Is it wrong to date 2 guys at the same time ?

  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Apr 19, 2012 5:05 AM GMT
    Is it rude to date 2 guys at the same time?
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    Apr 19, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    Whats your opinion OP?
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    Apr 19, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    Depends on your concept of the term "dating."
    Trying to feel out how you feel about this guy? Sure, why not.
    Serious relationship with both? No
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    Apr 19, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
    TheSoccerOne saidDepends on your concept of the term "dating."
    Trying to feel out how you feel about this guy? Sure, why not.
    Serious relationship with both? No
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    Apr 19, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    That is called cheating...
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    Apr 19, 2012 5:17 AM GMT
    I should clarify. Test out How you feel about both. No, if you are serious with one already. And no means don't do it, not no it's not rude.
  • Pontifex

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    Apr 19, 2012 5:20 AM GMT
    would you call either of them a boyfriend?
    If yes, then it is definitely not ok.

    I only date one guy at a time. If I found out a guy I was interested in was seeing another guy I'd think he wasn't that interested in me and I'd move on to another.
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    Apr 19, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    Ummm, that's what "dating" is. You "date" as many people as you want until you find someone you want to be exclusive with. Then you stop dating and talk about terms of the relationship.
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    Apr 19, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidUmmm, that's what "dating" is. You "date" as many people as you want until you find someone you want to be exclusive with. Then you stop dating and talk about terms of the relationship.


    Dating tends to be used loosely. "yeah, we are dating" tends to be used more often than "yeah, we are boyfriends" or "we are exclusive" or if someone asks "are you two dating?"
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    Apr 19, 2012 6:53 AM GMT
    I go on multiple first/second dates w/ many different guys at once. The person I connect most strongly with, I choose to pursue further and bid farewell to others.

    Dont really see a problem with it. It's dating, not marriage. Things change after you start calling each other BF, or agree to remain exclusive.
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    Apr 19, 2012 7:16 AM GMT
    MarcBodybuilding saidIs it rude to date 2 guys at the same time?


    Is this another hypothetical question?

    It's not rude if everyone in the situation is aware of the arrangement. It's more than rude if you're being dishonest and playing the field while making the other person or people think you're exclusive.

    For me, I can handle going on casual dates with more than one person until I get to know the people better. Once I'm ready to date someone more seriously, then it's only one guy for me. (Not that this scenario has come up a lot in my lifetime anyway.)
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    Apr 19, 2012 11:01 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA said
    MarcBodybuilding saidIs it rude to date 2 guys at the same time?


    Is this another hypothetical question?

    It's not rude if everyone in the situation is aware of the arrangement. It's more than rude if you're being dishonest and playing the field while making the other person or people think you're exclusive.

    For me, I can handle going on casual dates with more than one person until I get to know the people better. Once I'm ready to date someone more seriously, then it's only one guy for me. (Not that this scenario has come up a lot in my lifetime anyway.)
    ^^ This. If you can't communicate with someone about something as simple as this, then that person probably isn't for you (or you aren't ready to be in a relationship at this point in time).
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    Apr 19, 2012 11:38 AM GMT
    It's not 'wrong' but I think it's a little weird.

    I date people pretty much one at a time, unless I happen to have one or two dates at the beginning, with two people, at the same time. But then one of them has to go.... I cant keep that up. So for me its only ok for a couple/few weeks and then someone's gotta get crossed off the list. It's just not proper to keep it going for a long time, if you ask me.
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    Apr 19, 2012 11:48 AM GMT
    You wouldn't ask, if you wouldn't think that it is wrong.
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    Apr 19, 2012 12:00 PM GMT
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    Apr 19, 2012 12:00 PM GMT
    Casual dating is not a problem. I've dated guys who were openly dating another guy at the same time. I didn't mind. Either he'd pick me or the other guy to be his BF. I hoped it would be me, but hey, I can't twist his arm. Dating is often like a beauty contest, with winners and runners-up.

    (In one case he's still dating, 8 years after I first met him, and at 60 has never had an LTR in his life, man or woman. Beware of the guy who can't make up his mind, and keeps waiting for the most perfect guy in the world, which he's unlikely to ever meet)
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    Apr 19, 2012 12:29 PM GMT
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    agreed
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    Apr 19, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidCasual dating is not a problem. I've dated guys who were openly dating another guy at the same time. I didn't mind. Either he'd pick me or the other guy to be his BF. I hoped it would be me, but hey, I can't twist his arm. Dating is often like a beauty contest, with winners and runners-up.

    (In one case he's still dating, 8 years after I first met him, and at 60 has never had an LTR in his life, man or woman. Beware of the guy who can't make up his mind, and keeps waiting for the most perfect guy in the world, which he's unlikely to ever meet)


    love the analogy... queens and tiaras
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    Apr 19, 2012 12:53 PM GMT
    Not at all, provided the relationships are all at a "non exclusive" status... maybe
    new and with no strings. When you start dating as a single guy, does one or two dates yield marriage? LOL. Seriously, I think dating multiple guys isn't a problem unless you convey a serious intent (of exclusivity) and do.. things in a different way.
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    Apr 19, 2012 12:54 PM GMT
    Casual dating is just that...casual.

    But once an agreement has been made that you are exclusive, yes, at that point it is wrong.
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    Apr 19, 2012 12:55 PM GMT
    Define "dating." The term means different things to people. As long as everyone knows what's going on, then there won't be any surprises or hurt feelings.
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    Apr 19, 2012 1:06 PM GMT
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    Art_Deco saidCasual dating is not a problem. I've dated guys who were openly dating another guy at the same time. I didn't mind. Either he'd pick me or the other guy to be his BF. I hoped it would be me, but hey, I can't twist his arm. Dating is often like a beauty contest, with winners and runners-up.

    (In one case he's still dating, 8 years after I first met him, and at 60 has never had an LTR in his life, man or woman. Beware of the guy who can't make up his mind, and keeps waiting for the most perfect guy in the world, which he's unlikely to ever meet)

    love the analogy... queens and tiaras

    Well, the guy either picks you or he doesn't. Just like you pick him.

    Yeah, it's a kinda a beauty contest, or a talent contest, or whatever. But in the end, you're either a winner or a runner-up. And so is he.

    So if you & he don't get to walk down the runway together, you move on to the next contest. And the more times you enter the competition, or buy the raffle tickets, the better your chances are.

    At least that's how I always approached it. Disappointment today, the Big Prize tomorrow. And I've managed to win it more than once. But then I've bought a helluva lot of tickets. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 19, 2012 1:31 PM GMT

    Yess Its very very WRONG!

    Unless your are that Britney who sing 1..2..3 with Peter Paul and Mary.