mind-readers icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    Maybe the guys you've been meeting are impatient. I'm one of those. If I don't seal the deal within 3-5 email messages, I disappear into thin air. Life is too short.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    The rising and setting of the sun is less consistent than the golden rule that guys WILL flake out and disappear.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidThe rising and setting of the sun is less consistent than the golden rule that guys WILL flake out and disappear.


    It's true.

    No matter what - they always chew through the ropes and make a clean break.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
    JPtheBITCH saidWho is this Norm you all keep talking about? Is he hot?


    He's married.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Ariodante saidThe rising and setting of the sun is less consistent than the golden rule that guys WILL flake out and disappear.


    It's true.

    No matter what - they always chew through the ropes and make a clean break.


    Sometimes I sit in the dark and watch them gnaw off their thumbs to free the shackles. It's the little pleasures in life that bring our hearts the warmest of joys.
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    Apr 17, 2012 4:48 AM GMT
    yip, happens to me all the time. you're just chatting away thinking everything is going great and then they just don't replay or block you
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    Apr 17, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    I totally do this shit. I mean I used to say I'm not interested or whatever, but now I just don't care anymore. I've had the same online conversation with hundreds of people and if it's not going anywhere I'm just gonna forget about it. I can only explain how my day's going or what I'm up to so many times before I want to shoot myself. I think the reason why I started though is cus people did it to me and I learned to get over it.
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    Apr 17, 2012 5:02 AM GMT
    SkittleGangsta saidI can only explain how my day's going or what I'm up to so many times before I want to shoot myself.


    This needs to be framed on the RJ homepage.
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    Apr 17, 2012 9:38 AM GMT
    graphicabc saidI am not complaining, just curious if this is the norm.


    i had it happened, i think it might be that once u talked back and forth with emails and didnt see much chemistry even if it could be there in person. And maybe someone hotter talked to them.
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    Apr 17, 2012 9:55 AM GMT
    It's happened to me many times but I haven't done it. Even if not interested in dating I make an effort to at least get to know the person otherwise, i'd wasted my time. icon_biggrin.gif