What did I say wrong?

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    Apr 19, 2012 4:50 AM GMT
    Got a hot listing recently and everything seemed to go well...but then...
    The conversation went something like this (from the bottom up)
    "----Apr 19, 2012 at 6:12 AM

    Woah, buddy, relax...if you actually try NOT to take offence you would see that I was actually agreeing with you on being bluntly honest. Seriously though, if you had a bad experience with someone else on this site, dont generalize and treat me like one of them, you have no idea about my life and what I have been through...dont judge me. I am by no means a big shot, I dont treat people as beneath me. Some advice, sort your issues out

    ----Apr 18, 2012 at 6:50 PM

    I take that back, for the nasty
    patronising.
    Patronisers are not hot, they are evil
    and horrible. Im leaving this useless
    site anyway. so don't bother with
    your nastiness.

    ----Apr 18, 2012 at 6:43 PM
    Rubbish. stop hating. I have had enough of evil queens. and rubbish talk. DONT OUTCAST ME. I have enough of that already..... so stop laughing.

    lets let it go huh? I am sick of big shots like you. i have two shits next door.. I don't need it here.

    ----Apr 16, 2012 at 3:00 AM
    Hahaha I can see that from your profile, but its cool. There are far too many people that only say what people want to hear.

    ----Apr 15, 2012 at 12:07 PM
    Hey there.

    Thats OK. its a pleasure, because its true. Im just bluntly honest.


    ----Apr 14, 2012 at 6:25 PM
    Hey there, thnx for the hotlisting

    ----Mar 13, 2012 at 7:18 PM

    This message has been generated by the RealJock system because I have hot listed you."

    What did I say!?
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    Apr 19, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    Sounds like someone is on their period.
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    Apr 19, 2012 4:58 AM GMT

    Hmmm...

    ..he said he was bluntly honest.

    So you said you could see that reading his profile, but that it was cool
    (meaning you like that), because you feel too many say only what they think people want to hear.

    Things seemed to go go south at that point, even though I think you gave him a compliment.

    -Doug
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    Apr 19, 2012 4:59 AM GMT
    You didn't do anything wrong. But unless you're actually interested in talking to a guy, you probably shouldn't reply after sending the "thanks for the hotlist" message. Oftentimes, it doesn't end well when you do.
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    Apr 19, 2012 6:34 AM GMT
    9597888.jpg

    is what that dude didn't do
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    Apr 19, 2012 6:41 AM GMT
    I thought I was going to have to post something about "lost in Internet translation" or in other words, things get taken the wrong way when you read them online. In this case, he would have had to completely misread your message to flip out like that. Don't worry about it. I can't see anything that you did wrong.
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    Apr 19, 2012 1:33 PM GMT
    I think facebook is really helping people to communicate with each other.
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    Apr 19, 2012 1:54 PM GMT
    Drama queen looking for attention...take the hotlisting and move on.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 19, 2012 8:03 PM GMT
    The 3 am posting is vague since we can't see what's on his profile, but as a whole it doesn't appear that you did anything wrong. There are some people who just like to cause a stir so I wouldn't even give it a second thought.
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    Apr 19, 2012 11:46 PM GMT
    unfounded7 saidYou didn't do anything wrong. But unless you're actually interested in talking to a guy, you probably shouldn't reply after sending the "thanks for the hotlist" message. Oftentimes, it doesn't end well when you do.



    Excellent advice.

    I will also say that it's extremely easy to be misunderstood when attempting to communicate, on line.

    Never the less, they other guy seems like an angry jerk.

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    Apr 19, 2012 11:54 PM GMT
    Guy is a lunatic on the internet icon_smile.gif. Let it go.
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    Apr 20, 2012 3:05 AM GMT
    theantijock saidI think facebook is really helping people to communicate with each other.
    Clearly on RealJock though.
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    May 05, 2012 7:42 AM GMT
    Thnx for all the comments and advice, will certainly use most of it