I think You're The Best Thing That's Ever Happened To Me...

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    Apr 17, 2012 12:25 PM GMT
    ...Now if i could just say it to his face...

    (naa i'll just use the forums to shout it to the world where nobody knows WTF i'm talking about)
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    Apr 17, 2012 12:56 PM GMT
    or on his face
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    Apr 17, 2012 12:56 PM GMT
    The_Dollarwine said...Now if i could just say it to his face...

    (naa i'll just use the forums to shout it to the world where nobody knows WTF i'm talking about)


    And so.. what are you afraid of- what do you think his reply will be?
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    Apr 17, 2012 1:36 PM GMT
    adam228 saidor on his face
    I like the way you think. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 1:45 PM GMT
    If someone said that to me and he truly meant it, I'd marry him in a split second. Say it to his face and see where it leads.
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    Apr 17, 2012 1:47 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidIf someone said that to me and he truly meant it, I'd marry him in a split second. Say it to his face and see where it leads.


    youre the best thing that has ever happened to me.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:18 PM GMT
    Just make sure that your prepared if the other person doesn't feel the same way...recently went through the same thing and "wa wa waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa" it was a heartbreakericon_confused.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:32 PM GMT
    I think if someone told me that, it would scare me off.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:44 PM GMT
    well we are friends... i'm just afraid of scaring him off...it's just how he makes me feel... like... WOW...lol

    it's some serious Alexithymia
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:47 PM GMT
    Emesis54 saidI think if someone told me that, it would scare me off.
    Good to know. Just let your next boyfriend know that deliberate signs of affection will make you dump him. I'm sure he'll be so relieved and just be content bottling his feeling.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:47 PM GMT
    The_Dollarwine saidwell we are friends... i'm just afraid of scaring him off...it's just how he makes me feel... like... WOW...lol

    it's some serious Alexithymia

    TOTALLY RELATE! Tell him and get it over with then you can decide what to do next!
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    dude i wouldn't say that.... icon_confused.gif

    just appreciate what u have, no need to spill ur guts, jeeeez
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:49 PM GMT
    Import saiddude i wouldn't say that.... icon_confused.gif

    just appreciate what u have, no need to spill ur guts, jeeeez


    that's why i SPilgurgitate my guts here... even though...
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    The best advice I can give is to just tell him straight up, but let him know that if he doesnt feel the same way, you'll be alright. The main focus here is to keep your friendship in tact. If he rejects you, just say alright, that's okay I'm glad we talked about this. And then move on with your friendship. Keep doing whatever it is you like to do together.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:53 PM GMT
    The_Dollarwine said
    Import saiddude i wouldn't say that.... icon_confused.gif

    just appreciate what u have, no need to spill ur guts, jeeeez


    that's why i SPilgurgitate my guts here... even though...


    which is fine.

    but if u were to say that to him ... it may make him feel obligated to say something similar back to you out of politeness or awkwardness because he doesn't know what to say...... and then he gets YOU thinking he really feels the same way toward you, when maybe he doesn't?...

    but then again maybe he DOES feel the same way toward you, however I wouldn't outright say "oh hunni! you're just the best thing that ever happened to me!"

    ugh, it makes it sound like not many good things happen to you, no offense
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:53 PM GMT
    AeroNalex saidThe best advice I can give is to just tell him straight up, but let him know that if he doesnt feel the same way, you'll be alright. The main focus here is to keep your friendship in tact. If he rejects you, just say alright, that's okay I'm glad we talked about this. And then move on with your friendship. Keep doing whatever it is you like to do together.

    Speaking from experience tho, that can be so hard to still hangout with someone who's rejected you yet you have feelings for them.
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:57 PM GMT
    fhaynie81 said
    AeroNalex saidThe best advice I can give is to just tell him straight up, but let him know that if he doesnt feel the same way, you'll be alright. The main focus here is to keep your friendship in tact. If he rejects you, just say alright, that's okay I'm glad we talked about this. And then move on with your friendship. Keep doing whatever it is you like to do together.

    Speaking from experience tho, that can be so hard to still hangout with someone who's rejected you yet you have feelings for them.


    i don't think it would be for us...
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    Apr 17, 2012 2:59 PM GMT
    fhaynie81 said
    AeroNalex saidThe best advice I can give is to just tell him straight up, but let him know that if he doesnt feel the same way, you'll be alright. The main focus here is to keep your friendship in tact. If he rejects you, just say alright, that's okay I'm glad we talked about this. And then move on with your friendship. Keep doing whatever it is you like to do together.

    Speaking from experience tho, that can be so hard to still hangout with someone who's rejected you yet you have feelings for them.
    Then dont say "You're the best thing that ever happened to me". Its too heavy. He's your friend so bring up your relationship casually. Look for a segway into the topic. You can phrase your words so that neither of you gets too hurt.
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    Apr 17, 2012 3:01 PM GMT
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    Emesis54 saidI think if someone told me that, it would scare me off.
    Good to know. Just let your next boyfriend know that deliberate signs of affection will make you dump him. I'm sure he'll be so relieved and just be content bottling his feeling.


    I like deliberate signs of affection. Saying things like "I'll love you forever" and "I knew you were the one I was meant to be with from the moment I laid eyes on you" just is hard for me to take. I guess I like affection to be practical, real, and the words we say to each other to be reliable... I hate getting all caught up in feelings with a guy. I love the feelings, I really do, and I love to hear that kind of thing, but I'm paranoid that if things don't last, that our words won't have meant anything. I'd rather say what I actually feel in light of reality... IDK. Maybe I'm f***ed up.
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    Apr 17, 2012 5:21 PM GMT
    Could always just play the song and see what he says afterwards...

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    Apr 17, 2012 6:02 PM GMT
    NJVetteGuy77 saidCould always just play the song and see what he says afterwards...



    HOUSE REEEEMMIIIIIIIIIIIIIXXXXXXX!!!!! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 17, 2012 7:08 PM GMT
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    adam228 saidor on his face
    Eww...


    I know, and then he still would not hear it. is this another case of a gay guy falling for forbidden fruit, a straight lad?

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    Apr 17, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
    Import said
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    Import saiddude i wouldn't say that.... icon_confused.gif

    just appreciate what u have, no need to spill ur guts, jeeeez


    that's why i SPilgurgitate my guts here... even though...


    which is fine.

    but if u were to say that to him ... it may make him feel obligated to say something similar back to you out of politeness or awkwardness because he doesn't know what to say...... and then he gets YOU thinking he really feels the same way toward you, when maybe he doesn't?...

    but then again maybe he DOES feel the same way toward you, however I wouldn't outright say "oh hunni! you're just the best thing that ever happened to me!"

    ugh, it makes it sound like not many good things happen to you, no offense


    despite Import's other posts today, I think he might be on the mark with this one
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    Apr 17, 2012 10:53 PM GMT
    TrueBlueAussie said
    Trollileo said
    adam228 saidor on his face
    Eww...


    I know, and then he still would not hear it. is this another case of a gay guy falling for forbidden fruit, a straight lad?



    oh he's not straight, he's bi too
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    Apr 17, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    My last boyfriend told me I was the best thing that ever happened to him on our second date.
    Followed by something to the affect of, "I know what I want and I want to spend my life with you."
    ...it was a little scary but I ran with it... I'd do it again, even though it was a hot mess of a relationship.

    If it doesn't work out at least you can say, He broke your heart instead of you broke your own for not trying.
    Nothing is worse than the regret of action not taken.


    ...especially in matters of the heart.