First time?

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    Apr 19, 2012 7:52 AM GMT
    I recently just started to be attracted to guys. I'm bisexual and I am a very curious guy. I always wanted to know how it is to be with a guy? How was your first time? Anyone interested? Haha but no, I always wanted to be held by a guy and spend the night. Js..
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    Apr 19, 2012 12:27 PM GMT
    I think you're just plain old boring gay.

    Try to move through your BI stage as quickly as you can. The longer you keep having sex with females the longer it will take you to just admit to yourself that you are gay. The sooner you accept your gayness, the sooner everyone else can. And it's not helpful to the poor girl involved.

    It's very common for young gay guys to identify as bi.

    But it's the strong attraction to a man and the pull of wanting to be close to him, physically and emotionally that you say you've "always wanted" that tells me you're ready to make the leap.

    My first time was with a friend. Myself,him and his girlfriend went on a weekend away. I woke up to him sucking my cock and jerking me off till I blew. I was shocked but it felt better than any girl that had ever touched me. After the weekend away I had to try it a few more times without the GF around.

    The second time was the first time I kissed a guy. It was a life changing experience.

    All my mixed feelings about sex and sexuality started to make sense. I understood why I loved swimming with my P.E teacher as an eight year old. And why I liked looking through the holes in the showers at the beach.( I now know what they are used for.lol).

    Good luck in your gay quest.

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    Apr 19, 2012 1:35 PM GMT
    numbat saidI think you're just plain old boring gay.


    Just who are you to tell this guy what his sexual identity is? It's small-minded and arrogant (not to mention unhelpful to the OP) for you to be completely dismissive of the notion of bisexuality.
  • vacyclist

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    Apr 19, 2012 3:39 PM GMT
    You said it well, Shawnathan, thanks!
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    Apr 20, 2012 9:43 AM GMT
    Curious10 saidI always wanted to be held by a guy and spend the night. Js..


    That's my new thing now. I don't even want to go home with a guy and have sex anymore. I just like to cuddle.

    It'd be nice to meet more guys like you. New. Curious, but not confused though. And just take it slow. Like it was back in 2005.

    numbat said understood why I loved swimming with my P.E teacher as an eight year old.


    You spoiled bitch. I would have creamed myself seeing my 4th grade PE teach with the muscles take his shirt off. It was weird though, it was more of a feeling of jealousy than attraction. When you're that young, sexual attraction is absent...you just hate all the cute ones LOL. But in actuality, you want them so bad!